006: Unmasking: How Releasing Tiresome Stuff Brings Freedom and Relief to Your Soul Summary In this episode of NeuroSpicy SoulCare, Carla and Frank explore the journey of unmasking for neurodivergent individuals, discussing the challenges and benefits of embracing one's true wants and needs. The conversation delves into the concept of masking, its consequences, and the importance of creating a supportive environment. Personal stories highlight the struggles and triumphs of unmasking, while practical tips for sensory support and managing social interactions are shared. The episode emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and faith in the journey towards authenticity, encouraging listeners to embrace their uniquely crafted identities for the glory of God. Takeaways -Unmasking is a journey towards self-acceptance. -Masking can lead to exhaustion and anxiety. -Creating a supportive environment for yourself is crucial for well-being. -Self-care is essential in the unmasking process. -Social interactions can be draining for neurodivergent individuals. -Sensory supports can enhance comfort and reduce overwhelm. -Navigating relationships requires setting boundaries. -Faith plays a significant role in self-acceptance. -Embracing your true self is a celebration of God's design. Keywords Neurodivergent, unmasking, self-acceptance, faith, sensory processing, ADHD, autism, mental health, personal growth, community Chapters 07:11 The Journey of Unmasking 13:26 Creating a Comfortable Environment 19:03 Socializing and Its Challenges 52:00 Unmasking: Understanding Self and Boundaries 58:06 Faith, Identity, and the Journey of Self-Acceptance 01:06:25 The Importance of Self-Care and Body Awareness 01:17:00 Embracing Authenticity and the Unmasking Journey Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review will really help more people see the pod! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Get free resources and podcast reminders via email! (https://podcast.ausha.co/neurospicysoulcare?s=1v) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

012 BARBARA O'NEILL Summary In this enlightening conversation, Carla Padilla and Barbara O'Neill delve into the intricacies of health, healing, and the realm of natural remedies. Barbara shares her journey from local educator to international health advocate, discussing her book 'Sustain Me' and the importance of understanding the body's ability to heal. They explore the impact of toxins on health, particularly in relation to autism, and emphasize the significance of knowledge in overcoming fear and making informed choices about health.  The discussion also touches on parenting challenges, mental health, and the role of faith in healing. Barbara emphasizes the importance of understanding the role of toxins in neurodivergence and offers practical steps to reduce toxic burden, particularly for children. The discussion transitions into the Sustain Me framework, which outlines essential principles for maintaining health, including the importance of sunshine, hydration, sleep, and nutrition. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the spiritual aspect of health, encouraging listeners to present their bodies as living sacrifices to God. Takeaways -Barbara O'Neill emphasizes the body's natural ability to heal itself -Knowledge is crucial in dissipating fear related to health. -Healing encompasses mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects. -Toxins and neurotoxins play a significant role in health issues, including ADHD and Autism -Hormonal imbalances are linked to neurological issues. -Practical steps can help reduce toxic burden in children. -Small, incremental changes are key to healing. Keywords Neurospicy, health, healing, Barbara O'Neill, natural remedies, mental health, autism, toxins, parenting, wellness, mycotoxins, hormonal balance, neurodivergence, neurotoxins, ADHD, AuDHD, Sustain Me, nutrition, exercise, liver health Chapters 07:49 Barbara's Journey to International Educator 19:14 Personal Experiences and Insights 26:19 Mental Health and Generational Toxicity 29:19 The Role of the Prefrontal Cortex 33:24 The Impact of Vaccines on Health 41:14 Identifying Toxic Load in Patients 45:20 Practical Steps to Reduce Toxic Burden 53:03 The Connection Between Liver Health and Brain Function 57:16 The Importance of Small Steps in Health Improvement Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If this was helpful, a quick 5-star review on your listening platform will help more people see the pod! GET BARBARA O’NEILL’S BRAIN HEALTH OUTLINE (http://neurospicysoulcare.com) Are you struggling with: ADHD, Autism or AuDHD symptoms mystery symptoms  histamine issues   depression + anxiety chronic fatigue   self-hatred   general chaos? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Meet Carla (http://neurospicysoulcare.com/meetcarla) Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

