What elements of the Technical Staffing space can be applied to and help men in Divorce Recovery? Mark Aylward || DRMO40 # 012 || David

24min | 01/07/2024

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You would think that technical staffing and divorce recovery as so far apart like oil and vinegar. But not so! In my interview with Mark Aylward, who shares his experiences with divorce, offers advice for men over 40 going through similar situations, Mark discusses his transition from a technical recruiter to a career as an executive coach, emphasizing the importance of passion and storytelling in finding new opportunities. He also highlights the need for self-reflection and personal growth after divorce, and provides guidance on navigating job interviews and rebuilding financially. Mark emphasizes the importance of resilience, transparency, and clarity in overcoming challenges and moving forward.

Takeaways and Important Points:

-divorce can be a challenging and emotionally turbulent experience, but it can also be an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection.

-crafting a clear and compelling story about your experiences and goals is essential in job interviews and career transitions.

-recovering from divorce requires resilience, self-care, and a willingness to explore new opportunities.

-transparency and honesty are crucial in building relationships and finding success in the job market.

-navigating financial hardship after divorce requires careful planning, prioritization, and seeking support from a strong support network.

-went back to church and took up yoga

-got sole custody of his kids, while representing himself in the divorce (He’s not a lawyer!)

-most people are not doing what they were put on this earth to do

-losing a job is similar to divorce - confidence, pride and skills take a hit

-you can’t chase money, fees and/or transactions - it’s all about relationships

-we are twins

-help people to figure out what their options are

-when bad things happen, take a pause for a second, minute or an hour to take a look at the situation

-learn when, to whom, and how to say something

Mark's Contact Info and and Website - 7pillarsglobal.com

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

You would think that technical staffing and divorce recovery as so far apart like oil and vinegar. But not so! In my interview with Mark Aylward, who shares his experiences with divorce, offers advice for men over 40 going through similar situations, Mark discusses his transition from a technical recruiter to a career as an executive coach, emphasizing the importance of passion and storytelling in finding new opportunities. He also highlights the need for self-reflection and personal growth after divorce, and provides guidance on navigating job interviews and rebuilding financially. Mark emphasizes the importance of resilience, transparency, and clarity in overcoming challenges and moving forward.

Takeaways and Important Points:

-divorce can be a challenging and emotionally turbulent experience, but it can also be an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection.

-crafting a clear and compelling story about your experiences and goals is essential in job interviews and career transitions.

-recovering from divorce requires resilience, self-care, and a willingness to explore new opportunities.

-transparency and honesty are crucial in building relationships and finding success in the job market.

-navigating financial hardship after divorce requires careful planning, prioritization, and seeking support from a strong support network.

-went back to church and took up yoga

-got sole custody of his kids, while representing himself in the divorce (He’s not a lawyer!)

-most people are not doing what they were put on this earth to do

-losing a job is similar to divorce - confidence, pride and skills take a hit

-you can’t chase money, fees and/or transactions - it’s all about relationships

-we are twins

-help people to figure out what their options are

-when bad things happen, take a pause for a second, minute or an hour to take a look at the situation

-learn when, to whom, and how to say something

Mark's Contact Info and and Website - 7pillarsglobal.com

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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