The Divorce Devil Podcast

The Dos & Don’ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles 💔➡️💘 || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and Rachel

24min | 08/24/2025|

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Description

Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you’re really ready to dive back into the dating world? 🥴 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts David and Rachel get real about the ups, downs, and downright weird moments of dating after divorce.

We cover it all—from the anxiety of dating “too soon” to the pitfalls of waiting “too long.” Should you date while your divorce is still in progress? What about legal separation—does that mean you’re free to find a new flame? 🔥 David and Rachel spill the truth, share personal stories, and offer hard-won advice for anyone navigating the tricky waters of post-divorce relationships.

What’s Inside This Episode:

The real signs you’re ready (or not!) to start dating again after 40 🚦
Why honesty—especially online—is non-negotiable (no more 1992 yearbook pics, please! 📸)
The truth about “rebound relationships” and what they teach us
Dealing with loneliness, building confidence, and learning to love your own company 🥂
Dating safety tips for women AND men (yes, we talk about code words, drink covers, and group dates! 🛡️)
The hilarious—and sometimes cringey—side of unsolicited pics 😳
How your childhood and family history can impact your dating decisions as an adult
Why it’s okay to walk away, say “no thanks,” and trust your gut instincts! 🙅‍♀️

We also dive into the importance of healing first, setting boundaries, and creating a support system with friends who “get it.” 💪 Rachel opens up about her own journey, the walls she built, and how being honest about your feelings—good or bad—is key to finding love (or just a decent date) after divorce.

Ready to laugh, learn, and maybe cry a little? This episode is packed with actionable tips, real-life stories, and plenty of humor to remind you: dating over 40 isn’t just possible—it can be fun, empowering, and even healing.

👇 We Want to Hear From YOU! 👇

Have you tried dating after divorce? What’s your funniest (or worst!) dating story? What’s the biggest red flag you’ve seen? Drop your thoughts, questions, or stories in the comments—let’s help each other survive and THRIVE in the post-divorce dating pool! 💬❤️

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast—your home for real talk, real laughs, and real recovery after 40.

AND PEOPLE WITH SCHOOL-AGED CHILDREN, MOST OF YOU - DO BETTER!!

#DivorceRecovery #DatingOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast

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About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you’re really ready to dive back into the dating world? 🥴 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts David and Rachel get real about the ups, downs, and downright weird moments of dating after divorce.

We cover it all—from the anxiety of dating “too soon” to the pitfalls of waiting “too long.” Should you date while your divorce is still in progress? What about legal separation—does that mean you’re free to find a new flame? 🔥 David and Rachel spill the truth, share personal stories, and offer hard-won advice for anyone navigating the tricky waters of post-divorce relationships.

What’s Inside This Episode:

The real signs you’re ready (or not!) to start dating again after 40 🚦
Why honesty—especially online—is non-negotiable (no more 1992 yearbook pics, please! 📸)
The truth about “rebound relationships” and what they teach us
Dealing with loneliness, building confidence, and learning to love your own company 🥂
Dating safety tips for women AND men (yes, we talk about code words, drink covers, and group dates! 🛡️)
The hilarious—and sometimes cringey—side of unsolicited pics 😳
How your childhood and family history can impact your dating decisions as an adult
Why it’s okay to walk away, say “no thanks,” and trust your gut instincts! 🙅‍♀️

We also dive into the importance of healing first, setting boundaries, and creating a support system with friends who “get it.” 💪 Rachel opens up about her own journey, the walls she built, and how being honest about your feelings—good or bad—is key to finding love (or just a decent date) after divorce.

Ready to laugh, learn, and maybe cry a little? This episode is packed with actionable tips, real-life stories, and plenty of humor to remind you: dating over 40 isn’t just possible—it can be fun, empowering, and even healing.

👇 We Want to Hear From YOU! 👇

Have you tried dating after divorce? What’s your funniest (or worst!) dating story? What’s the biggest red flag you’ve seen? Drop your thoughts, questions, or stories in the comments—let’s help each other survive and THRIVE in the post-divorce dating pool! 💬❤️

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss an episode of Divorce Devil Podcast—your home for real talk, real laughs, and real recovery after 40.

AND PEOPLE WITH SCHOOL-AGED CHILDREN, MOST OF YOU - DO BETTER!!

#DivorceRecovery #DatingOver40 #DivorceDevilPodcast

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About The Divorce Devil Podcast

WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery.

If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions!

Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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