010: Gender Roles in the Home: Why Atypical Doesn't Mean Unbiblical Summary In this episode of Neurospicy Soulcare, hosts Carla and Frank Padilla explore the complexities of traditional gender roles and how neurodivergence influences these dynamics within a marriage. They discuss the cultural versus biblical perspectives on gender roles. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, self-care in headship, honoring one another's gifts and calling, and trusting God in navigating family dynamics, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Takeaways -Traditional gender roles can be influenced by culture and personal experiences. -Neurodivergence can complicate traditional gender roles and expectations. -Open communication is essential for healthy marriage dynamics. -Self-care is crucial for effective spiritual leadership in the family. -Biblical perspectives on gender roles can differ from cultural norms. -Every marriage is unique and requires mutual respect and understanding. Keywords neurodivergent, gender roles, marriage dynamics, biblical perspectives, cultural influences, self-care, financial independence, family dynamics, communication, spiritual leadership, autism, adhd, neurodivergence Chapters 08:38 Cultural vs. Biblical Perspectives on Gender 11:28 Navigating Leadership in Marriage 19:38 The Dynamics of Complementarianism and Egalitarianism 34:10 The Importance of Dialogue in Personal Growth 46:22 Headship and Spiritual Growth in Families 51:09 The Impact of Self-Care on Family Dynamics 01:02:37 Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance Not medical advice. Educational and entertainment purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leave a quick 5-star review! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Get free resources and podcast reminders via email! (https://podcast.ausha.co/neurospicysoulcare?s=1v) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Episode 9: Is Vacation Fun the Same as Rest? Travel Advice for Neurodivergents Summary In this episode, Carla and Frank discusses challenges with traveling as a neurodivergent individual. They share valuable tips for neurodivergent-friendly travel, including packing strategies, managing sensory needs, and navigating airports. The conversation also touches on the importance of self-care and recovery after travel, emphasizing that fun and rest are distinct and should be treated as such. Carla encourages listeners to be kind to themselves and to prepare adequately for travel to minimize anxiety and discomfort. Takeaways Understanding sensory needs is crucial for a comfortable travel experience Preparation can alleviate anxiety but may also create it Spending money on comfort during travel is often worth it Post-travel recovery is essential for mental health Fun and rest are not the same; both are necessary It's important to plan for self-care after returning from a trip Chapters 01:51 Neurodivergent Friendly Travel Tips 04:58 Packing Strategies for Neurodivergent Travelers 14:34 Managing Expectations During Travel 27:34 Navigating Group Dynamics: The Challenges of Social Travel 31:04 Sensory Sensitivity: Accommodations for Neurodivergent Travelers 36:06 Post-Travel Recovery: Managing Energy Deficits 40:27 Self-Care After Fun: Recognizing the Need for Rest Keywords neurodivergent travel, travel tips, sensory needs, self-care, packing strategies, airport experiences, post-travel recovery, mental health, travel challenges Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review in the next 2 days will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Get free resources and podcast reminders via email! (https://podcast.ausha.co/neurospicysoulcare?s=1v) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

008: Neurodivergence: Result of the fall, or Imago Dei? Summary In this conversation, Carla and Frank explore the themes of neurodivergence, spirituality, and missional creativity. They discuss the challenges and strengths of neurodivergent individuals, particularly in relation to their spiritual experiences and creativity. The conversation emphasizes understanding one's unique traits, and how these can reflect the image of God. They also address the societal implications of neurodivergence and the need for a supportive community. Takeaways Neurodivergence can reflect unique attributes of God. Self-care is crucial for maintaining balance and creativity. Dissatisfaction can drive progress and innovation. God accepts our efforts and brings them into His kingdom. The conversation encourages embracing one's neurodivergent traits as part of God's design Keywords neurodivergence, spirituality, Imago Dei, creativity, self-care, ADHD, understanding, socialization, God, personal growth, entrepreneurship, creative business Chapters 09:00 Neurodivergence and Its Implications 22:39 The Intersection of Creativity and Faith 27:53 The Value of Neurodivergent Perspectives 32:39 Hope and Restoration in Neurodivergence 52:21 Conclusion and Call to Action Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review in the next 2 days will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Get free resources and podcast reminders via email! (https://podcast.ausha.co/neurospicysoulcare?s=1v) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) (this website does not reflect all of my own opinions and beliefs, but is a great approachable educational resource) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Design and everything else: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Summary In this episode, Carla and Frank discuss the complexities surrounding recent discussion around autism, including the language used in public discourse, the rising statistics of autism diagnoses, and the impact of environmental factors and epigenetics on autism. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding autism as a neurotype that requires stewardship and care, while also addressing the spiritual dimensions of health and well-being. Takeaways -There is a significant rise in severe autism diagnoses, with alarming statistics indicating one in four children diagnosed. -Environmental factors play a crucial role in the severity of autism and should be considered in discussions about its causes. -The conversation around autism must include empathy and understanding for families with varying experiences. -Epigenetics and environmental factors can influence the expression of autism and overall health. -The narrative around autism should focus on stewardship rather than eradication or cure. -Improving environmental conditions can lead to better outcomes for future generations.  Chapters 08:38 Understanding Autism Statistics and Levels of Support Needs 16:27 The Impact of Autism on Families and Socioeconomic Factors 24:32 Exploring Environmental Factors and Their Role in Autism 41:02 The Severity of Autism and Public Health 46:19 Chronic Conditions and Autism 52:12 Holistic Health and Environmental Impact 01:06:19 Living as an Offering Keywords autism, neurodiversity, environmental factors, epigenetics, RFK Jr., autism statistics, autism language, spiritual growth, health coaching, family dynamics Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving physically, mentally and spiritually with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Get free resources and podcast reminders via email! (https://podcast.ausha.co/neurospicysoulcare?s=1v) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) (this website does not reflect all of my own opinions and beliefs) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

005 The Relief of Finding a Friend Who Gets it: Inspired by Eva and Joe from Survivor 48 In this episode of NeuroSpicy Soul Care, Carla and Frank explore the complexities of navigating the world as you become aware of your neurodivergence, particularly autism and ADHD. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, finding supportive allies. They discuss the recent impact of media representations, such as the reality show Survivor, on autism awareness. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, communication, and the significance of having friends who 'get it' in navigating social situations and personal challenges. Takeaways -Self-awareness is crucial for managing overstimulation and meltdowns. -Having supportive allies can significantly impact one's experience in high-pressure environments. -Words and labels around autism are loaded and can vary in acceptance. -Verbal processing can help in understanding social dynamics and personal experiences. -It's important to communicate needs even if you choose not to label them as diagnosis-related. Keywords Neurodivergent, Autism, ADHD, Support, Self-Awareness, Survivor, Meltdowns, Allies, Relationships, Mental Health, Unmasking, Self-advocacy Chapters 03:16 Survivor Story: Joe and Eva's Journey 13:03 Finding a Friend Who Gets It 15:50 Navigating Social Situations as Neurodivergent 20:55 Strategies for Building Trust and Support 31:13 The Importance of Self-Awareness 38:06 Finding Your People and Supports 52:49 Proactive Communication and Support Strategies Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Check out the new site! (http://www.neurospicysoulpod.my.canva.site/) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) (this website does not reflect all of my own opinions and beliefs, but is a great approachable educational resource) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

004 Moral Neutrality, Condemnation and Sanctification: Are Your Neurodivergent Traits a Problem? Summary In this episode of the Neurospicy SoulCare podcast, Carla and Frank discuss the challenges of burnout, self-care, and the complexities of neurodiversity. The conversation explores the moral neutrality of certain behaviors, the impact of cultural conditioning, and the importance of emotional regulation. Carla emphasizes the need for community support and the spiritual implications of our actions, while also addressing the nuances of daily chores and the fear of judgment when switching interests. The episode concludes with a call for self-compassion and understanding in navigating these challenges. Takeaways -Neurodiversity includes a range of traits that can be morally neutral. -Cultural conditioning can shape our perceptions of behaviors. -Self-awareness is key to emotional regulation and healing. -Community support is vital for those with neurodiverse traits. -Chores and daily tasks can carry moral implications, but not always -Switching interests is a natural part of being neurodivergent. Chapters 10:49 Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact 15:36 The Role of Community in Self-Discovery 22:05 Exploring Morality and Behavior 30:23 Practical Strategies for Neurodiverse Individuals 38:28 Navigating Chores and Cleanliness 43:24 Communication and