Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Hosted by us, David and Rachel, we dive deep into the real challenges people over 40 face after divorce, and why true healing is the only way forward. Are you struggling to move on after divorce? You’re not alone. Today, we tackle a crucial topic: What happens if you never recover from your divorce? If you’re stuck, numb, or wondering why life keeps throwing the same old curveballs, this episode is for you. We talk about the hidden dangers that come when men over 40 skip the hard work of healing. Why Is Healing So Important? Divorce isn’t just the end of a marriage—it’s a trauma that can quietly control every decision you make afterwards. Left unchecked, unhealed wounds can sabotage new relationships, friendships, careers, and even your health. We share real stories about how triggers—songs, places, even random memories—can knock you off balance when you least expect it. What Happens If You Don’t Heal? You might find yourself repeating old patterns, dragging past pain into every new relationship or friendship. Trust issues? Yep, they’ll follow you—making you cynical, closed-off, and always waiting for the next red flag. Financial fears, anxiety, and decision fatigue can creep in, affecting your confidence and independence. You may start isolating yourself, building walls that keep out not just pain, but also joy, connection, and opportunity. We get brutally honest about how not healing can cause you to lose friends, sabotage new love, and even pass emotional burdens onto your kids. Rachel shares how triggers still pop up, even years later, and why forgiveness and self-awareness are crucial steps in the journey. This Is Your Wake-Up Call! If you think moving on means just ignoring the pain, think again. We break down the practical steps everyone over 40 should take—therapy, journaling, financial education, and building a new support network. Whether you’re newly divorced or years out, your future happiness depends on the work you do now. Ready to Break the Cycle? You deserve more than just survival. You deserve to thrive as the best version of yourself—for your kids, your friends, your next relationship, and most of all, for YOU. 💬 How did you know it was time to start healing? What’s been your biggest challenge after divorce? Drop your story in the comments! We read every single one. 👍 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode if you found it helpful. Your journey matters—and you’re not alone. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast – the raw, unfiltered safe space for men over 40 (and anyone else who loves a little real talk during tough times)! Hosted by David, this episode dives into the emotional chaos, hard-won wisdom, and dark humor that comes with divorce recovery in midlife. 🎙️💥 If you're fresh off a breakup, knee-deep in divorce papers, or just feeling lost on the other side, you’re not alone. This episode is all about recognizing when you’re ready to heal, how to start the process, and why it’s NOT just about getting over your ex. It’s about rebuilding YOU – even if you never wanted to be in this situation! 🏗️ What You'll Hear in This Episode: The Alpha & Omega of Divorce Recovery: When does healing really start? Is it before the ink is dry, or only after you admit your pain? David and Rachel debate denial, anger, and the messy timeline of moving on. Co-Parenting Without Losing Your Mind: Real talk on how to stop fighting with your ex (even if you want to throw them under a bus) and focus on your kids instead. 👨‍👧‍👦 Ego, Friends Picking Sides, & The Devil on Your Shoulder: Stories about how your crew reacts to your split, why everyone has “their truth,” and how not to let your ego keep you stuck. When is it time to stop listening to divorce podcasts? Spoiler: If we’re keeping you stuck, it’s time for a break and possibly seek professional help  (but please come back when you’re ready!). Why this podcast isn’t just for the divorced: Whether you’re married, separated, or just reeling from a loss, the lessons here apply to ALL major life transitions. Packed with laughs, awkward confessions, and a few seriously helpful tips, this episode isn’t afraid to get real—sometimes hilariously so. ⚡ Who Should Listen? People over 40 navigating divorce, separation, or major breakups Anyone struggling with co-parenting or blended families Listeners looking for honest, supportive, and slightly irreverent perspectives on healing Hit play if you’re ready for raw advice, a little bit of sass, and the reminder that you’re not alone—even when it feels like everyone else “picked a side.” Now it’s your turn! 👇 Drop a comment below: What’s been your hardest moment in divorce recovery? Are you team “start healing early” or “wait for the paperwork”? Got a funny or cringe co-parenting story? We want to hear it! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit that bell 🔔 for more brutally honest episodes every week! #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DontPickTheScab Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to another unfiltered episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast! 🎙️ Whether you’re just starting your divorce recovery journey or you’re deep in the trenches of co-parenting after 40, you’re in the right place. In this episode, David and co-host Rachel are joined by Jerry—Rachel’s ex and a living, breathing example of what happens when two adults put their kids first, even when it’s messy. Ever wondered how to actually co-parent with your ex without losing your mind (or your kids)? We get brutally honest about the joys, pains, and unexpected laughter that comes with co-parenting after divorce, especially for those of us navigating this in our 40s and beyond. 