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Dommy wife pulls you away from work [taking care of you] [bossy out of love] [massage your shoulders] [bully you to treat yourself right]

Dommy wife pulls you away from work [taking care of you] [bossy out of love] [massage your shoulders] [bully you to treat yourself right]

17min |04/01/2025|

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Dommy wife pulls you away from work [taking care of you] [bossy out of love] [massage your shoulders] [bully you to treat yourself right] cover
Mint Tea ASMR

Dommy wife pulls you away from work [taking care of you] [bossy out of love] [massage your shoulders] [bully you to treat yourself right]

Dommy wife pulls you away from work [taking care of you] [bossy out of love] [massage your shoulders] [bully you to treat yourself right]

17min |04/01/2025|

3

Play

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Your wife doesn't want you overworking yourself #asmrgirlfriend #asmrroleplay #asmr

Join my patreon to vote on new audios and access all audios ad-free and one week early!

All audios are also available on my youtube

Your bossy (in a loving way) wife is putting her foot down. You HAVE to stop working so hard, starting eating meals and drinking more water, non-negotiable. She massages your shoulders and plays with your hair, telling you that you mean everything to her.


Mint Tea ASMR audios are made to be enjoyed with headphones in a relaxing environment. So, get comfortable, clear your mind and get immersed in the ambience and soothing roleplay audio I've put a lot of work into making!


