The role of love in divorce recovery in men over 40 - Paul Zolman || Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Podcast 004 || David

40min | 12/11/2023

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Twice divorced, Paul Zolman has experienced the plight of finding out what love actually is. It can mitigate the pain of being rejected through divorce. Even children can use this pain reliever. Paul is a divorce recovery expert and the creator of the Love Language Cube. He has a background in finance and accounting and has used his personal experiences to develop a unique approach to love and relationships.

Sharing his personal story of growing up in a dysfunctional family and how it shaped his understanding of love, Paul discusses the generational patterns that can be passed down and the importance of breaking free from those patterns. Paul also introduces the Love Language Cube, a game he created to help individuals practice and understand the five love languages. He emphasizes the importance of sending love out without expecting anything in return and the power of recognizing and responding to love when it comes your way. Check out Paul’s interesting and different view on men and love.

Discussions of:
Boys are like puppies

Would be a good IRS agent

You really have no control of love coming your way or even control of the other person

Venmo QR code

Games can bring the most dysfunctional family together

Counting the five bodies buried in the backyard?

Midlife crisis destination dating

Trust the laws of the universe

Lord is it I?

Angry culture vs love culture

Caddy Shack reference

Purposeful days

Good hygiene is part of self-love

Journal page for students

Stacking kindness on top of kindness

Pay my bills - the new love language

Thanks to Paul for his spin on the Love Languages. I have to get me a cube!

Paul Zolman's Role of Love Website

Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Website

Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Private Facebook Group

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Twice divorced, Paul Zolman has experienced the plight of finding out what love actually is. It can mitigate the pain of being rejected through divorce. Even children can use this pain reliever. Paul is a divorce recovery expert and the creator of the Love Language Cube. He has a background in finance and accounting and has used his personal experiences to develop a unique approach to love and relationships.

Sharing his personal story of growing up in a dysfunctional family and how it shaped his understanding of love, Paul discusses the generational patterns that can be passed down and the importance of breaking free from those patterns. Paul also introduces the Love Language Cube, a game he created to help individuals practice and understand the five love languages. He emphasizes the importance of sending love out without expecting anything in return and the power of recognizing and responding to love when it comes your way. Check out Paul’s interesting and different view on men and love.

Discussions of:
Boys are like puppies

Would be a good IRS agent

You really have no control of love coming your way or even control of the other person

Venmo QR code

Games can bring the most dysfunctional family together

Counting the five bodies buried in the backyard?

Midlife crisis destination dating

Trust the laws of the universe

Lord is it I?

Angry culture vs love culture

Caddy Shack reference

Purposeful days

Good hygiene is part of self-love

Journal page for students

Stacking kindness on top of kindness

Pay my bills - the new love language

Thanks to Paul for his spin on the Love Languages. I have to get me a cube!

Paul Zolman's Role of Love Website

Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Website

Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Private Facebook Group

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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