When Does Divorce Pain End? Real Talk for Men Over 40 💔 || DPTSP #120 || David M. Webb

03min | 09/06/2025

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Are you a man over 40 struggling to move on after divorce? You’re not alone. Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast! I’m David Webb, your divorce recovery advocate in Colorado Springs, and today we tackle the #1 question: When does the hurt go away?

Divorce at this stage isn’t just about losing a partner—it’s about losing routines, identity, and the future you imagined. Society tells us to “man up,” but pain doesn’t care about stereotypes. The truth? Healing is not on a timeline. It’s full of ups, downs, and unexpected triggers—birthdays, holidays, even songs can bring the pain right back.

Setbacks aren’t failures—they’re signs you’re still healing, and that’s okay! Therapy, support groups, reconnecting with friends, and even creative outlets like journaling or music can help. Physical wellness (exercise, sleep, nutrition) is key too. Remember: isolation only amplifies pain, so reach out and find your tribe.

Divorce can feel like an ending, but it’s the start of a new chapter. Who do you want to become? Set small goals, try new things, and celebrate every win. The pain might not disappear completely, but it gets quieter, and you can find purpose—and even love—again.

💬 How have you dealt with setbacks or triggers during your recovery? Share your story in the comments below—let’s support each other!

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join our podcast community for more support. You are not alone. Peace. ✌️

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Description

Are you a man over 40 struggling to move on after divorce? You’re not alone. Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast! I’m David Webb, your divorce recovery advocate in Colorado Springs, and today we tackle the #1 question: When does the hurt go away?

Divorce at this stage isn’t just about losing a partner—it’s about losing routines, identity, and the future you imagined. Society tells us to “man up,” but pain doesn’t care about stereotypes. The truth? Healing is not on a timeline. It’s full of ups, downs, and unexpected triggers—birthdays, holidays, even songs can bring the pain right back.

Setbacks aren’t failures—they’re signs you’re still healing, and that’s okay! Therapy, support groups, reconnecting with friends, and even creative outlets like journaling or music can help. Physical wellness (exercise, sleep, nutrition) is key too. Remember: isolation only amplifies pain, so reach out and find your tribe.

Divorce can feel like an ending, but it’s the start of a new chapter. Who do you want to become? Set small goals, try new things, and celebrate every win. The pain might not disappear completely, but it gets quieter, and you can find purpose—and even love—again.

💬 How have you dealt with setbacks or triggers during your recovery? Share your story in the comments below—let’s support each other!

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join our podcast community for more support. You are not alone. Peace. ✌️

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

About DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

Success, Divorce, and Reinvention—You’re Not Alone.

Divorce can shake even the most accomplished men to their core, no matter their age or status. The end of a marriage is often an emotionally and mentally taxing experience, especially for successful men who are accustomed to thriving in other areas of life. That’s why the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here: a safe, open platform where successful men recovering from divorce can share their stories, find support, and gain practical tools for rebuilding.

Success doesn’t make divorce any easier. When you’re used to winning, starting over—emotionally, financially, and socially—can feel like uncharted territory. The challenges of re-establishing your identity and navigating new roles after a significant breakup are real, but you don’t have to face them alone.

Each episode dives into authentic conversations with men who have walked this path—from entrepreneurs and executives, to leaders in their fields. We explore the unique hurdles successful men encounter during divorce, from managing public perception and careers to processing the deeply personal emotions of grief, regret, anger, and hope. Alongside expert guests, we offer practical advice and proven strategies for healing and growth.

This podcast is about more than just surviving divorce—it’s about thriving in your next chapter. Through shared experiences and actionable insights, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" aims to help you rediscover meaning, rebuild confidence, and create a life filled with new possibilities.

Join us each week as we walk the road to recovery, together. Let’s break the stigma, embrace vulnerability, and support one another on the journey to a brighter, more successful future after divorce.

Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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