Divorce Survival Guide for Men Over 40: Wisdom from Nicky Billou 🛠️

27min | 07/02/2025

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Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David Webb sits down with the incredible Nicky Billou, a two-time New York Times bestselling author and thought leader, to discuss how men can rebuild their lives after divorce. With over 600 podcast appearances and years of experience coaching men, Nicky shares actionable insights to help you turn your pain into purpose.

🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why men’s groups are essential for healing and growth 👥
How to stop blaming your ex (or yourself) and take responsibility for your future 💡
The importance of forgiveness—for her, for yourself, and for your kids ❤️
How to adopt the Champion Mindset and use divorce as a catalyst for reinvention 🏆
Real-life stories of resilience, including how Nicky overcame his own divorce and built a thriving life 🌟

Nicky also dives into the mental roadblocks that hold men back after divorce, such as anger, blame, and self-pity. He explains why traditional therapy often doesn’t work for men and how masculine-only spaces can provide the support and accountability you need to move forward.

💪 This episode is packed with practical advice for men who feel stuck, lost, or unsure of how to rebuild their lives. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, struggling with self-doubt, or looking for a way to reinvent yourself professionally, this conversation will inspire you to take action.

🔥 Key Takeaways:

"Life happens FOR you, not TO you." Learn how to shift your mindset and see divorce as an opportunity for growth.
"Success is a team sport." Discover why surrounding yourself with the right men can a
ccelerate your recovery.
"Your kids deserve the best version of you." Find out how to co-parent effectively and lead by example.

💬 Join the Conversation: What’s been your biggest challenge in recovering from divorce? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Let’s create a community where men can support each other through this journey. 👇

📞 Need more support? Connect with Nicky Billou for a free success call at www.Ecircleacademy.com/appointment. Whether you’re looking to rebuild your career, improve your relationships, or just need someone to listen, Nicky is here to help.

🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast. Together, we’ll turn life’s toughest challenges into stepping stones for a brighter future. 🌟

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David Webb sits down with the incredible Nicky Billou, a two-time New York Times bestselling author and thought leader, to discuss how men can rebuild their lives after divorce. With over 600 podcast appearances and years of experience coaching men, Nicky shares actionable insights to help you turn your pain into purpose.

🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why men’s groups are essential for healing and growth 👥
How to stop blaming your ex (or yourself) and take responsibility for your future 💡
The importance of forgiveness—for her, for yourself, and for your kids ❤️
How to adopt the Champion Mindset and use divorce as a catalyst for reinvention 🏆
Real-life stories of resilience, including how Nicky overcame his own divorce and built a thriving life 🌟

Nicky also dives into the mental roadblocks that hold men back after divorce, such as anger, blame, and self-pity. He explains why traditional therapy often doesn’t work for men and how masculine-only spaces can provide the support and accountability you need to move forward.

💪 This episode is packed with practical advice for men who feel stuck, lost, or unsure of how to rebuild their lives. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, struggling with self-doubt, or looking for a way to reinvent yourself professionally, this conversation will inspire you to take action.

🔥 Key Takeaways:

"Life happens FOR you, not TO you." Learn how to shift your mindset and see divorce as an opportunity for growth.
"Success is a team sport." Discover why surrounding yourself with the right men can a
ccelerate your recovery.
"Your kids deserve the best version of you." Find out how to co-parent effectively and lead by example.

💬 Join the Conversation: What’s been your biggest challenge in recovering from divorce? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Let’s create a community where men can support each other through this journey. 👇

📞 Need more support? Connect with Nicky Billou for a free success call at www.Ecircleacademy.com/appointment. Whether you’re looking to rebuild your career, improve your relationships, or just need someone to listen, Nicky is here to help.

🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast. Together, we’ll turn life’s toughest challenges into stepping stones for a brighter future. 🌟

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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