This is an improv work of fiction for entertainment purposes

Production, editing, voice by: Mint Tea ASMR


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Transcription

  • Speaker #0

    Knock knock. Hey, are you still working? Sweetie, you've been working all day and most of the night. Would you maybe consider taking a break and cuddling me? Come on, come on. I know you want to cuddle your sweet. Perfect wife. Please, come on, honey. What is it that you need to get done? Okay, and I can't wait till tomorrow because... Exactly. Because it can wait, honey. I love you so much, but... Sometimes you work so hard and I just feel like you need to relax. Take a minute for yourself. We don't have to cuddle if that's not what you want to do, but I'd really prefer if you don't work. Oh, you do want to cuddle? Lucky me. Okay, come here. Come on. Let's go onto the couch. Ah, there we go, that's it. I was starting to think you might not like spending time with me. Because you're always so busy. I mean, I get it. I definitely get the urge to work yourself to the bone, but it's okay when I do it, it's not okay when you do. Because you matter more. Look, I love you. And that's why I'm really gonna put my foot down on this. You're not allowed to work past 9pm. No, you're not. Hey, listen to me. This is a new rule. No work. Past nine. Understood? Good boy. There we go. Finally, you're listening to me. Goodness. I just want you to be healthy and happy and near me most of all. Past nine. I need my time with my baby. Is that all right? Good, good. And you know what else? You're going to be eating dinner every single night. You have to. I need you strong and happy and healthy, like I said. But I need you to live forever. Because if you don't outlive me, we're going to have problems. Yes, I have to be with you for the rest of my life. Okay. And also, I bought you this water bottle. Look, I've noticed that you don't drink as much water as you should. I know, I know I'm being nitpicky and controlling, but I don't care. Nope. When you married me, you knew I was bossy, you knew I was particular, and you knew most of all, I love you more than all the stars in the sky. And I'm going to make sure that you're healthy, because who else is going to do it? You don't care for yourself as much as you should. And I think it's because you don't realize how amazing you are. Obviously. You can't possibly. Otherwise, you wouldn't work this hard, and you wouldn't do things that aren't good for you. You have to take care of yourself, baby. You're going to drive me crazy. I'm trying to say it nice-like, but... The controlling side of my brain is just buzzing around. I want to strap you down and demand you do what I want. Not in that way. Okay, I mean kind of in that way, but more in the way that I want to take care of you and make sure you're as good as you can possibly be. Look, give me your hand. See, your skin is all dry. That's probably because you're not drinking enough water. That's how that works, sweetheart. Come here. Come closer to me. Can I give you a back massage? Because I want to de-stress you. I know, I know you can get tense when I'm telling you what to do. But you know it's out of love, right? You married a bossy woman, what can I say? Mm, mm-hmm. Sometimes I feel like I have to bully you into treating yourself right. You understand why I'm getting mad, though. You're mistreating somebody I love. Somebody I love more than myself, more than anything else in this world, and you can't mistreat him. No, I won't stand for it. How does that feel? A little rough? Pressure's a little hard? Sorry, I got a little into what I was saying. Here, it's okay. Relax your shoulders. There we go. Is that better? Just relax for me. just let go of whatever it is you are working on whatever's stressing you out just focus on my hands on your back my breath along your neck focus on the voice of your beautiful loving wife who all she wants is for you to be safe. Just keep relaxing, keep breathing. You're allowed to let go and just exist. You don't have to spend every moment of your time doing something producing something making money you can just be you with me you can just enjoy your time with your bossy but exceedingly loving wife can you breathe for me breathe in and out. Good. In and out. Good. I can feel your shoulders getting less tense. I love you so, so much. You know that's where all of this is coming from. And I know I can be bossy, and I'll work on it, unless you like it. I know I can be demanding. I just want you to be the best version of you you can be. And sometimes I feel like you think that that is something different than it is. But just so you know, in my opinion, the best version of you is the one that can relax, the one that can take a minute with me, share just a little moment where we have coffee together, or we relax on the couch like this, or we watch trash reality TV shows together. Those little moments mean everything to me. And those little moments, they don't happen enough. you work too hard i know i've really drilled it in but i just want you to know that your value does not come from how much work you do your value doesn't come from how much you contribute to society your value to me comes from the time we spend together The time where you're relaxed like this. You are the exact person I've always wanted to have in my life. So I'd absolutely love to have you in my life more. And I don't want to be that nagging wife. I really don't. But I have to insist. So I'm really, really super serious about our new rule, okay? I want you to be with me, in my arms, in some capacity, by 9pm every night. And we're gonna keep walking that time frame back until you work only 40 hours a week. Like the- average person. That's a full-time job. You shouldn't have to work after hours. And I just want you to leave that work at the door. You know, I want this space right here with me to be a no work zone where you're not stressed about your next project. You're not worried. About what's going on in the outside world. You're here. You're with me. Here with your loving wife. Come on. Who doesn't want that? I'm a catch. Yeah? Well, I mean, I didn't have other suitors lining up at the door. But, you know. I like to think that I could have cleaned up pretty well if you hadn't snatched me up. But you did, and I'm so happy for it. How are you feeling? A little bit more relaxed? Are you feeling good about our new rule? Is there any rule you would like to impose on me? I mean, fair is fair. You're allowed to tell me what to do sometimes. Well, I mean, you're at least allowed to suggest things. I don't drink enough water either. Okay. Okay, no, that's fair. That's fair. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in taking care of you, I kind of, I forget myself a little. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. I also have things that I need to work on. I'm definitely not pretending I don't. So here's the pact. I will go to the store tomorrow and I'll get myself a water bottle just like yours. And then we will both finish the water bottle every single day. And we're going to hold each other accountable, okay? We'll be accountability buddies. And I will do it if you do it. Yes, you being healthy motivates me, okay? Good. I'm very happy with this compromise we've come up with. Can you lean on me? Yeah. I want to run my hands through your hair. Because being with you here like this, this is perfect. This is all I want. I know, I know. You got the message. I just want to really, really nail it in there that I love you. and i say these things only because i love you and i know it might seem like i'm annoyed with you sometimes and i might be but i just i want to be the wife you deserve no you clearly don't understand what you deserve because you deserve the entire world i've never been so sure of something and i've never been so in love with someone i don't think it'll matter how long we've been married i will always feel butterflies when you lean on me like this when i get to run my fingers through your hair I just... I feel so incredibly lucky. I don't know if I say it enough, but I do. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. To have you as my person. So please, stick around for me. I just want to give you everything. And I know that sometimes I can't. But I can at least give you this. These relaxing little moments where we get to be near each other. Good. Thank you, sweetheart. I love you so, so much. Let's put something on the TV and just relax.

