Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast cover
Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast cover
Leading with integrity: Leadership talk

Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast

Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast

1h11 |19/11/2025
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Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast cover
Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast cover
Leading with integrity: Leadership talk

Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast

Ep.197: Don’t Be Yourself; The Limits of Authenticity, and Leading with Your Best Self, with Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic | Leadership Podcast

1h11 |19/11/2025
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We've all heard it: "Just Be Yourself". But is this actually the WORST piece of advice you've ever heard? Maybe... here's why...

I'm joined this week by Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, an organizational psychologist and author of 15 books, including his latest "Don’t Be Yourself: Why Authenticity is Overrated and What to Do Instead."

We'll be talking about nuances and complexities of authenticity, in your life, career, and in leadership. Tomas critiques the mainstream understanding of authenticity, and why being yourself isn't always that helpful, and how an understanding of identity and the roles we play in different contexts is more important.

We get into the line between authenticity and professionalism, and the potential pitfalls of excessive authenticity, including narcissism and entitlement.

Thanks for listening/watching this episode of Leading with integrity: Leadership talk. Don't forget to visit www.leadingwithintegrity.co.uk and click the green button to sign up for the LWI: Integrity Leaders community, using discount code: HALFOFF24

Or contact me directly with any questions: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidhatch-leadernotaboss/

To learn more about Tomas, visit his website: https://www.drtomas.com/ or follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtomaschamorro/


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The Leading with integrity: Leadership talk Podcast, hosted by David Hatch. Distributed on all major podcast platforms by Ausha


Happier teams are more productive teams. More productive teams make more successful businesses. If you want to be a better leader, or are struggling with engagement, happiness, or productivity 'challenges', then get in touch with David today and see how Leading with integrity can change your career, you'll find his LinkedIn profile above! Be a Leader, Not A Boss.


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Chapters

  • Understanding Authenticity in Leadership

    00:00

  • The Complexity of Human Identity

    03:46

  • The Line of Authenticity

    08:32

  • Authentic Leadership vs. Mainstream Authenticity

    15:03

  • The Dark Side of Authenticity

    20:44

  • Charisma and Its Dual Nature

    25:15

  • Evolving Identity and Lifelong Learning

    30:49

  • Navigating Authenticity in the Workplace

    40:38

  • The Balance of Honesty and Kindness

    49:01

  • The Complexity of Political Discussions

    56:49

  • Leadership Lessons from History

    01:02:02

Description

We've all heard it: "Just Be Yourself". But is this actually the WORST piece of advice you've ever heard? Maybe... here's why...

I'm joined this week by Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, an organizational psychologist and author of 15 books, including his latest "Don’t Be Yourself: Why Authenticity is Overrated and What to Do Instead."

We'll be talking about nuances and complexities of authenticity, in your life, career, and in leadership. Tomas critiques the mainstream understanding of authenticity, and why being yourself isn't always that helpful, and how an understanding of identity and the roles we play in different contexts is more important.

We get into the line between authenticity and professionalism, and the potential pitfalls of excessive authenticity, including narcissism and entitlement.

Thanks for listening/watching this episode of Leading with integrity: Leadership talk. Don't forget to visit www.leadingwithintegrity.co.uk and click the green button to sign up for the LWI: Integrity Leaders community, using discount code: HALFOFF24

Or contact me directly with any questions: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidhatch-leadernotaboss/

To learn more about Tomas, visit his website: https://www.drtomas.com/ or follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtomaschamorro/


--

Here's some of the tools used in the production of Leading with Integrity and building the community around it:

Ausha (hosting & distribution): https://ausha.co/?fpr=leadingwithintegrity

PodMatch (guest booking & management): https://www.joinpodmatch.com/lwi_dh

TidyCal (booking calendar): https://appsumo.8odi.net/leadingwithintegrity

Riverside (recording and editing): https://riverside.sjv.io/leadingwithintegrity

Heartbeat (Community Platform): https://www.heartbeat.chat/?via=david-hatch

(NB: These are affiliate links where I'll make a small commission should you choose to subscribe, no pressure!)


--

Want to be a guest on Leading with integrity: Leadership talk? Send David Hatch a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/david-hatch-leadingwithintegrity


The Leading with integrity: Leadership talk Podcast, hosted by David Hatch. Distributed on all major podcast platforms by Ausha


Happier teams are more productive teams. More productive teams make more successful businesses. If you want to be a better leader, or are struggling with engagement, happiness, or productivity 'challenges', then get in touch with David today and see how Leading with integrity can change your career, you'll find his LinkedIn profile above! Be a Leader, Not A Boss.


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Chapters

  • Understanding Authenticity in Leadership

    00:00

  • The Complexity of Human Identity

    03:46

  • The Line of Authenticity

    08:32

  • Authentic Leadership vs. Mainstream Authenticity

    15:03

  • The Dark Side of Authenticity

    20:44

  • Charisma and Its Dual Nature

    25:15

  • Evolving Identity and Lifelong Learning

    30:49

  • Navigating Authenticity in the Workplace

    40:38

  • The Balance of Honesty and Kindness

    49:01

  • The Complexity of Political Discussions

    56:49

  • Leadership Lessons from History

    01:02:02

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Description

We've all heard it: "Just Be Yourself". But is this actually the WORST piece of advice you've ever heard? Maybe... here's why...

