How to Find Joy & Purpose After Divorce: A Men’s Guide w/ Reginald Martin | Don’t Pick the Scab 🎙️🌈

23min | 08/22/2025

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Are you a man over 40 navigating the stormy waters of divorce? You are not alone, and there is a path to healing, growth, and renewed purpose. In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, your host David sits down with Reginald Martin—a spiritual architect, metaphysician, and the visionary creator of Kemetaphysics—for a raw, honest, and empowering conversation designed just for you. 💪

Reginald’s journey is a testament to real transformation. Once an ex-Christian still struggling with inherited beliefs, he broke free from the “invisible architecture” of religion and discovered a life-changing framework that merges ancient Kemetic science with modern metaphysics and spiritual psychology. After his own divorce and spiritual burnout, Reginald found healing and answers in the principle of Ma’at: truth, balance, and divine reciprocity. His story shows us how to reconstruct our identity, reprogram our subconscious, and create a life beyond guilt, fear, or apology.

Key Topics in This Episode:

Why men often repeat the same relationship patterns after divorce (and how to break the cycle) 🔁
How religious programming can impact your self-worth and relationships as a man
The principle of Ma’at: using ancient wisdom to find balance, healing, and joy in your new life 🏛️
The importance of community, emotional intelligence, and choosing joy every day
How to use the “emotional barometer technique” to align with your true purpose and happiness 🎯

Reginald shares practical steps for men to rebuild after loss and deconstruction, including how to recognize the signals life gives us, why it’s okay to look within, and how embracing your emotions is not only manly, but essential for growth. Plus, we discuss how to release the guilt of divorce—especially when kids are involved—and why your children’s journey is their own.

About Reginald Martin:

Reginald now mentors spiritual leaders and visionaries ready to step into full sovereignty and unapologetic alignment. You can connect with him and learn more about his work at reginaldmartin.substack.com.

Ready to start your transformation? Join us on this journey of healing and empowerment. If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations that help men over 40 reclaim their power and happiness after divorce.

👇 We want to hear from you!

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced post-divorce? Did any of Reginald’s insights hit home for you? Drop a comment below, share your story, or let us know what topics you want to hear next. Your voice matters!

Reginald's Website!

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DontPickTheScab #ReginaldMartin #HealingAfterDivorce #SpiritualGrowth #NewBeginnings

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Are you a man over 40 navigating the stormy waters of divorce? You are not alone, and there is a path to healing, growth, and renewed purpose. In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, your host David sits down with Reginald Martin—a spiritual architect, metaphysician, and the visionary creator of Kemetaphysics—for a raw, honest, and empowering conversation designed just for you. 💪

Reginald’s journey is a testament to real transformation. Once an ex-Christian still struggling with inherited beliefs, he broke free from the “invisible architecture” of religion and discovered a life-changing framework that merges ancient Kemetic science with modern metaphysics and spiritual psychology. After his own divorce and spiritual burnout, Reginald found healing and answers in the principle of Ma’at: truth, balance, and divine reciprocity. His story shows us how to reconstruct our identity, reprogram our subconscious, and create a life beyond guilt, fear, or apology.

Key Topics in This Episode:

Why men often repeat the same relationship patterns after divorce (and how to break the cycle) 🔁
How religious programming can impact your self-worth and relationships as a man
The principle of Ma’at: using ancient wisdom to find balance, healing, and joy in your new life 🏛️
The importance of community, emotional intelligence, and choosing joy every day
How to use the “emotional barometer technique” to align with your true purpose and happiness 🎯

Reginald shares practical steps for men to rebuild after loss and deconstruction, including how to recognize the signals life gives us, why it’s okay to look within, and how embracing your emotions is not only manly, but essential for growth. Plus, we discuss how to release the guilt of divorce—especially when kids are involved—and why your children’s journey is their own.

About Reginald Martin:

Reginald now mentors spiritual leaders and visionaries ready to step into full sovereignty and unapologetic alignment. You can connect with him and learn more about his work at reginaldmartin.substack.com.

Ready to start your transformation? Join us on this journey of healing and empowerment. If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations that help men over 40 reclaim their power and happiness after divorce.

👇 We want to hear from you!

What’s the biggest challenge you’ve faced post-divorce? Did any of Reginald’s insights hit home for you? Drop a comment below, share your story, or let us know what topics you want to hear next. Your voice matters!

Reginald's Website!

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DontPickTheScab #ReginaldMartin #HealingAfterDivorce #SpiritualGrowth #NewBeginnings

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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