Chapters

  • Are you still working?

    00:00

  • Setting the New Rules for Relaxation

    01:25

  • Encouraging Healthy Habits

    03:42

  • Massaging Your Back

    05:39

  • I Want Quality Time with You

    09:59

  • Relaxing Together

    17:01

Description

Your wife doesn't want you overworking yourself #asmrgirlfriend #asmrroleplay #asmr

Join my patreon to vote on new audios and access all audios ad-free and one week early!

All audios are also available on my youtube

Your bossy (in a loving way) wife is putting her foot down. You HAVE to stop working so hard, starting eating meals and drinking more water, non-negotiable. She massages your shoulders and plays with your hair, telling you that you mean everything to her.


Mint Tea ASMR audios are made to be enjoyed with headphones in a relaxing environment. So, get comfortable, clear your mind and get immersed in the ambience and soothing roleplay audio I've put a lot of work into making!


This is an improv work of fiction for entertainment purposes

Production, editing, voice by: Mint Tea ASMR


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Transcription

  • Speaker #0

    Knock knock. Hey, are you still working? Sweetie, you've been working all day and most of the night. Would you maybe consider taking a break and cuddling me? Come on, come on. I know you want to cuddle your sweet. Perfect wife. Please, come on, honey. What is it that you need to get done? Okay, and I can't wait till tomorrow because... Exactly. Because it can wait, honey. I love you so much, but... Sometimes you work so hard and I just feel like you need to relax. Take a minute for yourself. We don't have to cuddle if that's not what you want to do, but I'd really prefer if you don't work. Oh, you do want to cuddle? Lucky me. Okay, come here. Come on. Let's go onto the couch. Ah, there we go, that's it. I was starting to think you might not like spending time with me. Because you're always so busy. I mean, I get it. I definitely get the urge to work yourself to the bone, but it's okay when I do it, it's not okay when you do. Because you matter more. Look, I love you. And that's why I'm really gonna put my foot down on this. You're not allowed to work past 9pm. No, you're not. Hey, listen to me. This is a new rule. No work. Past nine. Understood? Good boy. There we go. Finally, you're listening to me. Goodness. I just want you to be healthy and happy and near me most of all. Past nine. I need my time with my baby. Is that all right? Good, good. And you know what else? You're going to be eating dinner every single night. You have to. I need you strong and happy and healthy, like I said. But I need you to live forever. Because if you don't outlive me, we're going to have problems. Yes, I have to be with you for the rest of my life. Okay. And also, I bought you this water bottle. Look, I've noticed that you don't drink as much water as you should. I know, I know I'm being nitpicky and controlling, but I don't care. Nope. When you married me, you knew I was bossy, you knew I was particular, and you knew most of all, I love you more than all the stars in the sky. And I'm going to make sure that you're healthy, because who else is going to do it? You don't care for yourself as much as you should. And I think it's because you don't realize how amazing you are. Obviously. You can't possibly. Otherwise, you wouldn't work this hard, and you wouldn't do things that aren't good for you. You have to take care of yourself, baby. You're going to drive me crazy. I'm trying to say it nice-like, but... The controlling side of my brain is just buzzing around. I want to strap you down and demand you do what I want. Not in that way. Okay, I mean kind of in that way, but more in the way that I want to take care of you and make sure you're as good as you can possibly be. Look, give me your hand. See, your skin is all dry. That's probably because you're not drinking enough water. That's how that works, sweetheart. Come here. Come closer to me. Can I give you a back massage? Because I want to de-stress you. I know, I know you can get tense when I'm telling you what to do. But you know it's out of love, right? You married a bossy woman, what can I say? Mm, mm-hmm. Sometimes I feel like I have to bully you into treating yourself right. You understand why I'm getting mad, though. You're mistreating somebody I love. Somebody I love more than myself, more than anything else in this world, and you can't mistreat him. No, I won't stand for it. How does that feel? A little rough? Pressure's a little hard? Sorry, I got a little into what I was saying. Here, it's okay. Relax your shoulders. There we go. Is that better? Just relax for me. just let go of whatever it is you are working on