Speaker #0Are you ready to step into your most abundant reality? This is Made for More, the podcast for women who clearly know they didn't come here to live ordinary lives. I'm your host Romain, entrepreneur, life lover, and your new permission sleep to actually dream bigger. If you're into all things manifestation, mindsets, bold moves, delusional energy, and having the time of your life while building the life of your dreams, then you've come to the right place. Now, and as they say so well in English, sit back, relax, and enjoy the show. Hey guys, welcome back to the Made For More podcast. I am so excited about today's episode because I'm actually going to be talking about money. And I know that money is a topic that brings all kinds of reactions and emotions. Sometimes just hearing the word money brings reactions and emotions of all sorts. Anger, frustration, rejection, happiness, joy. I think it is such an interesting topic to talk about. And it's so interesting because it took me a long time. I think in two years of having a French podcast, I actually never had one episode dedicated to money, which I'm actually realizing as I'm speaking now, like, because basically what's leading me to like talk about money on this episode today is the journey that I've been on in the past six months that made me realize that I still held a lot of shame around money and around being a woman with money and around being seen. as a woman with money and just like being seen as someone who has money and is happy and proud of having money. So like I've been through my own thing that I will talk about. And I also want to share because I mean, not a lot of people know me here because it's a new podcast, but I have made over 850,000 euros with my business in less than four years. And I think I've made like over 700 of that 800,000 euros. in just like over two years. So honestly, ever since I started a business, like it's been so easy for me to attract money. Like I don't have problems with money. I was going to say, I'm in a very loving relationship with money, which is funny because like in the program that I have created in French, Money Magic, I'm really like explaining that money is like a relationship, like you're having, you're in a relationship with money. So yeah, I have built a beautiful relationship with money to the point where money loves spending time with me as much as I love spending time with money. I guess I'll have to dive deeper into all of this in a program. And somehow, even though it was super easy for me to attract money and live a beautiful life and travel the world and go to beautiful places and spend a lot of money in shopping and all of these things. I was still very afraid to talk about it because part of me was judging people with money, was judging women openly talking about money. And it's funny, I was writing a few days ago that you only reject the things that you haven't healed within yourself. So it was so interesting for me to notice that for the past two years, I was always judging, even if it wasn't my head, I was always judging. Women openly talking about wanting to make a lot of money and talking openly about their numbers and helping other women with money. And for me, with my ego, I was like, I'm better than them because I'm heart-led. Which made me realize that I was still opposing heart versus money. So heart is good, money is bad. So even though I did make a lot of money. attracted a lot of money, lived my best life, still living my best life. I was not like, it's almost like my lifestyle didn't fully changed. And even like people who met me this year, as I was, as I'm living in Canada, one, one friend actually told me, she was like, damn, I saw you one day, like, cause I had just met her. And she was like, then I just like checked your Instagram. Cause like, I don't know, like her friend told me, told her about me. I would have never expected that you had such a successful business and you were making such big amounts of money because I think I had stories about this. And that's also interesting because two things. It's not because you have a lot of money that you need to be seen as someone who has money, but there is a difference between... Being someone who's like truly comfortable with like not showing that they have money and being someone who's like intentionally or subconsciously still hiding the fact that they have money, which is the case for a lot of women who are not fully owning that they do love money, that they want more money. And like they often have shame, same with sexuality. They often have shame around talking about money. Talking about sexuality, those two subjects are linked actually. Talking about taboo topics, because it's always the fear of being judged. What are people going to think about me? Does that make me a bad person? So there are different topics in our world. And I'm going to say like 3D world because there's a 5D world. And for our souls, none of these topics are bad topics. But for us on this planet, there are some topics that we just like tend to like not talk about openly. I mean, if a man talks about money, it's fine. If a woman talks about money, it is often not seen the same way. So yeah, I just wanted to really start this episode by sharing a little bit of my own journey with shame and judgment and realizing that I was judging myself a lot with money. And I don't know, in the past six months, I really... Well, I mean, I took a break from my business in French. And so I stopped making money for six months. So I I haven't had revenue