DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Men Dating After Divorce: A 20-Year Dating Coach's Playbook 🎙️❤️ Jared Laurence || DPTSP#163

34min | 10/25/2026

Description

Dating after divorce when you're over 40 feels impossible — but what if it's actually EASIER than when you were 22? 😳

In this episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, David sits down with Jared Laurence — a dating coach with 20 years of experience, author of "The Psychology of Modern Flirting" and "How to Meet Your Dream Girl Tonight," who has helped over 7,000 men (and counting 479 marriages 💍) get back on their feet and back in the game after divorce.

Jared works almost exclusively with men over 40 who are starting over — and in this no-fluff conversation, he breaks down EXACTLY what divorced guys get wrong about dating, confidence, and putting yourself back out there.

🔥 IN THIS EPISODE:

✅ Why "just be okay being single" is terrible advice (and what to do instead)

✅ The dating funnel: how to meet women the RIGHT way after divorce

✅ How his clients get 10-20 matches a week and 1-2 dates a week on the apps 📱

✅ Why your Instagram is your "landing page for your life" — and why a picture of cheese is costing you dates 🧀

✅ The first 10-30 seconds: what to say and how to lower her guard

✅ Why real confidence comes from COMPETENCE, not journaling and meditation (Navy SEALs panic at the bar too! 💪)

✅ The "Fish Love" parable that tells you when to end a relationship you know isn't right 🐟

✅ Dating with kids: when to mention them and when to introduce them 👶

✅ First date mistakes: trauma dumping, overspending, and the "Netflix and chill" trap ❌

✅ Why first dates should be fun (barcades, axe throwing, mini golf) — NOT heavy coffee conversations ☕

✅ The 3 ingredients for dating success: practice, experiment, and a mentor

Whether you're freshly divorced, stuck in the red pill rabbit hole 🚩, or just lonely on an empty custody week wondering what the hell to do with yourself — this episode hands you the practical playbook. No theory. No platitudes. No pitching. Just real-world guidance from a guy who's guided thousands of men through the exact season you're in.

🎙️ Subscribe for new episodes helping men heal, rebuild, and thrive after divorce — healing loud, healing proud, and NOT picking the scab.

📲 CONNECT WITH JARED LAURENCE: 🌐 Website: www.themodernsuccess.com 📘 Facebook: Modern Success Dating Advice 📸 Instagram: @thejaredlawrence / @thejaredlawrencecoach

💬 LET'S TALK IN THE COMMENTS: What's the BIGGEST thing holding you back from getting back out there after your divorce? Drop it below — I read every single comment and your question might become a future episode! 👇🔥

👍 Like this video if it gave you at least one "wait, THAT'S the secret?" moment 🔔 Subscribe & hit the bell so you never miss an episode 📤 Share this with a buddy who needs to hear "it's easier now than it was at 22"

And, when a famous dating coach quotes a TOP GUN line on you, you’re riding high the rest of the day? Thanks Jared!

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Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.