whatever's stressing you out just focus on my hands on your back my breath along your neck focus on the voice of your beautiful loving wife who all she wants is for you to be safe. Just keep relaxing, keep breathing. You're allowed to let go and just exist. You don't have to spend every moment of your time doing something producing something making money you can just be you with me you can just enjoy your time with your bossy but exceedingly loving wife can you breathe for me breathe in and out. Good. In and out. Good. I can feel your shoulders getting less tense. I love you so, so much. You know that's where all of this is coming from. And I know I can be bossy, and I'll work on it, unless you like it. I know I can be demanding. I just want you to be the best version of you you can be. And sometimes I feel like you think that that is something different than it is. But just so you know, in my opinion, the best version of you is the one that can relax, the one that can take a minute with me, share just a little moment where we have coffee together, or we relax on the couch like this, or we watch trash reality TV shows together. Those little moments mean everything to me. And those little moments, they don't happen enough. you work too hard i know i've really drilled it in but i just want you to know that your value does not come from how much work you do your value doesn't come from how much you contribute to society your value to me comes from the time we spend together The time where you're relaxed like this. You are the exact person I've always wanted to have in my life. So I'd absolutely love to have you in my life more. And I don't want to be that nagging wife. I really don't. But I have to insist. So I'm really, really super serious about our new rule, okay? I want you to be with me, in my arms, in some capacity, by 9pm every night. And we're gonna keep walking that time frame back until you work only 40 hours a week. Like the- average person. That's a full-time job. You shouldn't have to work after hours. And I just want you to leave that work at the door. You know, I want this space right here with me to be a no work zone where you're not stressed about your next project. You're not worried. About what's going on in the outside world. You're here. You're with me. Here with your loving wife. Come on. Who doesn't want that? I'm a catch. Yeah? Well, I mean, I didn't have other suitors lining up at the door. But, you know. I like to think that I could have cleaned up pretty well if you hadn't snatched me up. But you did, and I'm so happy for it. How are you feeling? A little bit more relaxed? Are you feeling good about our new rule? Is there any rule you would like to impose on me? I mean, fair is fair. You're allowed to tell me what to do sometimes. Well, I mean, you're at least allowed to suggest things. I don't drink enough water either. Okay. Okay, no, that's fair. That's fair. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in taking care of you, I kind of, I forget myself a little. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. I also have things that I need to work on. I'm definitely not pretending I don't. So here's the pact. I will go to the store tomorrow and I'll get myself a water bottle just like yours. And then we will both finish the water bottle every single day. And we're going to hold each other accountable, okay? We'll be accountability buddies. And I will do it if you do it. Yes, you being healthy motivates me, okay? Good. I'm very happy with this compromise we've come up with. Can you lean on me? Yeah. I want to run my hands through your hair. Because being with you here like this, this is perfect. This is all I want. I know, I know. You got the message. I just want to really, really nail it in there that I love you. and i say these things only because i love you and i know it might seem like i'm annoyed with you sometimes and i might be but i just i want to be the wife you deserve no you clearly don't understand what you deserve because you deserve the entire world i've never been so sure of something and i've never been so in love with someone i don't think it'll matter how long we've been married i will always feel butterflies when you lean on me like this when i get to run my fingers through your hair I just... I feel so incredibly lucky. I don't know if I say it enough, but I do. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. To have you as my person. So please, stick around for me. I just want to give you everything. And I know that sometimes I can't. But I can at least give you this. These relaxing little moments where we get to be near each other. Good. Thank you, sweetheart. I love you so, so much. Let's put something on the TV and just relax.

