The Power of Stoicism for Divorced Men | Reclaiming Strength and Identity 💪 - Augustus V. || DPTSP #097 || David M. Webb

32min | 05/08/2025

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Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we tackle the raw and real challenges faced by men over 40 navigating life after divorce. Hosted by David, this episode dives deep into healing, masculinity, and rediscovering your identity with poet, philosopher, and advocate Augustus Vaughn.

📚 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ What is Stoicism? Discover how the ancient philosophy of self-control can transform your emotional recovery.

✅ Why Men Struggle Post-Divorce: The societal programming that undermines masculinity—and how to break free.

✅ Practical Steps to Heal: Learn how to take control of your emotions, rebuild your identity, and avoid falling into the same traps again.

✅ The Role of Creativity in Healing: How poetry and writing can help you process pain and rediscover purpose.

✅ The Importance of Brotherhood: Why building a community of strong, like-minded men is essential for recovery.

🎙️ Augustus Vaughn shares his unique journey—from growing up in Watts, CA, to finding purpose through stoicism and poetry. He also explores actionable strategies for men to rebuild their lives, including how to channel anger constructively and use spirituality for healing—regardless of religious background.

💡 Key Takeaways for Men Over 40:

Embrace Stoicism: Learn to control what’s in your power and let go of what isn’t.
Reset Your Identity: Divorce is not the end—it’s a chance to start a new chapter.
Build a Support Network: Community and brotherhood can be life-changing tools for healing.
Use Creativity as Therapy: Writing, poetry, or creative outlets can help you process emotions and grow.
Focus on Legacy: Live for the generations before you and the ones to come.

🔥 Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? This episode offers encouragement, actionable advice, and a roadmap for rediscovering your masculine strength after divorce.

💬 Join the Conversation:

What’s been the biggest challenge for you after divorce? Let us know in the comments below! Your story might inspire someone else on their healing journey.

🛠️ Connect with Augustus Vaughn:

Books, resources, and community links are available at Augustus Vaughn

🌟 Subscribe for More:

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! New episodes drop weekly, offering tools and stories to help men over 40 overcome challenges and thrive.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we tackle the raw and real challenges faced by men over 40 navigating life after divorce. Hosted by David, this episode dives deep into healing, masculinity, and rediscovering your identity with poet, philosopher, and advocate Augustus Vaughn.

📚 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ What is Stoicism? Discover how the ancient philosophy of self-control can transform your emotional recovery.

✅ Why Men Struggle Post-Divorce: The societal programming that undermines masculinity—and how to break free.

✅ Practical Steps to Heal: Learn how to take control of your emotions, rebuild your identity, and avoid falling into the same traps again.

✅ The Role of Creativity in Healing: How poetry and writing can help you process pain and rediscover purpose.

✅ The Importance of Brotherhood: Why building a community of strong, like-minded men is essential for recovery.

🎙️ Augustus Vaughn shares his unique journey—from growing up in Watts, CA, to finding purpose through stoicism and poetry. He also explores actionable strategies for men to rebuild their lives, including how to channel anger constructively and use spirituality for healing—regardless of religious background.

💡 Key Takeaways for Men Over 40:

Embrace Stoicism: Learn to control what’s in your power and let go of what isn’t.
Reset Your Identity: Divorce is not the end—it’s a chance to start a new chapter.
Build a Support Network: Community and brotherhood can be life-changing tools for healing.
Use Creativity as Therapy: Writing, poetry, or creative outlets can help you process emotions and grow.
Focus on Legacy: Live for the generations before you and the ones to come.

🔥 Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? This episode offers encouragement, actionable advice, and a roadmap for rediscovering your masculine strength after divorce.

💬 Join the Conversation:

What’s been the biggest challenge for you after divorce? Let us know in the comments below! Your story might inspire someone else on their healing journey.

🛠️ Connect with Augustus Vaughn:

Books, resources, and community links are available at Augustus Vaughn

🌟 Subscribe for More:

If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! New episodes drop weekly, offering tools and stories to help men over 40 overcome challenges and thrive.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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