for the past six months. which is so interesting because it's allowing me to work on my relationship with money and stay very grounded and very confident and still very, I don't know, it's crazy because I haven't made the money in the past six months, but somehow my lifestyle is still the same. So I'm still spending the same amount of money. My taxes are still going away. Well, I mean, government is still taking money away from me. So my bank account has like significantly dropped over the past six months. But I've always had this deep feeling of trust of everything's going to be fine. So it's also an interesting experience to be in, to still reinforce my relationship with money, which is like, I just, I actually love it. But yeah, so I've had time to like dive deeper into the topic of money. And at some point, I realized that I... was literally living my best life or I've literally been living my best life this past the past five years because I have money but somehow I did not want to help my clients with making money because I was like no but there's so much more to to life than money it's like it would always be my thought it was like yeah but money is like not important like money is not like money money you know now now And then I was like, girl, like you freaking hypocrites. Because the reason that I've been living such a good life, the reason that I've been able to take a six-month break from my business, the reason that I've been able to live in the U.S., live in Costa Rica, travel the world, go to like so many different places, is because I have money, is because I've attracted a lot of money. There is a part of me that was not fully owning that the only reason why I'm living the life that I'm living today is because I actually have money. And there is a difference between having money and being in a state of abundance. I believe that the reason why I do have so much money and that I've been able to attract that much money is because I live in a state of abundance because there are a lot of people who have money. but who are like still in a scarcity mindset. So they don't know how to enjoy life. They don't know how to enjoy their money. They're trying to save as much, but they're still like always afraid of losing. And that's something that actually prevents a lot of people from having money is the fear around owning it and losing it as well. And then like, oh, but what are people gonna think? Oftentimes it's also linked to like family dynamics and like friendships, but biggest thing is like family dynamics. of what are people going to think or what are my parents going to think, what is my family going to think when I start making more money than them. So we don't realize it, but there is often a guilt, subconscious guilt around being quote unquote better than your parents because we want to stay loyal. And that's often, it's not even just the parents, it's all the generations before who have suffered and our soul thinks that The only way to be loved and the only way to stay loyal to our family is to stay in the same financial situations that they might have been in. So like there is a deep work around money. But the reason that I started this episode is because I actually saw a sentence about 30 minutes ago that said, financial peace gives you so much space to actually become who you really are. And I resonated with this so much because the funniest thing is that about an hour before seeing that sentence, I was actually walking and I had the same reflection. I was like, damn, like money has allowed me so much freedom to just explore, get to know myself more, pay for therapy, pay for self-care, pay for coaching, pay for programs, pay for like astrology readings. It's just like... And also have the time and space to not have to do things so I can just like be with myself. Because that's a big thing. When we're lacking money, we're always in that constant rush and like doing, Because we need to have that financial piece. We need to have that financial security. And I mean, it's a reality. You still need to pay your bills. And I mean, I don't have the research, but I believe that. money and scarcity around money is the number one reason for like people being stressed, which I mean is understandable. So it's almost like seeing that sentence and then reflecting on it even more really anchored the idea that money is so important even more in my system. And I think it's so interesting that for so long in my business, I did not want to help people make more money. It's like... it's almost like consciously I wanted it, but subconsciously I did not want it because I was like, yeah, but I don't want to be the person that people come to just to make money. It's like, I want to be the person that people come to because they want to raise their frequencies and be happier and live their most abundant life. Well, guess what, Romain? This is something that I also channeled one day. It's like money does not equal success, but success includes money. So it's not because you have money that you're successful because you might have money, but you're like stressed. You're like unhealthy. You're like living one of the worst moments of your life, or you're not even able to enjoy or you're like depressed. Like there could be anything. So money alone does not mean success, but success to me was, I mean, it's my definition, but success includes money. It doesn't mean that success. only includes money, but that money is one of the components of success as much as like healthy friendships, healthy relationships, a