Most people did not choose their career. They fell into it. Someone suggested it. It paid well enough. It made sense at the time. And now they are ten or twenty years in wondering how they got here and whether it is too late to do something that actually fits.

Randi Benator is a career and life transition coach and the author of Awaken to Your Calling: A Guide to Discovering Your Career Path and Life Direction. She has spent years helping people answer the question that nobody teaches you how to answer — what am I actually supposed to be doing with my life? And what she will tell you is that the answer is almost never a lightning bolt moment. It is a process. And it is more accessible than most people think.

This is not an episode about quitting your job tomorrow. It is an episode about getting honest about what is not working — sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way.

If you have ever felt like you are living someone else's life — this one is for you.

Connect with Randi Benator: 
🌐 careerandlifetransitions.com 
📖 careerandlifetransitions.com/book.html 
📞 415-924-4944

In this episode: 🔥 Why most people are stuck in unfulfilling careers — and the real reason they stay 🔥 The myth of a single calling — why your purpose is allowed to evolve across life stages 🔥 How to balance active pursuit and receptive patience when building something new 🔥 The common pitfalls that keep people from following what actually lights them up 🔥 sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way. 🔥 Real life stories of career pivots that defied every societal expectation 🔥 How to get clear on your interests, talents, and what you are actually built for 🔥 How to manage the fear — the money, the seniority, the what will people think 🔥 Why mid life is not too late — it is actually the perfect time 🔥 What self awareness has to do with finding work that actually feels like yours

Timestamps: 00:00 — Meet Randi Benator — career and life transition coach 02:22 — Why everyone needs to find their real path and the cost of settling 04:24 — Matching your work to your authentic self — what that actually means 08:48 — The evolving calling — why your purpose changes and that is completely okay 12:28 — Why so many people stay stuck in careers that never fit them 15:17 — Recognizing the signs that you need a major career shift 17:14 — Navigating fear, finances, and timing when changing careers 33:58 — The balance between taking action and trusting the process 41:36 — sometimes taking a leap is the way to go for someone depending on their circumstances and sometimes the building the bridge is the best way.

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