Chapters

  • Are you still working?

    00:00

  • Setting the New Rules for Relaxation

    01:25

  • Encouraging Healthy Habits

    03:42

  • Massaging Your Back

    05:39

  • I Want Quality Time with You

    09:59

  • Relaxing Together

    17:01

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Your wife doesn't want you overworking yourself #asmrgirlfriend #asmrroleplay #asmr

Join my patreon to vote on new audios and access all audios ad-free and one week early!

All audios are also available on my youtube

Your bossy (in a loving way) wife is putting her foot down. You HAVE to stop working so hard, starting eating meals and drinking more water, non-negotiable. She massages your shoulders and plays with your hair, telling you that you mean everything to her.


Mint Tea ASMR audios are made to be enjoyed with headphones in a relaxing environment. So, get comfortable, clear your mind and get immersed in the ambience and soothing roleplay audio I've put a lot of work into making!


This is an improv work of fiction for entertainment purposes

Production, editing, voice by: Mint Tea ASMR


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Transcription

  • Speaker #0

    Knock knock. Hey, are you still working? Sweetie, you've been working all day and most of the night. Would you maybe consider taking a break and cuddling me? Come on, come on. I know you want to cuddle your sweet. Perfect wife. Please, come on, honey. What is it that you need to get done? Okay, and I can't wait till tomorrow because... Exactly. Because it can wait, honey. I love you so much, but... Sometimes you work so hard and I just feel like you need to relax. Take a minute for yourself. We don't have to cuddle if that's not what you want to do, but I'd really prefer if you don't work. Oh, you do want to cuddle? Lucky me. Okay, come here. Come on. Let's go onto the couch. Ah, there we go, that's it. I was starting to think you might not like spending time with me. Because you're always so busy. I mean, I get it. I definitely get the urge to work yourself to the bone, but it's okay when I do it, it's not okay when you do. Because you matter more. Look, I love you. And that's why I'm really gonna put my foot down on this. You're not allowed to work past 9pm. No, you're not. Hey, listen to me. This is a new rule. No work. Past nine. Understood? Good boy. There we go. Finally, you're listening to me. Goodness. I just want you to be healthy and happy and near me most of all. Past nine. I need my time with my baby. Is that all right? Good, good. And you know what else? You're going to be eating dinner every single night. You have to. I need you strong and happy and healthy, like I said. But I need you to live forever. Because if you don't outlive me, we're going to have problems. Yes, I have to be with you for the rest of my life. Okay. And also, I bought you this water bottle. Look, I've noticed that you don't drink as much water as you should. I know, I know I'm being nitpicky and controlling, but I don't care. Nope. When you married me, you knew I was bossy, you knew I was particular, and you knew most of all, I love you more than all the stars in the sky. And I'm going to make sure that you're healthy, because who else is going to do it? You don't care for yourself as much as you should. And I think it's because you don't realize how amazing you are. Obviously. You can't possibly. Otherwise, you wouldn't work this hard, and you wouldn't do things that aren't good for you. You have to take care of yourself, baby. You're going to drive me crazy. I'm trying to say it nice-like, but... The controlling side of my brain is just buzzing around. I want to strap you down and demand you do what I want. Not in that way. Okay, I mean kind of in that way, but more in the way that I want to take care of you and make sure you're as good as you can possibly be. Look, give me your hand. See, your skin is all dry. That's probably because you're not drinking enough water. That's how that works, sweetheart. Come here. Come closer to me. Can I give you a back massage? Because I want to de-stress you. I know, I know you can get tense when I'm telling you what to do. But you know it's out of love, right? You married a bossy woman, what can I say? Mm, mm-hmm. Sometimes I feel like I have to bully you into treating yourself right. You understand why I'm getting mad, though. You're mistreating somebody I love. Somebody I love more than myself, more than anything else in this world, and you can't mistreat him. No, I won't stand for it. How does that feel? A little rough? Pressure's a little hard? Sorry, I got a little into what I was saying. Here, it's okay. Relax your shoulders. There we go. Is that better? Just relax for me. just let go of whatever it is you are working