good relationship with food, with your body, exercising, being happy and like having a regulated nervous system, like anything that you actually would put into your own definition of success, because we all have a different definition of success. But I really, really believe that money... is a part of success. And it's so interesting to hear this narrative around, because I was even entertaining it. Like I was actually also sharing the same thing, but the narrative around, yeah, but money does not matter. Like money won't buy happiness. Money, it's always like we're trying. And I think, I believe it's a subconscious behavior that we're all having and then we're not even realizing it, but it's so interesting. That most people are actually saying, yeah, but money is not that important. Money is not that important, but money is not really important. Like you can be happy and not have money. Yeah, you can, but you can also be happy and have money. And I remember, I don't even know if I said it on another episode, but I remember reading, it was 2022. So damn, that was like four years ago. I was in Mexico and I was reading the book, You're a Badass at Making Money from Jen Sincero. And she was using the metaphor of pizza to talk about money. And I think the example was like two friends having a conversation and one of them saying like, oh my God, I love pizza so much. Pizza is so amazing. I like, I really want to eat pizza tonight. And the person was answering, yeah, but like family is more important than pizza. She was like, duh, of course family is more important than pizza, but I'm still allowed to love pizza. And we're not realizing it, but we're doing the same with money all the time. We're like, we've put money on a pedestal. And so every time someone says like, yeah, like I really like money. I would love to make more money. Most people will say, yeah, but money is not that important. Yeah, I know. Like pizza is not as important either, but I still really want to eat pizza. It's like, I will, I will be fine if I don't have pizza, but I would really love, like my life would be even better if I had pizza. My life would be even better if I had money. So there really is this thing around, at this point, we all know that money is not the most important thing. But damn, it's still pretty good to actually have money. It's like, I mean, if you're listening and you don't like pizza, I'm sorry for you. Now I just want to eat pizza. So we can all agree that pizza is not the most important and money is not the most important, but it's really cool to have money. And honestly, this sentence really hit me. Like financial peace gives you the space to become who you actually are. Because in your life, when you're stressed about money, you don't have the energetic capacity to actually focus on other things. Like it's your nervous system is already dysregulated. And of course, like there is a parallel. You can work on like bringing peace through other means in your life. But I think it is a reality. that most people actually would love to have more financial security, to have more stability, to be able to not worry about whether or not they can pay their bills or whether or not they can afford the vacation. I don't know about you, but I want to live a very, very abundant life. And I love money. I wanted to write the other day, I'm like, I'm a tourist. Of course, the only things I care about are food and money, which is true. I love luxury. I love money. I love spending money. I was even telling my friends the other day, I was like, damn, my problem in life is that the way that I regulate my nervous system is by buying things. Like I just love to go shopping. Like I love going to the shopping center. I bought a new bag yesterday, beautiful bag. I just like, oh my God, it's so beautiful. So I was even like laughing at myself because I haven't made money in like six months. My bank account is starting to be very, very low, but I'm like still living life like I'm. like everything's going to be fine because that's what it means to be in an abundance state. Like you will not manifest more money or have more money in your life if you're always in a scarcity mindset or if your frequency is telling the universe, fear, fear, fear, fear, fear. Like at some point there is like two things that I feel like you have to work on is your abundance mindset, your abundance frequency, and like being in a state of abundance and also your relationship with money. They're linked. but they're also two, they're linked, but they're two different things. So yeah, now, like, I mean, I really had a moment of, well, girl, money is actually important. And I actually want to help people make more money, have more money in their lives, and also be in a state of abundance. Like, I don't want to, that's, that's my thing. I don't want to teach people just how to make money. I want to teach people how to be in a state of abundance in their whole life. So they can also become a magnet to their desires, to aligned opportunities. This is why I love to work with entrepreneurs, because I also have a belief that we incarnated on planet Earth, and that if you're slightly spiritual, maybe you'll probably resonate. But I believe that we're here to express ourselves. Our souls came here. to experience like what it is to be on planet earth. But the only way to me, the only way to fully express yourself is to create, whether it's creating art, musing, expressing yourself through like, however you're actually expressing yourself. For some people, it could be