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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

238 episodes

    Season 2

  • Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40  ||  DD #240  ||  David and Rachel cover
    Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40  ||  DD #240  ||  David and Rachel cover
    Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40 || DD #240 || David and Rachel

    Are you feeling totally burned out from your divorce? 😫 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel get brutally real about “divorce burnout” – that overwhelming exhaustion, frustration, and “I can’t do this anymore!” feeling that hits so many people, especially over 40. We dive into: Why divorce burnout is more than just stress (it’s an identity crisis, financial fatigue, and ALL the decision overwhelm) How to spot the signs you’re truly burned out (hint: snapping at friends, losing your sense of humor, or just wanting to disappear until Thanksgiving 🦃) Honest stories from our own journeys: Rachel’s COVID divorce, David’s burnout moments, and the realities no one warns you about Practical, SIMPLE steps to start healing – from celebrating small wins (yes, even showering counts! 🚿) to asking for help, setting boundaries, and finding moments of peace (or cookies 🍪) The real talk on losing old friends, dealing with kids’ feelings, and why your timeline for moving on is YOURS alone If you’re tired of advice that doesn’t get it, or just need a laugh while you rebuild your life, this episode is for YOU. 💬 Tell us below: What’s the hardest part of divorce burnout for you? Or what’s ONE small win you’ve had lately? Drop a comment – we want to hear from you and support your journey! Don’t forget to like 👍, subscribe, and share with someone who needs real talk and hope after divorce! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    29min | Published on November 16, 2025

  • How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in!  ||  DD239 cover
    How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in!  ||  DD239 cover
    How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in! || DD239

    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce—especially for people over 40. I’m David, your host with my cohost Rachel, , and in this episode, we dig deep into what it truly means to become the best version of yourself during and after divorce. 💔➡️💪 Divorce can feel like you’re carrying a backpack full of bricks—anger, guilt, and the loss of your old identity. Trust me, I’ve been there. In this candid conversation, we’re sharing honest stories, hard-earned lessons, and practical advice for men navigating the bumpy road of divorce recovery. Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode: Why “being your best self” isn’t about perfection, but about daily progress—even if it just means getting out of bed and brushing your teeth. How to let go of anger and resentment so you can move forward (without throat-punching your ex or your kids!). The importance of setting boundaries, calling out toxic behavior, and learning to say “no” when you need to. Why finding your tribe and leaning on genuine friends is critical for healing—and how to tell who’s really there for you. The power of self-talk, journaling, and honest communication (even when it’s awkward or messy). Real talk about serial dating, mistakes we make, and why it’s okay not to get everything right on the first try. How to co-parent effectively for your kids’ sake, and why loving your children more than you hate your ex is the ultimate win. Why your health matters now more than ever—seriously, guys, go to the doctor! 🩺 Tips for rediscovering old passions, trying new things, and building a life that’s truly yours again. We joke, we get real, and we don’t sugarcoat the hard parts. Divorce is tough, but you are tougher. If you’re feeling lost, angry, or just plain exhausted, remember: you are not alone, and you can rebuild. Ready to become the best version of you after divorce? Hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode. 👍 Share your story: What’s been the hardest part about being your best self post-divorce? Drop a comment below—I read every one! 👇 And if you found this helpful, give it a like and share with another man who needs to hear it. Stay strong. You got this. #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DontPickTheScabPodcast #MensMentalHealth #DivorceSupport Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    24min | Published on November 8, 2025

  • How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂   DD238  ||  David and Rachel cover
    How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂   DD238  ||  David and Rachel cover
    How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂 DD238 || David and Rachel

    Are you a parent over 40 navigating the wild world of co-parenting after divorce? Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 238! This week, David and Rachel get raw and real about the “co-parenting storms” we all face—especially when the holidays hit and emotions run high. 🎄😬 We’re sharing hilarious (and painfully relatable) stories about what happens when your kids push all your buttons, how family guilt sneaks in, and the struggle to balance everyone’s needs—without losing your mind... or actually throat-punching anyone! 👊😂 From reinventing holiday traditions to setting boundaries with both your kids and your ex, we dig into why it’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, and how to give yourself permission to say “no.” Plus, we talk about the importance of self-care, surviving guilt trips, and why sometimes you just need to skip the turkey and take a solo trip instead. 🏖️ If you’re tired of trying to make everyone happy and just want some real advice (with a side of laughter), this is the episode for you. Whether your kids are testing you, your ex is driving you nuts, or the holiday chaos is peaking—remember: you’re not alone, and every day can be Thanksgiving if you make it your own. 🦃✨ What’s your craziest co-parenting moment? Drop your story or best survival tip in the comments below! 👇 Let’s help each other out and keep the conversation going. Don’t forget to subscribe for more real divorce recovery talk! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on October 29, 2025

  • Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery cover
    Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery cover
    Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery

    Divorce after 40 is wild, weird, and often full of really bad advice. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel spill the tea on the WORST tips they ever received during divorce—and why you should take most “helpful” suggestions with a huge grain of salt! 🧂 From “just get under someone to get over someone” (yikes!) to revenge plots, oversharing with friends, and wild dating adventures, we break down what not to do when your marriage ends. We share real (and hilarious) stories from our lives and our friends—plus the honest truth about trying to heal, co-parent, and rebuild when the world expects you to bounce back overnight. What makes this podcast different? We’re raw, uncensored, and not afraid to laugh at our own mistakes. Whether you’re newly divorced, in the thick of it, or just want to prepare for a healthier relationship, you’ll find support, real talk, and a few laughs here. 💡 Learn why not all advice is created equal, how to spot toxic patterns, and how to actually move forward (without losing your mind or your dignity). 👉 Ready to share your own “bad divorce advice” story? Drop it in the comments below! What’s the worst tip someone gave you? We might feature your story in a future episode! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real talk on surviving and thriving after divorce. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    33min | Published on October 19, 2025

  • What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40? cover
    What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40? cover
    What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40?

    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🏆 In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into the messy, hilarious, and totally real world of forgiveness after divorce—especially for those of us over 40. Is forgiveness still about waiting for an apology, or has it evolved into something deeply personal (and way less dramatic)? 🤔 Forget everything you learned about old-school forgiveness—you know, the kind where you wait for your ex to admit they were wrong (spoiler alert: they probably won’t!). David and Rachel spill the honest truth about releasing resentment, setting boundaries, and learning to forgive for your own peace of mind—not for the person who hurt you. 💪 We talk about: Why forgiveness doesn’t always mean a face-to-face “I’m sorry” Healing when apologies never come Co-parenting with someone you can’t stand (Oscar-worthy acting skills may be required! 🎭) Practical strategies: journaling, support groups, and forgiving yourself first How to stop letting your ex live rent-free in your head Rachel even shares her own “aha” moment about what it really means to let go (and why you don’t have to like the word “forgiveness” to practice it). If you’re tired of holding grudges, ready to move forward, or just need a laugh after a tough week, this one’s for you. 💬 What’s your biggest challenge with forgiveness after divorce? Drop a comment below—we want to hear your story and what’s worked (or not!) for you! Don’t forget to like & subscribe for more real talk every week. #DivorceRecovery #Forgiveness #Over40 #DivorceDevilPodcast Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on October 4, 2025

  • From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!)  ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #235  ||  David and Rachel cover
    From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!)  ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #235  ||  David and Rachel cover
    From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!) || Divorce Devil Podcast #235 || David and Rachel

    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Today, David and Rachel sit down with Kyle for a raw, real, and relatable conversation about divorce recovery after 40. 💬 Have you ever felt lost after a breakup, not just losing a spouse but friends, family, and even your sense of self? Kyle’s story is a powerful example of how hitting rock bottom can be the start of something new. In this episode, we open up about the loneliness of divorce, the pain of splitting social circles, and the surprising ways our pasts shape our healing journeys. 💔 From awkward holiday dinners to building boundaries with ex-in-laws, we discuss what it REALLY takes to move on and start loving yourself again. Whether you’re newly divorced, feeling stuck, or years out and still facing triggers, you’ll find hope, laughter, and practical advice here. We talk serial dating, rediscovering old hobbies, the importance of therapy, and why sometimes you have to thank your ex for pushing you to choose YOU first. 🚀 Ready to stop surviving and start thriving after divorce? Hit that subscribe button, give us a thumbs up 👍, and join the conversation below! ⬇️ What’s the hardest part of YOUR divorce recovery journey? How did you start to heal? Drop a comment and let’s support each other! #DivorceRecovery #Over40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #HealingAfterDivorce #MenOver40 #MovingOn Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    44min | Published on September 26, 2025

  • When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #234  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #234  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #234 || David and Rachel

