When an Autism Diagnosis Makes the Past Finally Click

What does it feel like when a diagnosis doesn’t answer everything, but it helps your life make more sense?

In this episode, I sit down with Ebony Backes for a thoughtful conversation about autism, creativity, grief, comfort, and the quiet ways we come to understand ourselves over time. Ebony shares what it was like to feel confused by other kids, how drawing became the one thing that always made sense, and why a diagnosis can bring both relief and loss at the same time.

We also talk about the small but meaningful things that help her feel grounded, from cooking and comics to the ocean and even African painted dogs. Along the way, I explore how self-understanding can grow slowly, especially for neurodivergent people who don’t have all the words yet.

If you’ve ever wondered why certain parts of your past still sting, or why creative expression can say what words can’t, this conversation will stay with you. I think you’ll come away with a few new questions about identity, healing, and what it means to be seen.

About the Guest

Ebony Backes is an artist and creative who uses drawing and comics as a way to express herself, make sense of the world, and connect with others through shared experiences.

Timestamps

• 0:02 - I welcome Ebony and ask what the world felt like as a child
• 1:55 - When drawing became more than a hobby
• 4:40 - Ebony shares the moment her autism diagnosis clicked
• 6:20 - The mix of grief and relief after getting answers
• 6:59 - Why cooking brings comfort and care
• 9:35 - How the beach helps her reset
• 11:38 - How her relationship with herself has changed over time
• 12:45 - What she wants young people still finding their words to hear
• 16:25 - Where to find Ebony online

https://shop.adhddd.com/NEURODIVERGENT_CONNECTION

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