I'm joined this week by Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, an organizational psychologist and author of 15 books, including his latest "Don’t Be Yourself: Why Authenticity is Overrated and What to Do Instead."

We'll be talking about nuances and complexities of authenticity, in your life, career, and in leadership. Tomas critiques the mainstream understanding of authenticity, and why being yourself isn't always that helpful, and how an understanding of identity and the roles we play in different contexts is more important.

We get into the line between authenticity and professionalism, and the potential pitfalls of excessive authenticity, including narcissism and entitlement.

Thanks for listening/watching this episode of Leading with integrity: Leadership talk. Don't forget to visit www.leadingwithintegrity.co.uk and click the green button to sign up for the LWI: Integrity Leaders community, using discount code: HALFOFF24

Or contact me directly with any questions: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidhatch-leadernotaboss/

To learn more about Tomas, visit his website: https://www.drtomas.com/ or follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtomaschamorro/


--

Here's some of the tools used in the production of Leading with Integrity and building the community around it:

Ausha (hosting & distribution): https://ausha.co/?fpr=leadingwithintegrity

PodMatch (guest booking & management): https://www.joinpodmatch.com/lwi_dh

TidyCal (booking calendar): https://appsumo.8odi.net/leadingwithintegrity

Riverside (recording and editing): https://riverside.sjv.io/leadingwithintegrity

Heartbeat (Community Platform): https://www.heartbeat.chat/?via=david-hatch

(NB: These are affiliate links where I'll make a small commission should you choose to subscribe, no pressure!)


--

Want to be a guest on Leading with integrity: Leadership talk? Send David Hatch a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/david-hatch-leadingwithintegrity


The Leading with integrity: Leadership talk Podcast, hosted by David Hatch. Distributed on all major podcast platforms by Ausha


Happier teams are more productive teams. More productive teams make more successful businesses. If you want to be a better leader, or are struggling with engagement, happiness, or productivity 'challenges', then get in touch with David today and see how Leading with integrity can change your career, you'll find his LinkedIn profile above! Be a Leader, Not A Boss.


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Chapters

  • Understanding Authenticity in Leadership

    00:00

  • The Complexity of Human Identity

    03:46

  • The Line of Authenticity

    08:32

  • Authentic Leadership vs. Mainstream Authenticity

    15:03

  • The Dark Side of Authenticity

    20:44

  • Charisma and Its Dual Nature

    25:15

  • Evolving Identity and Lifelong Learning

    30:49

  • Navigating Authenticity in the Workplace

    40:38

  • The Balance of Honesty and Kindness

    49:01

  • The Complexity of Political Discussions

    56:49

  • Leadership Lessons from History

    01:02:02

Description

We've all heard it: "Just Be Yourself". But is this actually the WORST piece of advice you've ever heard? Maybe... here's why...

I'm joined this week by Dr Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, an organizational psychologist and author of 15 books, including his latest "Don’t Be Yourself: Why Authenticity is Overrated and What to Do Instead."

We'll be talking about nuances and complexities of authenticity, in your life, career, and in leadership. Tomas critiques the mainstream understanding of authenticity, and why being yourself isn't always that helpful, and how an understanding of identity and the roles we play in different contexts is more important.

We get into the line between authenticity and professionalism, and the potential pitfalls of excessive authenticity, including narcissism and entitlement.

Thanks for listening/watching this episode of Leading with integrity: Leadership talk. Don't forget to visit www.leadingwithintegrity.co.uk and click the green button to sign up for the LWI: Integrity Leaders community, using discount code: HALFOFF24

Or contact me directly with any questions: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidhatch-leadernotaboss/

To learn more about Tomas, visit his website: https://www.drtomas.com/ or follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtomaschamorro/


--

Here's some of the tools used in the production of Leading with Integrity and building the community around it:

Ausha (hosting & distribution): https://ausha.co/?fpr=leadingwithintegrity

PodMatch (guest booking & management): https://www.joinpodmatch.com/lwi_dh

TidyCal (booking calendar): https://appsumo.8odi.net/leadingwithintegrity

Riverside (recording and editing): https://riverside.sjv.io/leadingwithintegrity

Heartbeat (Community Platform): https://www.heartbeat.chat/?via=david-hatch

(NB: These are affiliate links where I'll make a small commission should you choose to subscribe, no pressure!)


--

Want to be a guest on Leading with integrity: Leadership talk? Send David Hatch a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/david-hatch-leadingwithintegrity


The Leading with integrity: Leadership talk Podcast, hosted by David Hatch. Distributed on all major podcast platforms by Ausha


Happier teams are more productive teams. More productive teams make more successful businesses. If you want to be a better leader, or are struggling with engagement, happiness, or productivity 'challenges', then get in touch with David today and see how Leading with integrity can change your career, you'll find his LinkedIn profile above! Be a Leader, Not A Boss.


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Chapters

  • Understanding Authenticity in Leadership

    00:00

  • The Complexity of Human Identity

    03:46

  • The Line of Authenticity

    08:32

  • Authentic Leadership vs. Mainstream Authenticity

    15:03

  • The Dark Side of Authenticity

    20:44

  • Charisma and Its Dual Nature

    25:15

  • Evolving Identity and Lifelong Learning

    30:49

  • Navigating Authenticity in the Workplace

    40:38

  • The Balance of Honesty and Kindness

    49:01

  • The Complexity of Political Discussions

    56:49

  • Leadership Lessons from History

    01:02:02

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