Relationships 51:31 Task Switching and Interests 59:47 Finding Balance in Creativity 01:04:38 Understanding Personal Motivations Keywords neurodiversity, moral neutrality, cultural conditioning, emotional regulation, spiritual implications, community support, chores, self-compassion, autism, adhd, audhd, high-masking Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review in the next 2 days will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Check out the new site! (http://www.neurospicysoulpod.my.canva.site/) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/)EmbraceAutism.com (http://EmbraceAutism.com) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Design and everything else: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Summary In this episode of the NeuroSpicy Soul Care podcast, hosts Carla and Frank Padilla delve into their personal experiences with autism and ADHD, exploring the complexities of neurodivergence. They discuss the challenges of self-identification, sensory sensitivities, and the impact of burnout on mental health.  The conversation also touches on the intersection of chronic illness and neurodivergence, the importance of comfort and self-expression through fashion, and the dynamics of relationships affected by neurodivergent traits.  Ultimately, they share Christian insight that promotes self-acceptance and the importance of recognizing one's unique identity. Takeaways - It can be hard to say out loud that you’re a person with Autism - Autistic brains are a result of a genetic neurotype affected additionally by epigenetic factors - You don't have to feel like you're a mistake or that hard feeling things about you are a mistake - Time blindness is rough - Burnout is real and can lead to deep feelings of depression. - You can either hold God’s acceptance of all parts of you, or people’s rejection of some parts - You are more yourself the more spiritually healed you are. - It's important to have someone who can support you–spouse, family or friend - Navigating relationships can be challenging, but understanding each other's neurodivergent traits can ease the pressure.  Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review in the next 2 days will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Need some help to start thriving with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) Check out the new site! (http://www.neurospicysoulpod.my.canva.site) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on EmbraceAutism.com (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) (this website does not reflect all of my own opinions and beliefs, but is a great approachable educational resource) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Design and Everything Else: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Summary: In this episode of the NeuroSpicy Soul Care Pod, hosts Carla and Frank Padilla explore the complexities of neurodiversity, the importance of diagnosis, and the journey of self-discovery for neurodivergent individuals.  They share personal experiences, discuss the significance of self-care, and highlight the role of faith in understanding neurodiversity.  The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in navigating the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals and their families. Takeaways: - The diagnosis is a good place to start for understanding oneself - Neurodivergent individuals often have unique and valuable perspectives - Self-diagnosis can be a valid way to seek understanding and relief - Life can be easier with the right support and understanding - The journey of diagnosis can lead to greater self-compassion - Diagnosis can open doors to accommodations and support - Neurodivergence is a different way of processing the world - Faith in Christ can play a significant role in understanding and accepting our brains - Navigating the testing process can be complex but rewarding Keywords neurodiversity, diagnosis, self-diagnosis, self-care, autism, ADHD, AuDHD, mental health, faith, Christianity Not medical advice. Educational purposes only. Not meant to diagnose or treat any known condition. If you like what you hear, leaving a quick 5-star review in the next 2 days will really help more people see the pod! Really appreciate you all being here for this learning process! Check out the new site! (http://www.neurospicysoulpod.my.canva.site) Need some help with this neurospicy life? Book a free intro call (https://calendly.com/practicallydetoxed/assessandplan?back=1&month=2025-03) SELF-ASSESSMENT LINKS: RAADS-R Autism Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/#test) ASRS v 1.1 ADHD Self-Assessment (https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-v1-1/#test) Other Autism assessments on EmbraceAutism.com (https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/) An intro to AuDHD (https://embrace-autism.com/an-introduction-to-audhd/#How_can_I_tell_if_Im_AuDHD) (this website does not reflect all of my own opinions and beliefs but is a great approachable resource) Turn down the fire🔥 Embrace the spice🌶️ FOR HIS GLORY🙌 Hosted By: Carla Padilla, Frank Padilla Edited By: Carla Padilla Design and everything else: Carla Padilla Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.