on whatever's stressing you out just focus on my hands on your back my breath along your neck focus on the voice of your beautiful loving wife who all she wants is for you to be safe. Just keep relaxing, keep breathing. You're allowed to let go and just exist. You don't have to spend every moment of your time doing something producing something making money you can just be you with me you can just enjoy your time with your bossy but exceedingly loving wife can you breathe for me breathe in and out. Good. In and out. Good. I can feel your shoulders getting less tense. I love you so, so much. You know that's where all of this is coming from. And I know I can be bossy, and I'll work on it, unless you like it. I know I can be demanding. I just want you to be the best version of you you can be. And sometimes I feel like you think that that is something different than it is. But just so you know, in my opinion, the best version of you is the one that can relax, the one that can take a minute with me, share just a little moment where we have coffee together, or we relax on the couch like this, or we watch trash reality TV shows together. Those little moments mean everything to me. And those little moments, they don't happen enough. you work too hard i know i've really drilled it in but i just want you to know that your value does not come from how much work you do your value doesn't come from how much you contribute to society your value to me comes from the time we spend together The time where you're relaxed like this. You are the exact person I've always wanted to have in my life. So I'd absolutely love to have you in my life more. And I don't want to be that nagging wife. I really don't. But I have to insist. So I'm really, really super serious about our new rule, okay? I want you to be with me, in my arms, in some capacity, by 9pm every night. And we're gonna keep walking that time frame back until you work only 40 hours a week. Like the- average person. That's a full-time job. You shouldn't have to work after hours. And I just want you to leave that work at the door. You know, I want this space right here with me to be a no work zone where you're not stressed about your next project. You're not worried. About what's going on in the outside world. You're here. You're with me. Here with your loving wife. Come on. Who doesn't want that? I'm a catch. Yeah? Well, I mean, I didn't have other suitors lining up at the door. But, you know. I like to think that I could have cleaned up pretty well if you hadn't snatched me up. But you did, and I'm so happy for it. How are you feeling? A little bit more relaxed? Are you feeling good about our new rule? Is there any rule you would like to impose on me? I mean, fair is fair. You're allowed to tell me what to do sometimes. Well, I mean, you're at least allowed to suggest things. I don't drink enough water either. Okay. Okay, no, that's fair. That's fair. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in taking care of you, I kind of, I forget myself a little. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. I also have things that I need to work on. I'm definitely not pretending I don't. So here's the pact. I will go to the store tomorrow and I'll get myself a water bottle just like yours. And then we will both finish the water bottle every single day. And we're going to hold each other accountable, okay? We'll be accountability buddies. And I will do it if you do it. Yes, you being healthy motivates me, okay? Good. I'm very happy with this compromise we've come up with. Can you lean on me? Yeah. I want to run my hands through your hair. Because being with you here like this, this is perfect. This is all I want. I know, I know. You got the message. I just want to really, really nail it in there that I love you. and i say these things only because i love you and i know it might seem like i'm annoyed with you sometimes and i might be but i just i want to be the wife you deserve no you clearly don't understand what you deserve because you deserve the entire world i've never been so sure of something and i've never been so in love with someone i don't think it'll matter how long we've been married i will always feel butterflies when you lean on me like this when i get to run my fingers through your hair I just... I feel so incredibly lucky. I don't know if I say it enough, but I do. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. To have you as my person. So please, stick around for me. I just want to give you everything. And I know that sometimes I can't. But I can at least give you this. These relaxing little moments where we get to be near each other. Good. Thank you, sweetheart. I love you so, so much. Let's put something on the TV and just relax.

Chapters

  • Are you still working?