fashion. For some people, it's a hobby or they love doing something. Some people are talking, some people are writing books, like whatever it is, like for me, I know expression for me is a lot through my voice. That's actually how I express my thoughts. But I believe that the fastest way to magnetize abundance in your life is to really hone on or hone in. I don't know how you say this in English, but like to capitalize on your gifts, on your expression, on really like being the most expressed version of you and on creating. And I like this sentence that says like, you're either consuming or you're creating. I feel like entrepreneurship is the fastest way to your highest timeline. And I mean, entrepreneurship will actually reveal parts of yourself that you didn't even expect that you'd find one day. It's the biggest personal quest of understanding who you are, which I think is why I actually love entrepreneurship. It's made me grow so much and I love it. I honestly love being an entrepreneur and I love helping heart-led entrepreneurs because there is such... beauty in witnessing someone who's fully stepping into their power, who's fully stepping into their full potential, who are realizing how much they're capable of creating things, doing things, magnetizing abundance. And you're both growing personally and also helping the world. How beautiful is this? I love this. I remember writing my journal about two years ago, I want to help women who help the world. And it took me such a long time to fully own this. I feel like me actually recording this episode is a new step into owning the fact that my ideal client is a creative. She's an entrepreneur. She's creating something. She's doing something. She's expressing herself. Even content creators are expressing themselves. I love to help people. find their own alignment, find their true essence, reconnect to this, come back to their center, because this is what unlocks it all. This is why I always say that I think that success, the only way that you're going to achieve 3D success or success in our material world, including money, is by fully Thank you. expressing yourself understanding your alignment because you're not going to get success if you keep acting like your neighbor i always say this sentence you you have heard it before but it's like everything that's meant for you will find you yeah karen thank you but how is everything supposed meant for me supposed to find me if i'm acting like some random dude on the internet Yes. It's like you're meant to find your essence. You're meant to find your unique alignments. Like your soul has a blueprint. And yeah, I love helping creatives, entrepreneurs like find this tune, like tune back, not even find it. It's like remembering it. It's a soul remembrance. So I love to help entrepreneurs like connect back to this, like remember their own true essence and alignment. Because I've seen what it does. Like I've seen what it unlocks. Like I've seen it for myself. I've seen it for friends. I've seen it for clients. And I'm at the stage where I'm like, yeah, I really want to help. And I really have a thing with like helping women, especially. I don't know. There is something there. But I really have this thing around. I do want to help women fully step into their power, step into their fullest potential. Thank you. magnetize everything that's meant for them, reach their highest timeline, actually make money. Again, we're not saying that pizza is the most important thing in life, but pizza is really good and money is really good. And I want to help you also magnetize money. And it's so funny because I remember like my psychic reader who I've been working with for three years now, she's also helping me with my own gifts and my desires and my intuition and everything. She like told me one they just like you really have a gift like this is part of your things. Like you really have a gift with like making money. She didn't tell me at the time that I was going to help people with money, but it is coming to my attention now that I may have something that is easy for me and that I can help people do the same. And I mean, I have a lot of clients who've messaged me over the past years, like sharing the money that they've made or like money suddenly appearing into their lives or things like this. I even remember having a client who I think went from 15k to like 20 28k or something like in a month or something and of course you're always gonna magnetize your next higher highest timeline also based on the timeline that you're on now and you can quantum leap like it doesn't have to take time because time is not linear but i'm not saying that well i mean there are many many different examples i love this topic i i'm so happy recording this i love talking about alignment and entrepreneurship and like highest timelines and frequencies and like all of these things. It is amazing. And I resisted this so much. And I want to share a sentence with you because I do journal a lot. Like journaling is one of the ways through which I channel the most easily. And so a couple of days ago, I was journaling and I had the same sentence come back to my head. And it's been coming back a lot this past year, which is I'm lost. I cannot tell you the number of times I've repeated, I'm lost. I'm lost. And maybe you've said it too. I think, I mean, we've all said it at some point, but I kept saying like, I feel lost. I don't know what my direction is. I don't know what to do. I'm lost. I'm lost. Like it would come back like so often. And it's crazy because