Everyone else seems to have figured this life out, but me (wait for the plot twist)

18min | 11/25/2025

Description

I can't be the only one thinking that, right? But plot twist: This isn't true, at least not in the way that you think. Well, let me explain. I recently had been thinking that I might do this life wrong, falling from one crisis to the other. When in fact I realized, that I am just going through something tough, through a phase in my life that is really difficult and struggling with that is more than normal (huge to admit that and to actually see it that way).

It can look like there is a lot of chaos and as if everything is on fire in your life - like the transitioning of a phoenix. And admitting, that you are going through something rough is one part of going and moving through it. Sometimes though, we feel like we can't admit that towards others. That we have to pretend that we got it all figured out like everyone else. That we have to hide the difficult feelings in our lives, the emotional struggles and tough times that we encounter. We do not have to, and it isn't healthy nor helping in your growth to do that. So, while it seems that others do not struggle with the intensity that you do, it might just be that you do not give yourself enough credit and grace for what you are going through. And that we can accept that you do not have figured out what happens right now, but what is going on and to move through the emotional rollercoaster. You got it. I got it. Let's move through these times together.

Thank you for tuning in and there is a comment section, underneath, so glad if you could share how it resonated with you.

Much love to you

Bettina

✨ Subscribe on your favorite podcast app and join me on this magical journey of dreaming big and finding joy.

✉️ Join my Newsletter now Her Heart full of Dreams for heartfelt stories, creative sparks, and real-life insights that nourish your soul and fuel your dreams— one inspiring email at a time. Your journey starts here.

For other personal joyful sparkles, join me on Instagram: Bettina In The Clouds (@bettinaintheclouds)

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Her Heart full of Dreams

Welcome to a cozy, inspiring corner of the podcast world, where dreams are cherished, struggles are embraced, and hope always finds a way. Her Heart Full of Dreams is your sanctuary for rediscovering joy, finding inspiration, and feeling truly seen—even in the hardest of times. Join Bettina, a fellow dreamer and storyteller, as she shares her heartfelt journey—from moving to France to navigating a long and emotional infertility journey, and even writing her own book. Through the highs and lows, and with a sprinkle of real-life fairy dust, Bettina creates a space where you’ll feel validated, inspired, and ready to take on the world. And while English isn’t her mother tongue (so expect the occasional slip-up) her stories come straight from the heart—and that’s what matters most!

What You’ll Find in Each Episode

Raw and heartfelt storytelling that resonates with your own struggles, joys, and dreams.
Inspiration drawn from books, movies, music, and life’s little magical moments.
A cozy, intimate space to dream big, reflect deeply, and feel truly seen and heard.

For Listeners Like You

Are you asking yourself, “How can I follow my dreams when I feel stuck, afraid, or unsure, if this dream even is right for me?” You’re not alone—and this podcast was made for you. You’re a creative soul who dreams of living an authentic, joyful, and fulfilling life. You love meaningful conversations, Disney movies, cozy cups of coffee or tea, and journaling your heart out in your favorite café. You might be navigating infertility, being childless not by choice, indecision, or fear of failure, but you also crave the beauty and magic life has to offer. You’re a romantic at heart who finds comfort in art, music, and the gentle encouragement of someone who understands you.

Why You’ll Love This Podcast

It’s a dreamy yet grounded escape, filled with cozy inspiration and actionable hope.
You’ll feel energized, validated, and deeply connected to your own purpose.
It’s created by someone who truly gets you—no judgment, no pressure, just a warm, safe space for dreamers like you (with a few charming language quirks along the way).

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Her Heart full of Dreams

Welcome to a cozy, inspiring corner of the podcast world, where dreams are cherished, struggles are embraced, and hope always finds a way. Her Heart Full of Dreams is your sanctuary for rediscovering joy, finding inspiration, and feeling truly seen—even in the hardest of times. Join Bettina, a fellow dreamer and storyteller, as she shares her heartfelt journey—from moving to France to navigating a long and emotional infertility journey, and even writing her own book. Through the highs and lows, and with a sprinkle of real-life fairy dust, Bettina creates a space where you’ll feel validated, inspired, and ready to take on the world. And while English isn’t her mother tongue (so expect the occasional slip-up) her stories come straight from the heart—and that’s what matters most!

What You’ll Find in Each Episode

Raw and heartfelt storytelling that resonates with your own struggles, joys, and dreams.
Inspiration drawn from books, movies, music, and life’s little magical moments.
A cozy, intimate space to dream big, reflect deeply, and feel truly seen and heard.

For Listeners Like You

Are you asking yourself, “How can I follow my dreams when I feel stuck, afraid, or unsure, if this dream even is right for me?” You’re not alone—and this podcast was made for you. You’re a creative soul who dreams of living an authentic, joyful, and fulfilling life. You love meaningful conversations, Disney movies, cozy cups of coffee or tea, and journaling your heart out in your favorite café. You might be navigating infertility, being childless not by choice, indecision, or fear of failure, but you also crave the beauty and magic life has to offer. You’re a romantic at heart who finds comfort in art, music, and the gentle encouragement of someone who understands you.

Why You’ll Love This Podcast

It’s a dreamy yet grounded escape, filled with cozy inspiration and actionable hope.
You’ll feel energized, validated, and deeply connected to your own purpose.
It’s created by someone who truly gets you—no judgment, no pressure, just a warm, safe space for dreamers like you (with a few charming language quirks along the way).