    00:00

  • Setting the New Rules for Relaxation

    01:25

  • Encouraging Healthy Habits

    03:42

  • Massaging Your Back

    05:39

  • I Want Quality Time with You

    09:59

  • Relaxing Together

    17:01

Description

Your wife doesn't want you overworking yourself #asmrgirlfriend #asmrroleplay #asmr

Join my patreon to vote on new audios and access all audios ad-free and one week early!

All audios are also available on my youtube

Your bossy (in a loving way) wife is putting her foot down. You HAVE to stop working so hard, starting eating meals and drinking more water, non-negotiable. She massages your shoulders and plays with your hair, telling you that you mean everything to her.


Mint Tea ASMR audios are made to be enjoyed with headphones in a relaxing environment. So, get comfortable, clear your mind and get immersed in the ambience and soothing roleplay audio I've put a lot of work into making!


This is an improv work of fiction for entertainment purposes

Production, editing, voice by: Mint Tea ASMR


Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Transcription

  • Speaker #0

    Knock knock. Hey, are you still working? Sweetie, you've been working all day and most of the night. Would you maybe consider taking a break and cuddling me? Come on, come on. I know you want to cuddle your sweet. Perfect wife. Please, come on, honey. What is it that you need to get done? Okay, and I can't wait till tomorrow because... Exactly. Because it can wait, honey. I love you so much, but... Sometimes you work so hard and I just feel like you need to relax. Take a minute for yourself. We don't have to cuddle if that's not what you want to do, but I'd really prefer if you don't work. Oh, you do want to cuddle? Lucky me. Okay, come here. Come on. Let's go onto the couch. Ah, there we go, that's it. I was starting to think you might not like spending time with me. Because you're always so busy. I mean, I get it. I definitely get the urge to work yourself to the bone, but it's okay when I do it, it's not okay when you do. Because you matter more. Look, I love you. And that's why I'm really gonna put my foot down on this. You're not allowed to work past 9pm. No, you're not. Hey, listen to me. This is a new rule. No work. Past nine. Understood? Good boy. There we go. Finally, you're listening to me. Goodness. I just want you to be healthy and happy and near me most of all. Past nine. I need my time with my baby. Is that all right? Good, good. And you know what else? You're going to be eating dinner every single night. You have to. I need you strong and happy and healthy, like I said. But I need you to live forever. Because if you don't outlive me, we're going to have problems. Yes, I have to be with you for the rest of my life. Okay. And also, I bought you this water bottle. Look, I've noticed that you don't drink as much water as you should. I know, I know I'm being nitpicky and controlling, but I don't care. Nope. When you married me, you knew I was bossy, you knew I was particular, and you knew most of all, I love you more than all the stars in the sky. And I'm going to make sure that you're healthy, because who else is going to do it? You don't care for yourself as much as you should. And I think it's because you don't realize how amazing you are. Obviously. You can't possibly. Otherwise, you wouldn't work this hard, and you wouldn't do things that aren't good for you. You have to take care of yourself, baby. You're going to drive me crazy. I'm trying to say it nice-like, but... The controlling side of my brain is just buzzing around. I want to strap you down and demand you do what I want. Not in that way. Okay, I mean kind of in that way, but more in the way that I want to take care of you and make sure you're as good as you can possibly be. Look, give me your hand. See, your skin is all dry. That's probably because you're not drinking enough water. That's how that works, sweetheart. Come here. Come closer to me. Can I give you a back massage? Because I want to de-stress you. I know, I know you can get tense when I'm telling you what to do. But you know it's out of love, right? You married a bossy woman, what can I say? Mm, mm-hmm. Sometimes I feel like I have to bully you into treating yourself right. You understand why I'm getting mad, though. You're mistreating somebody I love. Somebody I love more than myself, more than anything else in this world, and you can't mistreat him. No, I won't stand for it. How does that feel? A little rough? Pressure's a little hard? Sorry, I got a little into what I was saying. Here, it's okay. Relax your shoulders. There we go. Is that better? Just relax for me. just let go of whatever it is you are working on whatever's stressing you out just focus on my hands on your back my breath along your neck focus on the voice of your beautiful loving wife who all she wants is for you to be