💬 This episode dives deep into: The real emotional rollercoaster at the start of co-parenting—anger, confusion, and all the “firsts.” How to put your kids first, even when you’d rather never see your ex again. Why loving your kids more than you hate your ex is the secret sauce to making it work. Dealing with sensitive children, blended families, and the “new normal” after divorce. The importance (and struggle!) of communication, consistency, and setting boundaries. Laugh-out-loud moments and real stories about screwing up—and getting it right the next time. Holiday and custody hacks they DON’T teach you in court. When to let go, when to fight, and how to survive the sh*tstorm that is post-divorce co-parenting. We know divorce over 40 comes with extra baggage: older kids, college schedules, career changes, aging parents, and (let’s be real) less patience for drama. But we also know that with the right mindset and a little humor, you can raise strong, resilient kids and even find peace with your ex. Why listen to us? Because we’ve lived it. Our families weren’t perfect, and we made our share of mistakes—sometimes epic ones. But we learned, we laughed, and we kept our focus on what matters most: raising great kids, no matter what. 👇 Let’s talk! 👇 Are you co-parenting after 40? What’s your biggest challenge? Drop your struggles, wins, or hilarious fails in the comments—we respond to every one! Let’s build a community of parents who are getting real about divorce, healing, and raising amazing kids. Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the bell for more raw, real, and helpful episodes from the Divorce Devil Podcast! #DivorceOver40 #CoParenting #DivorceRecovery #DivorceDevilPodcast #SingleParenting #BlendedFamily #KidsFirst #Podcast Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 😈 If you’re divorced over 40 struggling with co-parenting, you're not alone. I'm David, with Rachel and we're diving into the messy, complicated world of co-parenting. We're tired of sugar-coating it. This is real life, real challenges, and real solutions. In this episode, we're talking about our top 5 co-parenting tips – both from my "non-cordial shit show" perspective 💩 and Rachel's more "love and light" approach ✨. No matter what your co-parenting style is, there are strategies that can make your life easier (and less stressful for your kids). We're tackling: Unrealistic Expectations: 🤦‍♂️ Why you thought you could still be friends with your ex (and why you probably can't). Setting Boundaries (and Sticking to Them!): 🚧 No more "nice parent" bullshit. Rules are rules. The "Holiday Harmony" Myth: 🎄 How to survive Christmas, birthdays, and every other special occasion without losing your damn mind. The Ping Pong Effect: 🏓 Why inconsistent rules between households are messing with your kids. Taking the Personal Hurt Out of It: ❤️ Loving your kids more than you hate your ex (even when it's REALLY hard). Communicating Like an Adult (Even When You Don't Want To): 🗣️ Using apps, texting strategically, and biting your tongue when necessary. Recognizing What You Can and Cannot Control: 🧘‍♂️ Focus on yourself, your kids, and your own household. Let go of the rest. Embracing Flexibilities 🤸‍♂️ Learn how to compromise and bend so your kids can enjoy their time. We get it. Co-parenting is a grind. It's frustrating, it's exhausting, and it can feel like a never-ending battle. But it's also an opportunity to put your kids first, create a stable environment, and show them what it means to be a good human being. So, if you're ready to ditch the drama, embrace the chaos, and find some sanity in the co-parenting process, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications! 🔥 We help with any questions on divorce advice. Now it's your turn! 👇 What's your biggest co-parenting challenge? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we’re here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present. 🧳✨ Why Do Old Memories Hit So Hard After Divorce? If you’ve ever found yourself flooded with memories—good, bad, or bittersweet—when you revisit old vacation spots or family traditions, you’re not alone. For many men, especially over 40, these moments can trigger unexpected emotions. Maybe you’re trying to enjoy a new adventure, but your mind keeps drifting back to trips with your ex or your kids. Or perhaps you’re struggling to set boundaries and keep the past from clouding your future. Rachel and David Share Real Talk & Real Solutions Rachel’s journey was more amicable, while David’s was all about boundaries and compartmentalizing. Together, they offer two unique perspectives on how men process divorce memories differently than women. From setting emotional boundaries to learning how to talk about the past without getting stuck in it, this episode is packed with practical advice and a few laughs along the way. 😂 Key Takeaways: Why men and women process divorce memories differently How to set healthy boundaries with your ex and your kids Tips for making new memories without erasing the old ones The importance of feeling your emotions (yes, it’s okay to cry, guys!) How to avoid letting the past sabotage your new relationships Are You Ready to Move Forward? Healing after divorce isn’t about forgetting the past—it’s about learning from it and building something better. Whether you’re co-parenting, starting to date again, or just trying to find peace, this episode will help you take the next step. Join the Conversation! Have you struggled with old memories after your divorce? How do you handle vacations, holidays, or family traditions now? Drop a comment below and share your story! 👇 Your experience could help another man on his journey to recovery. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast. And if you want to be a guest and share your story, reach out—we’d love to hear from you! Remember: You can’t drive forward if you’re always looking in the rearview mirror. Let’s build new memories together! 🚗💨 #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #NewBeginnings #HealingAfterDivorce Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Hey everyone, and welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 👋 If you'reover 40 navigating the wild world of divorce recovery, you're in the right place. I'm David, and with me as always is my amazing co-host, Rachel, and today we are diving deep into something super important that no one talks about: The nonlinear effects of divorce recovery. The truth that comes with bumps, valleys and dips! Forget the idea that healing is a straight line from A to Z. 🙅‍♂️ This ain't a simple recipe, folks! We're here to tell you that it’s OK to feel like you're on a rollercoaster 🎢, with moments of clarity followed by unexpected setbacks, or even just that sense of being stuck somewhere! In this episode, we get brutally honest about why that's normal. We're unpacking: The Myth of Linear Healing: Why you feel like you should be "over it" already. 🙄 Real-Life Examples: Times where we and others have faced unexpected emotional hurdles. 🤕 The "Drunken Toddler with a Crayon" Analogy: 🖍️ Yup, healing can be that chaotic. Navigating Triggers: Birthdays, anniversaries, that one song... 🎶 The "Revenge Body" Phenomenon: 💪 Is it healthy? Is it just a phase? We debate. 🥊 Sad But Horny Spirals 😭➡️😈 And is there anything wrong with needing connection? (Plus the weighted blanket discussion.) Why Forgiveness Is F**king Hard: 🤬 (Especially when Barbara is involved! 😅) The Importance of Self-Compassion: ❤️ Treating yourself like you'd treat a friend. When to Seek Help: 🤝 Recognizing when you need a therapist, a doctor, or just a damn good friend. Whether you're feeling lost, confused, or just plain exhausted, know that you're not alone. We've been there, we've messed up, and we're still figuring it out. This podcast is for anyone who needs a dose of reality, a few laughs, and a reminder that healing is a journey, not a destination. 💯 Barbara’s Forgiveness Website: -https://www.forgivenessmadeeasy.co.uk/ So, grab a drink 🍺 (or a crayon 🖍️), strap in, and let's get real about divorce. If you are ready for the journey, Subscribe to the channel to find some helpful tips and videos. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

💔 Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 224! 💔 Hosted by David and co-host Rachel, this episode dives deep into the emotional rollercoaster of divorce recovery. We’re tackling one of the toughest challenges: how to avoid becoming cynical during your healing journey and how to recognize when you’ve truly healed. 🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The 3 stages of divorce recovery: chaos, rebuilding, and thriving. How to handle setbacks without losing progress. Why cynicism creeps in and how to stop overthinking everything. Tools and strategies to help you move forward faster after emotional triggers. How to know if you’ve healed enough to embrace new relationships or friendships. 🌟 Key Takeaways: Healing isn’t linear—it’s a journey filled with ups, downs, and unexpected detours. Whether you’re dealing with financial stress, emotional triggers, or the lingering pain of betrayal, this episode offers practical advice and relatable stories to help you navigate the process. 💡 Our Favorite Moments: Rachel’s hilarious take on becoming “Mrs. Kravitz” (you’ll laugh AND relate!). David’s insights on why healing is about progress, not perfection. The importance of setting boundaries and letting go of toxic relationships. ✨ Why This Episode Matters: Divorce can feel like the end of the world, but it’s really just a new beginning. By embracing the healing process, you can rebuild your life, rediscover your worth, and create a future filled with hope and happiness. 💬 We Want to Hear From You! What stage of divorce recovery are you in? Have you struggled with cynicism or setbacks? Share your story in the comments below—we’d love to support you on your journey! 👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast. Let’s heal together! 💖 Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, where hosts David and Rachel dive deep into the challenges of divorce recovery for those over 40. In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles after divorce: emotional baggage. Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or years into your healing journey, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable tips, and a sprinkle of humor to help you move forward. 💔 What is Emotional Baggage? Emotional baggage is the invisible weight we carry from past relationships, childhood experiences, and unresolved pain. It can sneak into new relationships, friendships, and even your daily life, holding you back from living your best life. But here's the good news: you don’t have to carry it forever. 🛠️ What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to identify the emotional baggage you're carrying. Practical exercises to unpack and release the pain. Why setting boundaries is essential for healing. How to embrace your independence and rediscover yourself. The importance of intentional healing and self-care. Rachel shares her personal journey of discovering her identity after a 24-year marriage, while David offers insights into how emotional baggage can impact new relationships. Together, they explore how to lighten your emotional load and create space for new beginnings. ✨ Key Takeaways: Healing is a process, not a destination. Letting go of the past doesn’t mean forgetting—it means learning and growing. You deserve to live a life free from the weight of old pain. 