Mature Allure

Chrystal Rae Christian – This Ends With Me: Breaking Generational Cycles

25min | 04/08/2025

Description

Season 5, Episode 34:

Have you ever carried pain that wasn’t even yours—and realized it was time to put it down?

In this episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. is joined by her dear friend and co-author, Chrystal Christian, to talk about her powerful new book This Ends With Me. Together, they open up about what it really means to break free from generational cycles, unlearn old narratives, and show up for the kind of healthy aging and healing that transforms not just us—but everyone connected to us.

Chrystal brings her full heart to this conversation as we explore motherhood, grief, forgiveness, and the work it takes to reintroduce yourself to the version of you that’s finally free. If you’re on a path of healing and ready to say, “It ends with me,” then this episode is a must-listen.

What we discuss:

What inspired This Ends With Me and why now was the time to write it.
Chrystal shares her personal journey with grief and boundaries.
The role of motherhood in healing and how it reveals what we still carry.
Chrystal and I reflect on unlearning perfectionism and finding freedom in vulnerability.
“The legacy isn’t what we pass down—it’s what we heal.”
What it means to be seen, supported, and still show up for yourself.

3 Key Takeaways:

Generational healing begins with the decision to stop performing and start listening to your own truth.
We have the power to reframe our stories—and rewrite what freedom looks like for ourselves and our families.
Authentic connection and shared healing are essential parts of moving through pain and into purpose.

"A Community for Women": Connect with Chrystal:

Website: ChrystalRaeSoul.com

Podcast: The And then, more love Podcast

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552592490356

Instagram: @chrystalraesoul

Learn more about Sherri O.:

Website: https://matureallure.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure

Instagram: @mature.allure

Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Season 5, Episode 34:

Have you ever carried pain that wasn’t even yours—and realized it was time to put it down?

In this episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. is joined by her dear friend and co-author, Chrystal Christian, to talk about her powerful new book This Ends With Me. Together, they open up about what it really means to break free from generational cycles, unlearn old narratives, and show up for the kind of healthy aging and healing that transforms not just us—but everyone connected to us.

Chrystal brings her full heart to this conversation as we explore motherhood, grief, forgiveness, and the work it takes to reintroduce yourself to the version of you that’s finally free. If you’re on a path of healing and ready to say, “It ends with me,” then this episode is a must-listen.

What we discuss:

What inspired This Ends With Me and why now was the time to write it.
Chrystal shares her personal journey with grief and boundaries.
The role of motherhood in healing and how it reveals what we still carry.
Chrystal and I reflect on unlearning perfectionism and finding freedom in vulnerability.
“The legacy isn’t what we pass down—it’s what we heal.”
What it means to be seen, supported, and still show up for yourself.

3 Key Takeaways:

Generational healing begins with the decision to stop performing and start listening to your own truth.
We have the power to reframe our stories—and rewrite what freedom looks like for ourselves and our families.
Authentic connection and shared healing are essential parts of moving through pain and into purpose.

"A Community for Women": Connect with Chrystal:

Website: ChrystalRaeSoul.com

Podcast: The And then, more love Podcast

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552592490356

Instagram: @chrystalraesoul

Learn more about Sherri O.:

Website: https://matureallure.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure

Instagram: @mature.allure

Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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