INNER INFRASTRUCTURE FOR BIG LOVE

I’ve really come full circle on being in connection in the last few years. 

My upbringing was extremely codependent. By the time I was in my 30’s this dynamic in my relationships was making me very sick.

I didn’t originally find healing from codependency to be psychologically labor intensive. 

At first, I thought all I needed to do was take responsibility for my own participation. Change my own behaviors. Because magically, things improved heaps without a lot of inner excavation. 

But it didn’t get fully resolved until I began to truly take responsibility for my own power. This is a whole can of worms to detangle and really where this piece of writing starts. 

I haven’t set out to write about healing from codependency persè.

I actually want to say a few things about love. 

One of the stops on the way to healing from codependency is healthy narcissism.

I shouldn’t need to say I am not talking about a personality disorder, but I will just in case anyone is confused by that word. 

We know from the myth of Narcissus, that we all need to have a healthy amount of narcissism to be able to see ourselves clearly. To be able to withstand the Death Mother when she comes for our truest expression. 

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