The Divorce Devil Podcast

Elizabeth Part Two - Dating, Boundaries, Communication and Practical Tools || Divorce Devil Podcast #204 || David and Rachel

49min | 01/25/2025|

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In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel welcome back guest Elizabeth to dive into the complexities of post-divorce life, dating, and personal growth. The conversation is a candid exploration of the emotional, mental, and relational challenges that arise after divorce, with Elizabeth sharing her personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and navigating new relationships. The trio discusses the importance of setting boundaries, recognizing trauma responses, and learning to communicate effectively in relationships. Elizabeth opens up about her experiences with dating after divorce, the lessons she’s learned, and how therapy has played a pivotal role in her growth.

The episode also touches on the significance of forgiveness, self-awareness, and the need to prioritize personal happiness while avoiding the pitfalls of complacency and unresolved trauma. With humor, honesty, and vulnerability, the hosts and guest provide valuable insights for anyone navigating the post-divorce landscape, offering practical advice and relatable anecdotes. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that healing is a journey, and embracing self-worth is key to building healthier relationships in the future.

Top 10 Most Important Topics in the Podcast:

Dating After Divorce: The challenges of re-entering the dating world, including navigating boundaries, avoiding complacency, and learning from past mistakes.
Healing and Therapy: The importance of addressing unresolved trauma and seeking therapy to foster personal growth and healthier relationships.
Setting Boundaries: How establishing boundaries, even with oneself, can lead to healthier dynamics and self-respect.
Forgiveness vs. Letting Go: Differentiating between forgiveness and letting go, and how each impacts emotional well-being.
Trauma Responses in Relationships: Recognizing and addressing triggers that stem from past trauma to avoid projecting them onto new partners.
The Role of Communication: The necessity of open, honest communication in relationships, including discussing needs, boundaries, and expectations.
Self-Awareness and Growth: The journey of self-discovery post-divorce and learning to prioritize personal happiness and self-worth.
The "Hoe Phase": Exploring the concept of dating for self-discovery and understanding what one truly wants in a partner.
Love Languages and Compatibility: Understanding personal and partner love languages to foster deeper connections and mutual understanding.
Practical Tools for Relationships: Utilizing resources like couples apps, card games, and therapy to strengthen communication and intimacy in relationships.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel welcome back guest Elizabeth to dive into the complexities of post-divorce life, dating, and personal growth. The conversation is a candid exploration of the emotional, mental, and relational challenges that arise after divorce, with Elizabeth sharing her personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and navigating new relationships. The trio discusses the importance of setting boundaries, recognizing trauma responses, and learning to communicate effectively in relationships. Elizabeth opens up about her experiences with dating after divorce, the lessons she’s learned, and how therapy has played a pivotal role in her growth.

The episode also touches on the significance of forgiveness, self-awareness, and the need to prioritize personal happiness while avoiding the pitfalls of complacency and unresolved trauma. With humor, honesty, and vulnerability, the hosts and guest provide valuable insights for anyone navigating the post-divorce landscape, offering practical advice and relatable anecdotes. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that healing is a journey, and embracing self-worth is key to building healthier relationships in the future.

Top 10 Most Important Topics in the Podcast:

Dating After Divorce: The challenges of re-entering the dating world, including navigating boundaries, avoiding complacency, and learning from past mistakes.
Healing and Therapy: The importance of addressing unresolved trauma and seeking therapy to foster personal growth and healthier relationships.
Setting Boundaries: How establishing boundaries, even with oneself, can lead to healthier dynamics and self-respect.
Forgiveness vs. Letting Go: Differentiating between forgiveness and letting go, and how each impacts emotional well-being.
Trauma Responses in Relationships: Recognizing and addressing triggers that stem from past trauma to avoid projecting them onto new partners.
The Role of Communication: The necessity of open, honest communication in relationships, including discussing needs, boundaries, and expectations.
Self-Awareness and Growth: The journey of self-discovery post-divorce and learning to prioritize personal happiness and self-worth.
The "Hoe Phase": Exploring the concept of dating for self-discovery and understanding what one truly wants in a partner.
Love Languages and Compatibility: Understanding personal and partner love languages to foster deeper connections and mutual understanding.
Practical Tools for Relationships: Utilizing resources like couples apps, card games, and therapy to strengthen communication and intimacy in relationships.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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