Mature Allure

The Leap That Changed Everything: Starting Over at 39

28min | 01/27/2026

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Guest: Pam Rothman, LPC

Theme: Reinvention in Midlife: Trusting Yourself Enough to Begin Again
Exploring how self-awareness, healing, and courage intersect when women choose to bet on themselves—professionally and personally.

In this powerful episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. sits down with licensed therapist and private practice owner Pam Rothman, who shares how starting her own therapy practice at 39 became the most empowering decision of her life.

Pam opens up about her winding career path—from art school and journalism to being fired from multiple jobs in her 20s—before finally answering her lifelong calling to become a therapist. She discusses the emotional and practical realities of building a private practice, the importance of timing and preparation, and why so many women already have the skills they need before taking the leap.

The conversation also dives into trauma, disordered eating, body image, and the pressure society places on women’s health and success. Pam challenges diet culture, unpacks how unprocessed trauma shows up in everyday behavior, and shares how women in midlife can mentally prepare for entrepreneurship with clarity and confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why midlife is actually the best time to take career risks
Signs that unresolved trauma may still be running the show
How diet culture and “health” messaging can harm mental wellness
Simple mental tools to prepare for entrepreneurship
Why self-trust is your most valuable business asset

Pam’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to choose yourself—and that sometimes the path makes sense only after you’ve walked it.

Contact Pam Rothman:
Instagram: @pamrothmanlpc

Learn more about Sherri O.:

Website: https://matureallure.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure

Instagram: @mature.allure

Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Guest: Pam Rothman, LPC

Theme: Reinvention in Midlife: Trusting Yourself Enough to Begin Again
Exploring how self-awareness, healing, and courage intersect when women choose to bet on themselves—professionally and personally.

In this powerful episode of Mature Allure, Sherri O. sits down with licensed therapist and private practice owner Pam Rothman, who shares how starting her own therapy practice at 39 became the most empowering decision of her life.

Pam opens up about her winding career path—from art school and journalism to being fired from multiple jobs in her 20s—before finally answering her lifelong calling to become a therapist. She discusses the emotional and practical realities of building a private practice, the importance of timing and preparation, and why so many women already have the skills they need before taking the leap.

The conversation also dives into trauma, disordered eating, body image, and the pressure society places on women’s health and success. Pam challenges diet culture, unpacks how unprocessed trauma shows up in everyday behavior, and shares how women in midlife can mentally prepare for entrepreneurship with clarity and confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why midlife is actually the best time to take career risks
Signs that unresolved trauma may still be running the show
How diet culture and “health” messaging can harm mental wellness
Simple mental tools to prepare for entrepreneurship
Why self-trust is your most valuable business asset

Pam’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to choose yourself—and that sometimes the path makes sense only after you’ve walked it.

Contact Pam Rothman:
Instagram: @pamrothmanlpc

Learn more about Sherri O.:

Website: https://matureallure.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure

Instagram: @mature.allure

Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About Mature Allure

At Mature Allure, we believe that age is not a limitation but a celebration of life's unique experiences and perspectives. Our goal is to inspire women over 40 to embrace the beauty, wisdom, and empowerment that comes with age. We share knowledge that encourages healthy aging and self-discovery. Our podcast and blog feature incredible individuals with diverse skills, experiences, stories, and viewpoints, all sharing their journeys and insights; encouraging women to look forward to aging, not fear it.

People who listen to the Mature Allure podcast come for conversations, insight, and community. We inspire women to love themselves at every stage of life and break free from the constraints of ageism. A go-to source for the celebration of life's journey, we're here to help you tap into your "Mature Allure."

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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