Description
Here is the third and final prison in divorce recovery - the fear of change. The top ten pretty much round it out and speak for themselves. What do you think? In this episode of the Divorce Devil podcast, hosts David and Rachel discuss the practical considerations and fear of change that come with divorce recovery. They share personal experiences and offer tips on how to overcome these challenges.
David and Rachel delve into the overwhelming practical considerations that come with divorce, including finding a new home, job, and school for children, as well as legal processes. They share humorous conversations about the difficulties of navigating these changes, including David's phrase "cracking off a piece" when referring to going back to an ex-spouse for comfort.
The hosts also discuss the impact of divorce on self-identity and the stigma surrounding divorced individuals. They note that divorce can come with baggage and affect how others view an individual, but it can also help narrow the deal breakers in the dating world.
At [0:35:58], David and Rachel discuss the fear of repeat failure and social stigma, including the impact of divorce on friend dynamics and changing one's name. They emphasize the importance of seeking support from family, friends, and professionals such as therapists and divorce coaches to navigate these fears and embrace the necessity of change, healing, and growth.
Rachel offers words of encouragement at [0:40:07], reminding listeners to take the good with the bad and know that each day will get better. She advises taking the first step out of fear, whether that means finding happiness, a new relationship, or simply smiling without feeling guilty. The episode concludes at [0:40:21] with David signing off as "Prison Number Three Love you. Bye."
Quotable Phrases:
- "The deal breakers get you to narrow that little playing field."
- "Don't get divorced during the pandemic. Put that shit off."
- "Just roll with it."
- "Finding humor in difficult situations and taking control of one's life can help individuals find happiness after divorce."
- "When you finally smile for the first time without feeling guilty or you have a day where you don't think about divorce at all, there's little tiny wins."
- "Take the good with the bad and just know that each day is going to get better."
- "Whenever you're ready, just take that first step out of fear."
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