In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast (Episode 199), David and Rachel focus on navigating toxic relationships during divorce recovery, particularly with friends, family, and acquaintances. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, owning your actions, and recognizing patterns of harmful behavior in relationships. David and Rachel emphasize the challenge of dealing with toxic family members, who often feel entitled to access and respect due to shared history. They argue that respect is earned, not automatically granted based on familial ties. Rachel shares personal experiences about growing up in a toxic environment, dealing with narcissistic behavior, and breaking cycles of dysfunction. She highlights the importance of self-awareness and refusing to perpetuate negative patterns in relationships. David adds that healing requires reflecting on past relationships and learning to build healthier ones, while also detaching from toxic individuals who disrupt personal growth. The hosts stress the need to avoid assumptions, take responsibility for one’s actions, and communicate clear expectations to others. They discuss how divorce reveals deeper issues in relationships and serves as an opportunity for personal growth. Ultimately, they advocate for prioritizing mental and emotional well-being over maintaining unhealthy connections, even if it means estranging oneself from family members. The episode concludes with reflections on self-care, the power of boundaries, and the role of personal accountability in rebuilding after divorce. 10 Important Points from the Podcast: Toxic relationships often surface during divorce recovery and require active management. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental and emotional health. Respect must be earned, even among family members, and is not automatic due to shared history. Narcissistic and toxic behaviors can be deeply ingrained in families, but cycles can be broken. Self-awareness and taking responsibility for one’s actions are essential for healing. Divorce provides an opportunity to reassess relationships and personal values. Assumptions and preconceived notions about others often lead to misunderstandings. Communicating clear expectations helps others understand acceptable behavior. Estranging from toxic family members can lead to greater personal well-being. Self-care and prioritizing one’s emotional health are vital during divorce recovery. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendships, or even family dynamics. In this raw, candid conversation, Rachel and David share personal experiences, humor, and insight about how to recognize, process, and heal from these moments of renewed heartbreak. This episode, titled "Getting Hurt Again After Divorce Recovery", explores the challenges of managing betrayal, setting boundaries, and maintaining hope when faced with setbacks in your healing journey. Whether you're dealing with post-divorce friendships, toxic family dynamics, or rebuilding trust in new relationships, Rachel and David offer relatable stories and tools to help you navigate the complex emotions of recovery. From practical advice to poignant reflections, this episode reminds listeners that healing isn't a linear process, and sometimes the hardest lessons come after the storm has seemingly passed. Join us as we unpack the steps to rebuild, reset, and reclaim peace in your post-divorce life. Major Points Discussed in the Podcast: Navigating New Hurt: The emotional impact of being hurt again after feeling like you've healed from divorce. Recognizing Familiar Patterns: Identifying red flags in relationships or friendships and understanding their impact on your healing. The Importance of Boundaries: How to establish and enforce boundaries with people who don't respect you. Forgiveness for Yourself and Others: Understanding that forgiveness is for your own peace, not necessarily for reconciliation. The Role of Healing in Setting Expectations: How healing can make you less tolerant of hurtful behaviors and help you prioritize your well-being. Grief Beyond Divorce: Exploring the grief of losing friendships, family ties, or trust in others after divorce. Choosing Your Circle: Being selective about the people you allow in your life and the importance of keeping your inner circle tight. Processing Betrayal: How to manage feelings of betrayal when close friends or family let you down. Hope vs. Cynicism: Balancing hope for better relationships while protecting yourself from being hurt again. Reclaiming Control: Taking charge of your healing journey and focusing on what makes you happy, while refusing to tolerate disrespect. This episode is a must-listen for anyone still navigating the ups and downs of post-divorce life and looking for actionable steps to rebuild trust and peace. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, Episode 197, hosted by Rachel and David. In this heartfelt Thanksgiving Sunday special, we dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many going through divorce recovery: navigating new hurt after initially finding healing. Often, after surviving the storm of divorce, you can find yourself blindsided by fresh pain from unexpected places—relationships, friendships, or even family dynamics. In this raw, candid conversation, Rachel and David share personal experiences, humor, and insight about how to recognize, process, and heal from these moments of renewed heartbreak. This episode, titled "Getting Hurt Again After Divorce Recovery", explores the challenges of managing betrayal, setting boundaries, and maintaining hope when faced with setbacks in your healing journey. Whether you're dealing with post-divorce friendships, toxic family dynamics, or rebuilding trust in new relationships, Rachel and David offer relatable stories and tools to help you navigate the complex emotions of recovery. From practical advice to poignant reflections, this episode reminds listeners that healing isn't a linear process, and sometimes the hardest lessons come after the storm has seemingly passed. Join us as we unpack the steps to rebuild, reset, and reclaim peace in your post-divorce life. Major Points Discussed in the Podcast: Navigating New Hurt: The emotional impact of being hurt again after feeling like you've healed from divorce. Recognizing Familiar Patterns: Identifying red flags in relationships or friendships and understanding their impact on your healing. The Importance of Boundaries: How to establish and enforce boundaries with people who don't respect you. Forgiveness for Yourself and Others: Understanding that forgiveness is for your own peace, not necessarily for reconciliation. The Role of Healing in Setting Expectations: How healing can make you less tolerant of hurtful behaviors and help you prioritize your well-being. Grief Beyond Divorce: Exploring the grief of losing friendships, family ties, or trust in others after divorce. Choosing Your Circle: Being selective about the people you allow in your life and the importance of keeping your inner circle tight. Processing Betrayal: How to manage feelings of betrayal when close friends or family let you down. Hope vs. Cynicism: Balancing hope for better relationships while protecting yourself from being hurt again. Reclaiming Control: Taking charge of your healing journey and focusing on what makes you happy, while refusing to tolerate disrespect. This episode is a must-listen for anyone still navigating the ups and downs of post-divorce life and looking for actionable steps to rebuild trust and peace. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with our dynamic duo, David and Rachel! Where the almost 200 episodes of wisdom, humor, and the occasional snow day rant converge into the perfect storm of post-marital hilarity. Picture this: David, the voice of reason, with a penchant for turning life's lemons into a comedy sketch, and Rachel, the fierce advocate of self-love, who can find joy even in a Colorado snowstorm - which is actually going on at this moment.  Together, they tackle the chaos of exes, in-laws, and personal growth with the precision of a surgeon and the heart of a stand-up comic. Prepare to laugh, cry, and find your inner peace as they guide you through the maze of divorce recovery, one episode at a time. So grab your headphones and let David and Rachel remind you that even in the messiest of breakups, there's always room for a good laugh and a fresh start. 10 Important Points: Set boundaries, don’t build walls. Let go of toxic relationships. Self-care is a priority, not a luxury. Your peace is worth the fight. Family can be toxic too. Listen to your inner voice. Object permanence aids emotional detachment. You’re responsible for your happiness. Reject unwanted negativity. Embrace personal growth and healing. These points encapsulate the essence of the discussion, encouraging listeners to focus on personal well-being, setting healthy boundaries, and finding humor and strength in their journey of recovery. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Guest time!  Welcome Junie Moon to the show.  She is a Global Love Mentor, author, speaker and a Certified Shadow Work Coach.  Her superpower is helping people unpack their past and move onto a better future.  Discussions of the movie Ghost, unpack and heal from the past, risk manager, hopelessness, space junk and dating research.  This is not an episode to miss, men and women.  It was a fun podcast.  Like a couple of friends having coffee.  Thanks Junie, Jersey Gurl! Topics of: Fend off the Saber cats Long term relationships Relationship blueprint exercise Fear of rejection and not being wanted Let’s therapize David! It’s a new chapter Do the work Release the past We are not taught to do relationships well Wired to stay safe Next level love Junie Moon’s Website (https://midlifeloveoutloud.com/) Junie’s Free Consultation (https://calendly.com/juniemoon/lbtsession?month=2024-10) Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode of Divorce Devil, David and Rachel delve into the complexities of co-parenting and blended family dynamics. They discuss the challenges of introducing new partners into the parenting equation, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. The conversation highlights the need for respect and understanding among all family members, emphasizing that both parents and children must navigate their roles thoughtfully. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to take ownership of their situations and strive for better relationships within their blended families.  It probably won’t be a very Brady Bunch this Christmas!! Takeaways: Co-parenting requires clear boundaries and agreements. New partners can complicate parenting dynamics. Communication is essential in blended families. Respect must be earned, not given. Disrespect from children can be a significant issue. Self-care is crucial for parents in new relationships. Finding common ground is vital for family harmony. Taking ownership of your role in family dynamics is necessary. It's important to address issues before they escalate. Navigating blended families requires patience and understanding. Sound Bites: "You can't let the feral kids screw up your relationship." "The two people in the relationship have to have agreement and boundaries." Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the complexities of co-parenting after divorce, sharing both positive experiences and challenges.  With concentrating on 5 negative and 5 positive things that involve co-parenting, they emphasize the importance of communication, understanding children's perspectives, and maintaining boundaries. The conversation highlights the emotional struggles parents face and the need to prioritize children's well-being over personal grievances. Through personal anecdotes, they provide insights into effective co-parenting strategies and the significance of loving children more than harboring resentment towards an ex-partner. Takeaways: Co-parenting requires a shift in mindset from spouses to co-parents. Effective communication is crucial for successful co-parenting. Children's emotional well-being should be prioritized above all. Recognizing signs of anxiety in children is essential. Setting boundaries helps maintain a healthy co-parenting relationship. It's normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted as a parent. Children can adapt well if parents work together positively. Past experiences can inform better parenting strategies. It's important to be aware of children's feelings and reactions. Co-parenting can lead to stronger relationships with children.  Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode of Divorce Devil, hosts Rachel and David discuss the importance of self-reflection and the lessons learned from their experiences with divorce. They explore the complexities of relationships, the harsh realities of financial independence post-divorce, and the necessity of owning one's responsibilities. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, healing from past trauma, and embracing emotions during the divorce process. They also highlight the value of effort in relationships and the importance of recognizing one's role in the dynamics of a marriage. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to prioritize their happiness and personal growth. Takeaways Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth after divorce. Navigating relationships can be complex, especially post-divorce. Financial independence is essential for a successful recovery. Owning your responsibilities is key to moving forward. Self-care is not selfish; it's necessary for healing. Past traumas can affect current relationships and must be addressed. Emotions during divorce are valid and should be expressed. Finding happiness is a journey that requires effort and self-awareness. Effort in relationships is reciprocal and vital for connection. Recognizing one's role in a relationship can lead to personal growth. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Social media during divorce recovery.  Rachel says be smart and I say don’t do it - take a break.  It never turns out well, most of the time.  So many people have an opinion on social media and divorce.  I have heard of instances where social media can be used in a divorce proceeding.  So, buyer beware!  Discussions of clearing the trash, celebrity divorce posts, social media has a lot of negativity, rudeness and social media and call a friend all are a part of the podcast.  You make the decision - what will you feel comfortable with?  The ball is in your court.  Topics of: Tinky Winky No regrets Worst roommate ever People want you to fail Don Henley - Dirty Laundry People are bold People do better Keep some of you prayers and thought for yourself No birthday party, no kid’s wedding and not coming to my funeral then delete! They want you to ask them! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Well, here it is again.  The craziness of the Divorce Devil Podcast.  We take off with starting with the notion of no control in your divorce or divorce recovery to road construction.  Never a dull moment.  You’ll be hard pressed to find a more ‘unique’ divorce recovery podcast.  Topics of round-a-bouts, loss of control is like chaos, you get a pony, Tootsie Roll, and Narnia goat.  Strap in because this show goes fast and all over the place.  Take a listen Discussions of: Someone has to be an adult Trying to get back to some normalcy Control is an overrated word Rebound It’s ok to say no You gotta be cruel to be kind You can’t control what happens at the ex’s house Don’t talk about you ex on the first date Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.