The Divorce Devil Podcast

Divorce Recovery 101: When Old Memories Haunt New Relationships 👻➡️😊 DD#226 || David and Rachel

30min | 07/20/2025|

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Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we’re here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present. 🧳✨

Why Do Old Memories Hit So Hard After Divorce? If you’ve ever found yourself flooded with memories—good, bad, or bittersweet—when you revisit old vacation spots or family traditions, you’re not alone. For many men, especially over 40, these moments can trigger unexpected emotions. Maybe you’re trying to enjoy a new adventure, but your mind keeps drifting back to trips with your ex or your kids. Or perhaps you’re struggling to set boundaries and keep the past from clouding your future.

Rachel and David Share Real Talk & Real Solutions Rachel’s journey was more amicable, while David’s was all about boundaries and compartmentalizing. Together, they offer two unique perspectives on how men process divorce memories differently than women. From setting emotional boundaries to learning how to talk about the past without getting stuck in it, this episode is packed with practical advice and a few laughs along the way. 😂

Key Takeaways:

Why men and women process divorce memories differently
How to set healthy boundaries with your ex and your kids
Tips for making new memories without erasing the old ones
The importance of feeling your emotions (yes, it’s okay to cry, guys!)
How to avoid letting the past sabotage your new relationships

Are You Ready to Move Forward? Healing after divorce isn’t about forgetting the past—it’s about learning from it and building something better. Whether you’re co-parenting, starting to date again, or just trying to find peace, this episode will help you take the next step.

Join the Conversation! Have you struggled with old memories after your divorce? How do you handle vacations, holidays, or family traditions now? Drop a comment below and share your story! 👇 Your experience could help another man on his journey to recovery.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast. And if you want to be a guest and share your story, reach out—we’d love to hear from you!

Remember: You can’t drive forward if you’re always looking in the rearview mirror. Let’s build new memories together! 🚗💨

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #NewBeginnings #HealingAfterDivorce

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About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

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About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we’re here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present. 🧳✨

Why Do Old Memories Hit So Hard After Divorce? If you’ve ever found yourself flooded with memories—good, bad, or bittersweet—when you revisit old vacation spots or family traditions, you’re not alone. For many men, especially over 40, these moments can trigger unexpected emotions. Maybe you’re trying to enjoy a new adventure, but your mind keeps drifting back to trips with your ex or your kids. Or perhaps you’re struggling to set boundaries and keep the past from clouding your future.

Rachel and David Share Real Talk & Real Solutions Rachel’s journey was more amicable, while David’s was all about boundaries and compartmentalizing. Together, they offer two unique perspectives on how men process divorce memories differently than women. From setting emotional boundaries to learning how to talk about the past without getting stuck in it, this episode is packed with practical advice and a few laughs along the way. 😂

Key Takeaways:

Why men and women process divorce memories differently
How to set healthy boundaries with your ex and your kids
Tips for making new memories without erasing the old ones
The importance of feeling your emotions (yes, it’s okay to cry, guys!)
How to avoid letting the past sabotage your new relationships

Are You Ready to Move Forward? Healing after divorce isn’t about forgetting the past—it’s about learning from it and building something better. Whether you’re co-parenting, starting to date again, or just trying to find peace, this episode will help you take the next step.

Join the Conversation! Have you struggled with old memories after your divorce? How do you handle vacations, holidays, or family traditions now? Drop a comment below and share your story! 👇 Your experience could help another man on his journey to recovery.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast. And if you want to be a guest and share your story, reach out—we’d love to hear from you!

Remember: You can’t drive forward if you’re always looking in the rearview mirror. Let’s build new memories together! 🚗💨

#DivorceRecovery #MenOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast #NewBeginnings #HealingAfterDivorce

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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