Why Encouragement is Essential for Men Over 40 After Divorce - Frank Sinclair || DPTSP #136 || David M. Webb

21min | 01/18/2026

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Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes for men over 40 to recover, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. I’m your host, David, and in this episode, I’m joined by Frank Sinclair—the Chief Encouragement Officer at Dream Again Business Consulting, acclaimed author, and host of the “Be Encouraged” podcast show.

Frank brings years of hands-on experience empowering men and entrepreneurs to find hope and overcome life's toughest setbacks—including divorce. In this candid conversation, we dive deep into the unique challenges men face after 40, from isolation and discouragement to rebuilding self-esteem, developing healthy habits, and setting new boundaries.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The Power of Encouragement: Why hope is the foundation of any successful recovery, and how to nurture it in your daily life.
Frank’s Personal Story: From growing up in poverty to almost losing his wife—Frank shares how he turned life’s toughest moments into fuel for growth.
Facing Your Own Role: Discover why true healing starts with honest self-reflection, not blaming your ex.
Building Resilience: The role of “failing forward,” embracing mistakes, and why small, steady goals beat lofty, vague dreams.
Self-Care for Men (Finally!): Why men often neglect their own needs, and practical ways to develop self-discipline, self-respect, and compassion—even if you’ve never done it before.
Boundaries & Expectations: How to set and KEEP boundaries, communicate them clearly, and adjust your expectations for future relationships.
The Role of Therapy: Breaking the stigma for men (especially men of color) and why seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Recognizing Discouragement: Spotting the red flags (like isolation, fatigue, and loss of hope), and practical steps to reconnect and re-engage with life.

Frank also shares some of his favorite books and resources, including “Mindset” by Dr. Carol Dweck—tools that have helped countless men move from simply surviving to truly thriving after divorce.

If you’re a man over 40 feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward after divorce, this episode is for you!

👉 Listen now and start your journey toward hope, healing, and a better future.

💬 What’s been your biggest challenge or breakthrough in divorce recovery? Drop a comment below! Your story could help another man on his journey.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs a little encouragement today! And check the show notes for Frank’s book recommendations and links to his podcast.

Frank Sinclair on LinkedIn

Be Encouraged Podcast

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #Encouragement #SelfCare #Boundaries #DontPickTheScab #Podcast

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About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes for men over 40 to recover, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. I’m your host, David, and in this episode, I’m joined by Frank Sinclair—the Chief Encouragement Officer at Dream Again Business Consulting, acclaimed author, and host of the “Be Encouraged” podcast show.

Frank brings years of hands-on experience empowering men and entrepreneurs to find hope and overcome life's toughest setbacks—including divorce. In this candid conversation, we dive deep into the unique challenges men face after 40, from isolation and discouragement to rebuilding self-esteem, developing healthy habits, and setting new boundaries.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The Power of Encouragement: Why hope is the foundation of any successful recovery, and how to nurture it in your daily life.
Frank’s Personal Story: From growing up in poverty to almost losing his wife—Frank shares how he turned life’s toughest moments into fuel for growth.
Facing Your Own Role: Discover why true healing starts with honest self-reflection, not blaming your ex.
Building Resilience: The role of “failing forward,” embracing mistakes, and why small, steady goals beat lofty, vague dreams.
Self-Care for Men (Finally!): Why men often neglect their own needs, and practical ways to develop self-discipline, self-respect, and compassion—even if you’ve never done it before.
Boundaries & Expectations: How to set and KEEP boundaries, communicate them clearly, and adjust your expectations for future relationships.
The Role of Therapy: Breaking the stigma for men (especially men of color) and why seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Recognizing Discouragement: Spotting the red flags (like isolation, fatigue, and loss of hope), and practical steps to reconnect and re-engage with life.

Frank also shares some of his favorite books and resources, including “Mindset” by Dr. Carol Dweck—tools that have helped countless men move from simply surviving to truly thriving after divorce.

If you’re a man over 40 feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward after divorce, this episode is for you!

👉 Listen now and start your journey toward hope, healing, and a better future.

💬 What’s been your biggest challenge or breakthrough in divorce recovery? Drop a comment below! Your story could help another man on his journey.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs a little encouragement today! And check the show notes for Frank’s book recommendations and links to his podcast.

Frank Sinclair on LinkedIn

Be Encouraged Podcast

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #Encouragement #SelfCare #Boundaries #DontPickTheScab #Podcast

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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