    Are you over 40 and feeling stuck in the messy middle of divorce recovery? 💔 You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get real about the heartache, unpredictable triggers, and emotional rollercoaster that come after the initial shock of separation—but before true healing begins. We dive into the bell curve of pain, from rock bottom moments (hello, sudden tears and sleepless nights) to random triggers like holidays, family traditions, and even splitting up the Christmas ornaments. 🎄 We share our personal stories of hitting low points, trying (and sometimes failing) to “fake it till we make it,” and learning to let go of expectations—like waiting for apologies that may never come. Whether you’re dealing with co-parenting chaos, feeling isolated, or questioning your own worth, our honest conversation offers hope and practical steps. From cutting toxic ties to reaching out for help—even if it’s hard—we cover the real challenges and small victories that come with rebuilding your life after 40. Remember, healing isn’t linear, and everyone’s timeline is different. What’s your biggest challenge in the “middle” of divorce? Drop your thoughts or experiences in the comments 👇—let’s support each other on this journey! Don’t forget to subscribe for more raw, relatable divorce recovery tips every week! 🔔 Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    26min | Published on September 20, 2025

  • When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #233  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #233  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #233 || David and Rachel

    Are you a person over 40 wondering when (or if) the pain of divorce ever goes away? You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the real, raw journey of healing after divorce—from emotional pain and betrayal to rediscovering joy, even when you least expect it. We get honest about: The different types of pain (emotional, financial, social) men feel after divorce 💸💔 Why there’s no set timeline for recovery—healing is not a race! How triggers and setbacks can hit years later, and how to handle them 🔄 The difference between being alone and feeling lonely—and why learning to enjoy your own company is crucial Healthy vs. unhealthy coping mechanisms (from overworking to rediscovering old passions) The importance of community, asking for help, and redefining yourself in midlife Whether you’re dealing with guilt, missing your kids, or trying to rebuild your life, there is hope and you can find joy again—even if it feels impossible right now. 👉 Have you experienced any unexpected moments of joy during your own divorce recovery? What’s been your biggest setback? Drop your story or advice in the comments below—let’s support each other! Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk and practical tips for men navigating life after divorce. Your next chapter starts here. 💪 Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on September 6, 2025

  • How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌  ||  DD232  || David and Rachel cover
    How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌  ||  DD232  || David and Rachel cover
    How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌 || DD232 || David and Rachel

    Are you are over 40 struggling to find your footing after divorce? You’re not alone—and this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast is for you. Join hosts David and Rachel as they get brutally honest about the raw, messy, and totally normal emotions people face during and after divorce. Divorce is like a tidal wave, especially when it happens later in life. In this episode, we open up about everything we wish someone had told us when we were in the thick of it: the loneliness, the loss of old friends, the awkwardness of new beginnings, and why it’s okay to grieve—even if you were the one who left. We talk about: The early days: Why it feels like your whole world is upside down, and how to survive when you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. Friendship shake-ups: Losing old friends, finding out who really has your back, and why support sometimes comes from the most unexpected places. The guilt and shame spiral: Feeling like you "failed," dealing with identity shifts, and learning you’re more than just someone’s ex. Loneliness vs. being alone: How to tell the difference, and ways to start enjoying your own company again. Grief triggers: Birthdays, holidays, and milestones that can hit you out of nowhere—and how to handle them without falling down the rabbit hole. Parenting through pain: The hardest parts of co-parenting, missing your kids, and how to take care of yourself so you can be there for them. Setting new boundaries: Learning who lifts you up and who drags you down, and why it’s okay to say no (but also, why you should say yes sometimes!). Finding hope: Yes, it gets better—even if you can’t see the rainbow yet. Baby steps, real talk, and reminders that healing is possible. 💬 We want to hear from you! What do you wish you’d known before your divorce? What’s been your biggest challenge? Drop a comment below—your story could help someone else going through the same thing. 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk, practical tips, and a community of men supporting men through divorce and beyond. And if you need to talk, send us your questions or topics you want us to cover next. Remember: You’re not alone, and there’s hope on the other side. Let’s get through this together! 💪 #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #DivorceSupport #HealingAfterDivorce Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    34min | Published on August 29, 2025

  • The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 ||  Divorce Devil Podcast  ||  David and Rachel cover
    The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 ||  Divorce Devil Podcast  ||  David and Rachel cover
    The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and Rachel

    Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you’re really ready to dive back into the dating world? 🥴 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts David and Rachel get real about the ups, downs, and downright weird moments of dating after divorce. We cover it all—from the anxiety of dating “too soon” to the pitfalls of waiting “too long.” Should you date while your divorce is still in progress? What about legal separation—does that mean you’re free to find a new flame? 🔥 David and Rachel spill the truth, share personal stories, and offer hard-won advice for anyone navigating the tricky waters of post-divorce relationships. What’s Inside This Episode: The real signs you’re ready (or not!) to start dating again after 40 🚦 Why honesty—especially online—is non-negotiable (no more 1992 yearbook pics, please! 📸) The truth about “rebound relationships” and what they teach us Dealing with loneliness, building confidence, and learning to love your own company 🥂 Dating safety tips for women AND men (yes, we talk about code words, drink covers, and group dates! 🛡️) The hilarious—and sometimes cringey—side of unsolicited pics 😳 How your childhood and family history can impact your dating decisions as an adult Why it’s okay to walk away, say “no thanks,” and trust your gut instincts! 🙅‍♀️ We also dive into the importance of healing first, setting boundaries, and creating a support system with friends who “get it.” 💪 Rachel opens up about her own journey, the walls she built, and how being honest about your feelings—good or bad—is key to finding love (or just a decent date) after divorce. Ready to laugh, learn, and maybe cry a little? This episode is packed with actionable tips, real-life stories, and plenty of humor to remind you: dating over 40 isn’t just possible—it can be fun, empowering, and even healing. 👇 We Want to Hear From YOU! 👇 Have you tried dating after divorce? What’s your funniest (or worst!) dating story? What’s the biggest red flag you’ve seen? Drop your thoughts, questions, or stories in the comments—let’s help each other survive and THRIVE in the post-divorce dating pool! 💬❤️ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast—your home for real talk, real laughs, and real recovery after 40. AND PEOPLE WITH SCHOOL-AGED CHILDREN, MOST OF YOU - DO BETTER!! #DivorceRecovery #DatingOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    24min | Published on August 24, 2025

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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

238 episodes

    Season 2

  • Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40  ||  DD #240  ||  David and Rachel cover
    Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40  ||  DD #240  ||  David and Rachel cover
    Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40 || DD #240 || David and Rachel

    Are you feeling totally burned out from your divorce? 😫 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel get brutally real about “divorce burnout” – that overwhelming exhaustion, frustration, and “I can’t do this anymore!” feeling that hits so many people, especially over 40. We dive into: Why divorce burnout is more than just stress (it’s an identity crisis, financial fatigue, and ALL the decision overwhelm) How to spot the signs you’re truly burned out (hint: snapping at friends, losing your sense of humor, or just wanting to disappear until Thanksgiving 🦃) Honest stories from our own journeys: Rachel’s COVID divorce, David’s burnout moments, and the realities no one warns you about Practical, SIMPLE steps to start healing – from celebrating small wins (yes, even showering counts! 🚿) to asking for help, setting boundaries, and finding moments of peace (or cookies 🍪) The real talk on losing old friends, dealing with kids’ feelings, and why your timeline for moving on is YOURS alone If you’re tired of advice that doesn’t get it, or just need a laugh while you rebuild your life, this episode is for YOU. 💬 Tell us below: What’s the hardest part of divorce burnout for you? Or what’s ONE small win you’ve had lately? Drop a comment – we want to hear from you and support your journey! Don’t forget to like 👍, subscribe, and share with someone who needs real talk and hope after divorce! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    29min | Published on November 16, 2025

  • How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in!  ||  DD239 cover
    How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in!  ||  DD239 cover
    How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in! || DD239