like a couple of days ago, it was like, oh my God, I'm not lost. What am I resisting? It was like clear that The only reason why I was always saying I'm lost, which was my ego saying, oh, I'm lost. I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. And then I had like an aha moment where I was like, okay, I'm not lost, but there is something that I'm resisting. And I keep saying I'm lost because it's easier to say I'm lost than to fully admit the thing that I've been resisting, which for me was to like openly talk about money and openly talk about the fact that I want to help entrepreneurs. with like abundance, state of abundance, business alignment and money and happiness. Because I mean, guys, I will never help you be successful if it's not bringing you more aliveness, more expression, more fun. And like, I just want to enhance, I want to help you enhance everything in your life. Not just money for the sake of money is not my thing, but money with like pleasure, fun, expression, happiness, bold moves, audacity, and all of these things like this is my jump. So yeah, I just wanted to share this because if you've ever found yourself saying like, I'm lost, I'm lost, I'm lost. Ask yourself, because when you ask the right questions, your unconscious mind comes with the right answers. Ask yourself, what decision am I resisting? Or what am I... Most of the time, it's actually a decision. What decision am I resisting or what truth am I unwilling to accept? What truth am I resisting? Like there's always a resistance and we keep saying, I'm lost, I'm lost, I'm lost because we just don't want to see, don't want to accept the truth or don't want to make the decision that we've been delaying. So all of that to say that money is actually, it's beautiful and it is just energy. I really want to see, I really want you to see money as just energy. But it's like energy has everything else in our world. Like the people you are meeting are a form of energy coming into your life. The clients that you're attracting are energy as well. I mean, Einstein said it better, but everything is energy. He's not the only one who said it. So money as energy is amazing. And money gives you options. It gives you opportunities. It gives you like, I mean. When I see everything that I've been able to do these past years and living in Costa Rica, like doing all of the activities that I wanted to do, like, I mean, everything, even paying like so much money for like beautiful experiences or a spiritual school that I've attended for like a year and a half, like I also needed money for this. Like, and I mean, money is just a way to exchange energies, but it is still like something beautiful that when you have in your life allows you more things. And of course, we also want money with flow, happiness, a regulated nervous system. Although I do not believe that you fully need a regulated nervous system to make money. I think that's bullshit. But some people who work on their nervous system are just going to kill me from saying this. I don't believe that you need a full regulated nervous system because I definitely didn't have one when I called in all of that money. But it makes it easier than to hold it, feel better when it's in your life. I mean, there's a whole, like, there's another conversation to have on this. But I believe that money is great, but you also want to have fun. You also want to find pleasure in everything that you're doing. You also want to find alignment. I mean, there is so much. And it took me to realize everything that I've been living to finally own the fact that I do want to help people with this as well as other things. But I do want to help people with that. So yeah, money is beautiful. And I hope that you have a lot of money in your life. And I'm sure you've seen it. Maybe you're a millionaire already, that you're like the first millionaire of your family and that you can live your best life and then help other people. And I love the sentence that says, I hope you make so much money that God uses your pockets to help the world or to help those in need. I was like, this is beautiful. I mean, that's only like, we could talk about this for like... hours. There's so much on the energetics of money that I've been teaching in my French program. I really want to do this in English too. And I want to go even deeper into all of this. But if it is a topic that you like, please say, because we will dive into all of this with, again, with aliveness, flow, pleasure, fun. Because I fully believe that it is all meant to be fun. All of this is a journey. Life is a journey. It's an adventure. Nothing is that serious. And when you can tune in that frequency, it really, really changes your life. So yeah, I hope it gave you ideas or made you reflect on certain things. And I hope we can dive deeper altogether and other spaces or more intimate spaces on this topic. Thanks, guys. I will see you on the next episode. Don't know what it will be about, but I will see you there. Please send me a message, a DM if you resonated. I'd love to hear about it. And yeah, I'll see you next time. Well, I guess we've come to the end of this episode. Thank you for spending that time with me today. I really hope it lit a fire inside of you to dream big and go after everything that you desire. By the way, the podcast is called Made for More. If you loved it, tell your friends, tell your neighbor, tell the paparazzi. Or leave a review and tell me what you loved about it. And, as a forever reminder, stay delusional, have fun, and go chase those dreams.
