When Do I Gain Confidence After My Divorce? Real Talk for Men Over 40 || DPTSP #122 || David M. Webb

03min | 09/13/2025

Description

Are you a man over 40 struggling to rebuild your confidence after a divorce? You're not alone. In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David shares a proven roadmap for men looking to reclaim their identity, self-worth, and sense of purpose after a marriage ends.

Divorce is life-altering, especially for men who’ve invested decades in a relationship. The aftermath can leave you questioning who you are and if happiness is possible again. David, a divorce recovery advocate, has guided countless men through this challenging transition—and now, he’s here to help you.

🌟 What you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why confidence often takes a hit after divorce, and why it’s normal

• How to process emotions like anger, sadness, and grief in healthy ways

• Steps to rediscover your identity and reclaim old passions

• The power of self-care, exercise, and setting healthy boundaries

• Why building a support network is crucial—and where to find one

• How to challenge negative self-talk and set new, exciting goals

Remember, recovery isn’t overnight, but each step forward builds a stronger, more resilient you.

💬 What’s been your biggest challenge in rebuilding confidence after divorce? Drop a comment below and join the conversation! Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk and support for men over 40 navigating divorce recovery.

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About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.