5 Skills Every Divorced Dad Needs for Relationships and Co-Parenting 🧠👨‍👦 || DPTSP#146 || Olivier Bessaignet

35min | 06/06/2026

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💔 Struggling to rebuild your life after divorce? This episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast is for YOU. Join your host, David Marcus Webb, as he sits down with Olivier Bessaignet, a relationship coach and divorced father who’s mastered the art of rebuilding after heartbreak. Together, they break down 5 transformative intimacy skills that are essential for men over 40 navigating life after divorce.

🧠 What You’ll Learn:

The Circle of Safety: Why boundaries, ownership, and integrity protect love and respect.
Emotional Intimacy: How to connect deeply with your partner (or co-parent) and foster understanding.
Polarity: Mastering the balance of masculine and feminine energy to create lasting attraction.
Playful Banter: The art of flirting and keeping the spark alive—even in long-term relationships.
Tantric Lovemaking: Building deep physical and emotional connection through presence.

Olivier shares his personal journey from years of therapy and relationship challenges to creating a tactical system that helps men like you thrive in co-parenting, relationships, and beyond. Whether you're facing co-parenting struggles, boundary issues, or feeling stuck post-divorce, this episode is packed with actionable advice!

👨‍👦 For Co-Parenting Dads:

You’ll also hear strategies to maintain resilience, communicate effectively, and become the role model your children need—even when your ex isn’t on the same page.

💡 Key Takeaways:

Being a “better person” isn’t enough—it’s about mastering specific skills that lead to healthier relationships.
Respect starts with YOU. Learn how to embody and demand respect in your relationships.
The importance of playfulness and how to reignite connection, even after years together.

🌟 About Olivier Bessaignet:

Olivier’s unique system is rooted in his hard-earned lessons as a divorced father with full custody of his son. He’s the author of Back to Love and Respect and offers a powerful assessment tool to help men identify their strengths and areas for growth.

📣 👉 Ready to take the first step? Visit BackToLoveAndRespect.com to try Olivier’s FREE 3-minute assessment and discover your relationship strengths and challenges.

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION:

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced after divorce? Let us know in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with a friend who needs it. 🙌

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

💔 Struggling to rebuild your life after divorce? This episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast is for YOU. Join your host, David Marcus Webb, as he sits down with Olivier Bessaignet, a relationship coach and divorced father who’s mastered the art of rebuilding after heartbreak. Together, they break down 5 transformative intimacy skills that are essential for men over 40 navigating life after divorce.

🧠 What You’ll Learn:

The Circle of Safety: Why boundaries, ownership, and integrity protect love and respect.
Emotional Intimacy: How to connect deeply with your partner (or co-parent) and foster understanding.
Polarity: Mastering the balance of masculine and feminine energy to create lasting attraction.
Playful Banter: The art of flirting and keeping the spark alive—even in long-term relationships.
Tantric Lovemaking: Building deep physical and emotional connection through presence.

Olivier shares his personal journey from years of therapy and relationship challenges to creating a tactical system that helps men like you thrive in co-parenting, relationships, and beyond. Whether you're facing co-parenting struggles, boundary issues, or feeling stuck post-divorce, this episode is packed with actionable advice!

👨‍👦 For Co-Parenting Dads:

You’ll also hear strategies to maintain resilience, communicate effectively, and become the role model your children need—even when your ex isn’t on the same page.

💡 Key Takeaways:

Being a “better person” isn’t enough—it’s about mastering specific skills that lead to healthier relationships.
Respect starts with YOU. Learn how to embody and demand respect in your relationships.
The importance of playfulness and how to reignite connection, even after years together.

🌟 About Olivier Bessaignet:

Olivier’s unique system is rooted in his hard-earned lessons as a divorced father with full custody of his son. He’s the author of Back to Love and Respect and offers a powerful assessment tool to help men identify their strengths and areas for growth.

📣 👉 Ready to take the first step? Visit BackToLoveAndRespect.com to try Olivier’s FREE 3-minute assessment and discover your relationship strengths and challenges.

💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION:

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced after divorce? Let us know in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with a friend who needs it. 🙌

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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