    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce—especially for people over 40. I’m David, your host with my cohost Rachel, , and in this episode, we dig deep into what it truly means to become the best version of yourself during and after divorce. 💔➡️💪 Divorce can feel like you’re carrying a backpack full of bricks—anger, guilt, and the loss of your old identity. Trust me, I’ve been there. In this candid conversation, we’re sharing honest stories, hard-earned lessons, and practical advice for men navigating the bumpy road of divorce recovery. Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode: Why “being your best self” isn’t about perfection, but about daily progress—even if it just means getting out of bed and brushing your teeth. How to let go of anger and resentment so you can move forward (without throat-punching your ex or your kids!). The importance of setting boundaries, calling out toxic behavior, and learning to say “no” when you need to. Why finding your tribe and leaning on genuine friends is critical for healing—and how to tell who’s really there for you. The power of self-talk, journaling, and honest communication (even when it’s awkward or messy). Real talk about serial dating, mistakes we make, and why it’s okay not to get everything right on the first try. How to co-parent effectively for your kids’ sake, and why loving your children more than you hate your ex is the ultimate win. Why your health matters now more than ever—seriously, guys, go to the doctor! 🩺 Tips for rediscovering old passions, trying new things, and building a life that’s truly yours again. We joke, we get real, and we don’t sugarcoat the hard parts. Divorce is tough, but you are tougher. If you’re feeling lost, angry, or just plain exhausted, remember: you are not alone, and you can rebuild. Ready to become the best version of you after divorce? Hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode. 👍 Share your story: What’s been the hardest part about being your best self post-divorce? Drop a comment below—I read every one! 👇 And if you found this helpful, give it a like and share with another man who needs to hear it. Stay strong. You got this. #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DontPickTheScabPodcast #MensMentalHealth #DivorceSupport Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    24min | Published on November 8, 2025

  • How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂   DD238  ||  David and Rachel cover
    How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂   DD238  ||  David and Rachel cover
    How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40! 👊😂 DD238 || David and Rachel

    Are you a parent over 40 navigating the wild world of co-parenting after divorce? Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 238! This week, David and Rachel get raw and real about the “co-parenting storms” we all face—especially when the holidays hit and emotions run high. 🎄😬 We’re sharing hilarious (and painfully relatable) stories about what happens when your kids push all your buttons, how family guilt sneaks in, and the struggle to balance everyone’s needs—without losing your mind... or actually throat-punching anyone! 👊😂 From reinventing holiday traditions to setting boundaries with both your kids and your ex, we dig into why it’s so easy to feel overwhelmed, and how to give yourself permission to say “no.” Plus, we talk about the importance of self-care, surviving guilt trips, and why sometimes you just need to skip the turkey and take a solo trip instead. 🏖️ If you’re tired of trying to make everyone happy and just want some real advice (with a side of laughter), this is the episode for you. Whether your kids are testing you, your ex is driving you nuts, or the holiday chaos is peaking—remember: you’re not alone, and every day can be Thanksgiving if you make it your own. 🦃✨ What’s your craziest co-parenting moment? Drop your story or best survival tip in the comments below! 👇 Let’s help each other out and keep the conversation going. Don’t forget to subscribe for more real divorce recovery talk! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on October 29, 2025

  • Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery cover
    Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery cover
    Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery

    Divorce after 40 is wild, weird, and often full of really bad advice. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel spill the tea on the WORST tips they ever received during divorce—and why you should take most “helpful” suggestions with a huge grain of salt! 🧂 From “just get under someone to get over someone” (yikes!) to revenge plots, oversharing with friends, and wild dating adventures, we break down what not to do when your marriage ends. We share real (and hilarious) stories from our lives and our friends—plus the honest truth about trying to heal, co-parent, and rebuild when the world expects you to bounce back overnight. What makes this podcast different? We’re raw, uncensored, and not afraid to laugh at our own mistakes. Whether you’re newly divorced, in the thick of it, or just want to prepare for a healthier relationship, you’ll find support, real talk, and a few laughs here. 💡 Learn why not all advice is created equal, how to spot toxic patterns, and how to actually move forward (without losing your mind or your dignity). 👉 Ready to share your own “bad divorce advice” story? Drop it in the comments below! What’s the worst tip someone gave you? We might feature your story in a future episode! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real talk on surviving and thriving after divorce. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    33min | Published on October 19, 2025

  • What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40? cover
    What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40? cover
    What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40?