🎙️ Relatable, Real, and Raw: This episode is filled with metaphors (hello, luggage and suitcases!) to make the concept of emotional baggage relatable and easy to understand. From packing for vacations to unpacking the emotional clutter of divorce, David and Rachel keep it real with their candid conversations and lighthearted banter. 💡 Your Next Steps: Take inventory of your emotional baggage. What’s worth keeping, and what needs to go? Start small—set one boundary or let go of one painful memory today. Remember, healing takes time, and it’s okay to ask for help. 💬 Join the Conversation! What emotional baggage are you ready to let go of? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Let’s support each other on this journey to healing and happiness. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell 🔔 so you never miss an episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

🌊 Welcome to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast,' Episode 222! 🌟 In this heartfelt episode, host David and Rachel reflect on the emotional journey of divorce recovery. . Returning to old traditions like a vacation at the beach, Rachel  shares the struggles of revisiting the past while creating new memories in the present. Are you struggling with letting go of your pre-divorce life? Do you feel stuck between cherishing old memories and building a new future? You’re not alone. ❤️ Rachel opens up about finding peace in the chaos of divorce, navigating the loss of old traditions, and embracing new ones with the people who matter most. She shares how the first vacation without his ex-spouse became a turning point—learning to balance nostalgia with the promise of new beginnings. 🌅 💡 Key Takeaways from This Episode: ✔️ It’s okay to miss your old life while moving forward. ✔️ Learn how to create new traditions that work for your current reality. ✔️ Finding peace is possible, even after the most difficult transitions. ✔️ How self-reflection and acceptance can help you heal. Rachel’s journey is a reminder that life after divorce isn’t the end—it’s a chance to redefine yourself, embrace new opportunities, and find joy in the little moments like sitting on the beach or hearing the waves crash. 🌴 What are your new traditions after divorce? What traditions from your past do you cherish? Let’s start a conversation in the comments! 💬👇 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real, relatable insights into life after divorce for people over 40. Let’s heal and grow together. 🌟 #DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #NewBeginnings #HealingAfterDivorce #SelfReflection #LifeAfterDivorce Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Rachel is on vacation this week.  She’ll be back on the mic next week.  💔 Divorce can feel like the end of everything, but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of the “Divorce Devil Podcast,” host I sit down with Jody Bruns, founder of the Divorce Lending Association and a pioneer in divorce mortgage planning. With over 35 years of experience in finance and real estate, Jody has helped thousands of professionals and families navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity, strategy, and compassion. 🚀 Jody’s personal journey through divorce inspired her mission to educate others, create innovative solutions, and empower families to make smart financial decisions during one of life’s toughest transitions. She’s trained nearly 10,000 professionals and written a national certification for divorce mortgage planning, transforming how divorcing couples handle real estate and finances. 🏡 Key Takeaways from This Episode: Why keeping the family home may hurt more than it helps. How emotions could derail your financial stability (and how to avoid it). The biggest myths about real estate during divorce—and why they could cost you. Why “legal options” don’t always align with “mortgage options.” How divorce planning can set you up for success, not stress. Jody also shares real-life stories of people who turned their post-divorce lives around by embracing strategy over emotion. Learn how one mom avoided becoming “house poor” and how another client avoided costly mistakes by understanding the relationship between divorce agreements and mortgage qualifications. 📘 About Jody Bruns: Jody is the author of "A House Divided" and an expert in family law, tax planning, and finance. She’s dedicated to helping people see divorce not as the end, but as an opportunity for a brighter, more secure future. 🔥 Why This Episode Is a Must-Listen for Divorcing People Over 40: Whether you’re keeping the house, selling it, or unsure of the next step, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you navigate the financial realities of divorce. Stop relying on Google for answers that may be wrong—get the insider knowledge you need to move forward with confidence. 💡 Pro Tip: Don’t let emotions cloud your judgment. Treat your divorce like a business decision to protect your future. 📣 Join the Conversation! What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced (or are facing) in your divorce journey? Drop your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story and help you move forward. 👇 🔔 Don’t forget to LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode of the “Divorce Devil Podcast.” Your recovery starts here! 💪 #DivorceRecovery, #DivorcePlanning #RealEstate #DivorceSupport #HealingAfterDivorce Jody's Website (https://www.jodybruns.com/) Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.