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Welcome back to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ In this powerful episode, I’m joined by David E. Feldman—a prolific author, musician, painter, and living testament to the power of transformation. Whether you’re a man over 40 navigating the painful aftermath of divorce or anyone seeking inspiration to rise above life’s darkest moments, you’re in the right place.
Who is David E. Feldman?
David’s life reads like one of his own mystery novels. He’s the author of 15 books, including the Dora Ellison and Hammer and Sharp series, but his greatest masterpiece is his journey from the brink. After 31 years of sobriety, surviving addiction, cancer, depression, spinal surgeries, and so much more, David has emerged stronger and more creative than ever.
Why Should Men Over 40 Listen?
Let’s face it—midlife divorce can feel like a knockout punch. The world tells us to ‘man up,’ but what do you do when you’re left with pain, regret, and a broken sense of purpose? David shares not just his survival, but how he turned trauma into triumph. His story proves it’s never too late to rewrite your narrative.
Key Takeaways from This Episode:
How to Turn Pain Into Power: David’s turning point came when he realized his pain could be transformed into purpose. Discover practical steps to start your own healing journey.
The Role of Creativity in Recovery: Whether it’s writing, music, or painting, David explains how channeling pain into creative outlets can be life-changing.
Finding Your ‘Why’ After Divorce: Learn why reconnecting with your passions—what you loved as a kid—can be the key to moving forward.
The Value of Community: From 12-step recovery groups to simply reaching out, David highlights why support and helping others are essential for men rebuilding after divorce.
Coping with Depression and Isolation: David opens up about his battles with depression, offering hope and real strategies for those who feel alone in their struggle.
Are You Ready to Rewrite Your Story?
No matter how dark things seem, you have the power to rebuild and thrive. David’s resilience is proof that your greatest struggles can become your greatest strengths. Whether you’re facing addiction, depression, or the heartbreak of divorce, you’re not alone—and your best days can still be ahead.
👇 Join the Conversation! 👇
What part of David’s journey resonated most with you? Have you found a creative or community outlet that helped you heal after divorce? Drop your thoughts, questions, or your own recovery story in the comments below! Let’s build a community of men supporting men—because healing is better together. 💬
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