    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🏆 In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into the messy, hilarious, and totally real world of forgiveness after divorce—especially for those of us over 40. Is forgiveness still about waiting for an apology, or has it evolved into something deeply personal (and way less dramatic)? 🤔 Forget everything you learned about old-school forgiveness—you know, the kind where you wait for your ex to admit they were wrong (spoiler alert: they probably won’t!). David and Rachel spill the honest truth about releasing resentment, setting boundaries, and learning to forgive for your own peace of mind—not for the person who hurt you. 💪 We talk about: Why forgiveness doesn’t always mean a face-to-face “I’m sorry” Healing when apologies never come Co-parenting with someone you can’t stand (Oscar-worthy acting skills may be required! 🎭) Practical strategies: journaling, support groups, and forgiving yourself first How to stop letting your ex live rent-free in your head Rachel even shares her own “aha” moment about what it really means to let go (and why you don’t have to like the word “forgiveness” to practice it). If you’re tired of holding grudges, ready to move forward, or just need a laugh after a tough week, this one’s for you. 💬 What’s your biggest challenge with forgiveness after divorce? Drop a comment below—we want to hear your story and what’s worked (or not!) for you! Don’t forget to like & subscribe for more real talk every week. #DivorceRecovery #Forgiveness #Over40 #DivorceDevilPodcast Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on October 4, 2025

  • From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!)  ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #235  ||  David and Rachel cover
    From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!)  ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #235  ||  David and Rachel cover
    From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!) || Divorce Devil Podcast #235 || David and Rachel

    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Today, David and Rachel sit down with Kyle for a raw, real, and relatable conversation about divorce recovery after 40. 💬 Have you ever felt lost after a breakup, not just losing a spouse but friends, family, and even your sense of self? Kyle’s story is a powerful example of how hitting rock bottom can be the start of something new. In this episode, we open up about the loneliness of divorce, the pain of splitting social circles, and the surprising ways our pasts shape our healing journeys. 💔 From awkward holiday dinners to building boundaries with ex-in-laws, we discuss what it REALLY takes to move on and start loving yourself again. Whether you’re newly divorced, feeling stuck, or years out and still facing triggers, you’ll find hope, laughter, and practical advice here. We talk serial dating, rediscovering old hobbies, the importance of therapy, and why sometimes you have to thank your ex for pushing you to choose YOU first. 🚀 Ready to stop surviving and start thriving after divorce? Hit that subscribe button, give us a thumbs up 👍, and join the conversation below! ⬇️ What’s the hardest part of YOUR divorce recovery journey? How did you start to heal? Drop a comment and let’s support each other! #DivorceRecovery #Over40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #HealingAfterDivorce #MenOver40 #MovingOn Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    44min | Published on September 26, 2025

  • When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #234  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #234  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #234 || David and Rachel

    Are you over 40 and feeling stuck in the messy middle of divorce recovery? 💔 You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get real about the heartache, unpredictable triggers, and emotional rollercoaster that come after the initial shock of separation—but before true healing begins. We dive into the bell curve of pain, from rock bottom moments (hello, sudden tears and sleepless nights) to random triggers like holidays, family traditions, and even splitting up the Christmas ornaments. 🎄 We share our personal stories of hitting low points, trying (and sometimes failing) to “fake it till we make it,” and learning to let go of expectations—like waiting for apologies that may never come. Whether you’re dealing with co-parenting chaos, feeling isolated, or questioning your own worth, our honest conversation offers hope and practical steps. From cutting toxic ties to reaching out for help—even if it’s hard—we cover the real challenges and small victories that come with rebuilding your life after 40. Remember, healing isn’t linear, and everyone’s timeline is different. What’s your biggest challenge in the “middle” of divorce? Drop your thoughts or experiences in the comments 👇—let’s support each other on this journey! Don’t forget to subscribe for more raw, relatable divorce recovery tips every week! 🔔 Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    26min | Published on September 20, 2025

  • When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #233  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One...  Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! ||  Divorce Devil Podcast #233  ||  David and Rachel cover
    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #233 || David and Rachel

    Are you a person over 40 wondering when (or if) the pain of divorce ever goes away? You’re not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the real, raw journey of healing after divorce—from emotional pain and betrayal to rediscovering joy, even when you least expect it. We get honest about: The different types of pain (emotional, financial, social) men feel after divorce 💸💔 Why there’s no set timeline for recovery—healing is not a race! How triggers and setbacks can hit years later, and how to handle them 🔄 The difference between being alone and feeling lonely—and why learning to enjoy your own company is crucial Healthy vs. unhealthy coping mechanisms (from overworking to rediscovering old passions) The importance of community, asking for help, and redefining yourself in midlife Whether you’re dealing with guilt, missing your kids, or trying to rebuild your life, there is hope and you can find joy again—even if it feels impossible right now. 👉 Have you experienced any unexpected moments of joy during your own divorce recovery? What’s been your biggest setback? Drop your story or advice in the comments below—let’s support each other! Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk and practical tips for men navigating life after divorce. Your next chapter starts here. 💪 Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    28min | Published on September 6, 2025