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

I can't be the only one thinking that, right? But plot twist: This isn't true, at least not in the way that you think. Well, let me explain. I recently had been thinking that I might do this life wrong, falling from one crisis to the other. When in fact I realized, that I am just going through something tough, through a phase in my life that is really difficult and struggling with that is more than normal (huge to admit that and to actually see it that way).

It can look like there is a lot of chaos and as if everything is on fire in your life - like the transitioning of a phoenix. And admitting, that you are going through something rough is one part of going and moving through it. Sometimes though, we feel like we can't admit that towards others. That we have to pretend that we got it all figured out like everyone else. That we have to hide the difficult feelings in our lives, the emotional struggles and tough times that we encounter. We do not have to, and it isn't healthy nor helping in your growth to do that. So, while it seems that others do not struggle with the intensity that you do, it might just be that you do not give yourself enough credit and grace for what you are going through. And that we can accept that you do not have figured out what happens right now, but what is going on and to move through the emotional rollercoaster. You got it. I got it. Let's move through these times together.

Thank you for tuning in and there is a comment section, underneath, so glad if you could share how it resonated with you.

Much love to you

Bettina

✨ Subscribe on your favorite podcast app and join me on this magical journey of dreaming big and finding joy.

✉️ Join my Newsletter now Her Heart full of Dreams for heartfelt stories, creative sparks, and real-life insights that nourish your soul and fuel your dreams— one inspiring email at a time. Your journey starts here.

For other personal joyful sparkles, join me on Instagram: Bettina In The Clouds (@bettinaintheclouds)

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Her Heart full of Dreams

Welcome to a cozy, inspiring corner of the podcast world, where dreams are cherished, struggles are embraced, and hope always finds a way. Her Heart Full of Dreams is your sanctuary for rediscovering joy, finding inspiration, and feeling truly seen—even in the hardest of times. Join Bettina, a fellow dreamer and storyteller, as she shares her heartfelt journey—from moving to France to navigating a long and emotional infertility journey, and even writing her own book. Through the highs and lows, and with a sprinkle of real-life fairy dust, Bettina creates a space where you’ll feel validated, inspired, and ready to take on the world. And while English isn’t her mother tongue (so expect the occasional slip-up) her stories come straight from the heart—and that’s what matters most!

What You’ll Find in Each Episode

Raw and heartfelt storytelling that resonates with your own struggles, joys, and dreams.
Inspiration drawn from books, movies, music, and life’s little magical moments.
A cozy, intimate space to dream big, reflect deeply, and feel truly seen and heard.

For Listeners Like You

Are you asking yourself, “How can I follow my dreams when I feel stuck, afraid, or unsure, if this dream even is right for me?” You’re not alone—and this podcast was made for you. You’re a creative soul who dreams of living an authentic, joyful, and fulfilling life. You love meaningful conversations, Disney movies, cozy cups of coffee or tea, and journaling your heart out in your favorite café. You might be navigating infertility, being childless not by choice, indecision, or fear of failure, but you also crave the beauty and magic life has to offer. You’re a romantic at heart who finds comfort in art, music, and the gentle encouragement of someone who understands you.

Why You’ll Love This Podcast

It’s a dreamy yet grounded escape, filled with cozy inspiration and actionable hope.
You’ll feel energized, validated, and deeply connected to your own purpose.
It’s created by someone who truly gets you—no judgment, no pressure, just a warm, safe space for dreamers like you (with a few charming language quirks along the way).

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Her Heart full of Dreams

Welcome to a cozy, inspiring corner of the podcast world, where dreams are cherished, struggles are embraced, and hope always finds a way. Her Heart Full of Dreams is your sanctuary for rediscovering joy, finding inspiration, and feeling truly seen—even in the hardest of times. Join Bettina, a fellow dreamer and storyteller, as she shares her heartfelt journey—from moving to France to navigating a long and emotional infertility journey, and even writing her own book. Through the highs and lows, and with a sprinkle of real-life fairy dust, Bettina creates a space where you’ll feel validated, inspired, and ready to take on the world. And while English isn’t her mother tongue (so expect the occasional slip-up) her stories come straight from the heart—and that’s what matters most!

What You’ll Find in Each Episode

Raw and heartfelt storytelling that resonates with your own struggles, joys, and dreams.
Inspiration drawn from books, movies, music, and life’s little magical moments.
A cozy, intimate space to dream big, reflect deeply, and feel truly seen and heard.

For Listeners Like You

Are you asking yourself, “How can I follow my dreams when I feel stuck, afraid, or unsure, if this dream even is right for me?” You’re not alone—and this podcast was made for you. You’re a creative soul who dreams of living an authentic, joyful, and fulfilling life. You love meaningful conversations, Disney movies, cozy cups of coffee or tea, and journaling your heart out in your favorite café. You might be navigating infertility, being childless not by choice, indecision, or fear of failure, but you also crave the beauty and magic life has to offer. You’re a romantic at heart who finds comfort in art, music, and the gentle encouragement of someone who understands you.

Why You’ll Love This Podcast

It’s a dreamy yet grounded escape, filled with cozy inspiration and actionable hope.
You’ll feel energized, validated, and deeply connected to your own purpose.
It’s created by someone who truly gets you—no judgment, no pressure, just a warm, safe space for dreamers like you (with a few charming language quirks along the way).

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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