safe. Just keep relaxing, keep breathing. You're allowed to let go and just exist. You don't have to spend every moment of your time doing something producing something making money you can just be you with me you can just enjoy your time with your bossy but exceedingly loving wife can you breathe for me breathe in and out. Good. In and out. Good. I can feel your shoulders getting less tense. I love you so, so much. You know that's where all of this is coming from. And I know I can be bossy, and I'll work on it, unless you like it. I know I can be demanding. I just want you to be the best version of you you can be. And sometimes I feel like you think that that is something different than it is. But just so you know, in my opinion, the best version of you is the one that can relax, the one that can take a minute with me, share just a little moment where we have coffee together, or we relax on the couch like this, or we watch trash reality TV shows together. Those little moments mean everything to me. And those little moments, they don't happen enough. you work too hard i know i've really drilled it in but i just want you to know that your value does not come from how much work you do your value doesn't come from how much you contribute to society your value to me comes from the time we spend together The time where you're relaxed like this. You are the exact person I've always wanted to have in my life. So I'd absolutely love to have you in my life more. And I don't want to be that nagging wife. I really don't. But I have to insist. So I'm really, really super serious about our new rule, okay? I want you to be with me, in my arms, in some capacity, by 9pm every night. And we're gonna keep walking that time frame back until you work only 40 hours a week. Like the- average person. That's a full-time job. You shouldn't have to work after hours. And I just want you to leave that work at the door. You know, I want this space right here with me to be a no work zone where you're not stressed about your next project. You're not worried. About what's going on in the outside world. You're here. You're with me. Here with your loving wife. Come on. Who doesn't want that? I'm a catch. Yeah? Well, I mean, I didn't have other suitors lining up at the door. But, you know. I like to think that I could have cleaned up pretty well if you hadn't snatched me up. But you did, and I'm so happy for it. How are you feeling? A little bit more relaxed? Are you feeling good about our new rule? Is there any rule you would like to impose on me? I mean, fair is fair. You're allowed to tell me what to do sometimes. Well, I mean, you're at least allowed to suggest things. I don't drink enough water either. Okay. Okay, no, that's fair. That's fair. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in taking care of you, I kind of, I forget myself a little. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know. I also have things that I need to work on. I'm definitely not pretending I don't. So here's the pact. I will go to the store tomorrow and I'll get myself a water bottle just like yours. And then we will both finish the water bottle every single day. And we're going to hold each other accountable, okay? We'll be accountability buddies. And I will do it if you do it. Yes, you being healthy motivates me, okay? Good. I'm very happy with this compromise we've come up with. Can you lean on me? Yeah. I want to run my hands through your hair. Because being with you here like this, this is perfect. This is all I want. I know, I know. You got the message. I just want to really, really nail it in there that I love you. and i say these things only because i love you and i know it might seem like i'm annoyed with you sometimes and i might be but i just i want to be the wife you deserve no you clearly don't understand what you deserve because you deserve the entire world i've never been so sure of something and i've never been so in love with someone i don't think it'll matter how long we've been married i will always feel butterflies when you lean on me like this when i get to run my fingers through your hair I just... I feel so incredibly lucky. I don't know if I say it enough, but I do. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. To have you as my person. So please, stick around for me. I just want to give you everything. And I know that sometimes I can't. But I can at least give you this. These relaxing little moments where we get to be near each other. Good. Thank you, sweetheart. I love you so, so much. Let's put something on the TV and just relax.

Chapters

  • Are you still working?

    00:00

  • Setting the New Rules for Relaxation

    01:25

  • Encouraging Healthy Habits

    03:42

  • Massaging Your Back

    05:39

  • I Want Quality Time with You

    09:59

  • Relaxing Together

    17:01

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