  • How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌  ||  DD232  || David and Rachel cover
    How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌  ||  DD232  || David and Rachel cover
    How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope 🙌 || DD232 || David and Rachel

    Are you are over 40 struggling to find your footing after divorce? You’re not alone—and this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast is for you. Join hosts David and Rachel as they get brutally honest about the raw, messy, and totally normal emotions people face during and after divorce. Divorce is like a tidal wave, especially when it happens later in life. In this episode, we open up about everything we wish someone had told us when we were in the thick of it: the loneliness, the loss of old friends, the awkwardness of new beginnings, and why it’s okay to grieve—even if you were the one who left. We talk about: The early days: Why it feels like your whole world is upside down, and how to survive when you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. Friendship shake-ups: Losing old friends, finding out who really has your back, and why support sometimes comes from the most unexpected places. The guilt and shame spiral: Feeling like you "failed," dealing with identity shifts, and learning you’re more than just someone’s ex. Loneliness vs. being alone: How to tell the difference, and ways to start enjoying your own company again. Grief triggers: Birthdays, holidays, and milestones that can hit you out of nowhere—and how to handle them without falling down the rabbit hole. Parenting through pain: The hardest parts of co-parenting, missing your kids, and how to take care of yourself so you can be there for them. Setting new boundaries: Learning who lifts you up and who drags you down, and why it’s okay to say no (but also, why you should say yes sometimes!). Finding hope: Yes, it gets better—even if you can’t see the rainbow yet. Baby steps, real talk, and reminders that healing is possible. 💬 We want to hear from you! What do you wish you’d known before your divorce? What’s been your biggest challenge? Drop a comment below—your story could help someone else going through the same thing. 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk, practical tips, and a community of men supporting men through divorce and beyond. And if you need to talk, send us your questions or topics you want us to cover next. Remember: You’re not alone, and there’s hope on the other side. Let’s get through this together! 💪 #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #DivorceSupport #HealingAfterDivorce Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    34min | Published on August 29, 2025

  • The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 ||  Divorce Devil Podcast  ||  David and Rachel cover
    The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 ||  Divorce Devil Podcast  ||  David and Rachel cover
    The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and Rachel

    Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you’re really ready to dive back into the dating world? 🥴 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts David and Rachel get real about the ups, downs, and downright weird moments of dating after divorce. We cover it all—from the anxiety of dating “too soon” to the pitfalls of waiting “too long.” Should you date while your divorce is still in progress? What about legal separation—does that mean you’re free to find a new flame? 🔥 David and Rachel spill the truth, share personal stories, and offer hard-won advice for anyone navigating the tricky waters of post-divorce relationships. What’s Inside This Episode: The real signs you’re ready (or not!) to start dating again after 40 🚦 Why honesty—especially online—is non-negotiable (no more 1992 yearbook pics, please! 📸) The truth about “rebound relationships” and what they teach us Dealing with loneliness, building confidence, and learning to love your own company 🥂 Dating safety tips for women AND men (yes, we talk about code words, drink covers, and group dates! 🛡️) The hilarious—and sometimes cringey—side of unsolicited pics 😳 How your childhood and family history can impact your dating decisions as an adult Why it’s okay to walk away, say “no thanks,” and trust your gut instincts! 🙅‍♀️ We also dive into the importance of healing first, setting boundaries, and creating a support system with friends who “get it.” 💪 Rachel opens up about her own journey, the walls she built, and how being honest about your feelings—good or bad—is key to finding love (or just a decent date) after divorce. Ready to laugh, learn, and maybe cry a little? This episode is packed with actionable tips, real-life stories, and plenty of humor to remind you: dating over 40 isn’t just possible—it can be fun, empowering, and even healing. 👇 We Want to Hear From YOU! 👇 Have you tried dating after divorce? What’s your funniest (or worst!) dating story? What’s the biggest red flag you’ve seen? Drop your thoughts, questions, or stories in the comments—let’s help each other survive and THRIVE in the post-divorce dating pool! 💬❤️ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast—your home for real talk, real laughs, and real recovery after 40. AND PEOPLE WITH SCHOOL-AGED CHILDREN, MOST OF YOU - DO BETTER!! #DivorceRecovery #DatingOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    24min | Published on August 24, 2025

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