How can embracing the process of forgiveness and understanding our attachment styles lead to deeper self-discovery and more fulfilling relationships in midlife? In this episode of Mature Allure, I’m joined by Chris Rackliffe, a coach specializing in anxious attachments and a self-help author. We dived into the nuances of relationships, focusing on anxious attachment styles and strategies for managing loneliness and trauma during midlife. Chris shares insights from his book 'It's Good to See Me Again,' discussing the importance of forgiveness, inner child work, and nervous system regulation. We also explore how early childhood experiences shape adult behaviors and coping mechanisms. This episode is packed with valuable advice for anyone looking to heal and grow in their personal relationships. Chris Radcliffe is a coach and self-help author known for his work on anxious attachment styles and personal healing. His book, It’s Good to See Me Again, explores finding peace and forgiveness through embracing change and surrender. Chris’s upcoming book will further explore these themes, continuing his mission to help others navigate their emotional landscapes. What we discuss: (00:20) - Introducing Chris Rackliffe and his book It's Good to See Me Again (06:15) - How does forgiveness serve as a form of self-love, and what is its importance in overcoming past traumas? (11:00) - Exploring the concept of attachment styles and their impact on personal and relational dynamics. (18:00) - The connection between attachment styles, emotional health, and navigating life’s challenges in midlife. (26:32) - How to Navigate Loneliness in Midlife (34:31) - Connecting with Your Inner Child Key Takeaways: Embracing Change: Chris’s book highlights how accepting and adapting to change can lead to personal growth and self-discovery. The Power of Forgiveness: Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves, enabling us to release burdens and move forward with a healthier perspective. Understanding Attachment Styles: Our past experiences and attachment styles shape how we interact with others and view ourselves, affecting our emotional well-being. Learn more about Chris: Website: https://www.crackliffe.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrisrackliffe/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/crackliffe Instagram: @crackliffe (https://instagram.com/crackliffe) Book: https://a.co/d/4RKAiGI Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Is it possible to remain true to your artistic vision in an industry that often prioritizes commercial success over originality if you embrace authenticity in your creative work? In this episode of Mature Allure, I speak with Charlie T. Savage, a New Orleans native and Navy veteran who now works as a screenwriter and producer in Los Angeles. Charlie shares her journey through the challenges of the writer's strike, her insights on the impact of AI on creativity, and her passion for highlighting the Black female experience in her work. She also discusses networking and perseverance in the industry and offers valuable advice for aspiring screenwriters. Charlie's story is about resilience, creativity, and her quest to tell unique and important stories. Charlie T. Savage is a screenwriter, producer, and Navy veteran from New Orleans. Based in Los Angeles, she focuses on projects that highlight the Black female experience. Charlie is also a mother and an avid reader, known for her unique blend of humor and insight. What we discuss: (00:29) - Introducing Charlie T. Savage (02:25) - Challenges in the Writing Industry (03:26) - The Impact of AI on Writers (06:42) - Writing Process and Creative Control (17:12) - The Patience of a Screenwriter (18:16) - Building a Network Before Moving to Hollywood (19:35) - Navigating Hollywood Events and Networking (23:03) - Challenges and Transitions in Hollywood (26:29) - Advice for Aspiring Screenwriters (29:11) - Personal Aspirations and Reflections Key Takeaways: The significance of the writer's and actor's strikes in protecting creative rights and fair compensation. The potential threat of AI in the creative industry and the importance of maintaining uniqueness in storytelling. The challenges and rewards of being a screenwriter include the decision to retain creative control versus selling projects. Learn more about Charlie: Website: https://www.charlie-savage.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlieisavage Instagram: @charlie.t.savage (https://www.instagram.com/charlie.t.savage/) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How can embracing change and pursuing new interests help you rediscover yourself and create a more fulfilling life? This week on Mature Allure, I am joined by Marcy Lambert-Pellegrino, the founder and owner of Marcy's Pet Kitchen. Join us as we learn about her inspiring story of career transitions, the ability to reinvent oneself at any stage of life, and everything it takes to build your own business catering to dogs' dietary needs. We talk about Marci's experiences navigating midlife, starting a business during the pandemic, and being patient with yourself. She also shares valuable advice for women looking to turn their hobbies into careers and showcases her company's innovative, healthy dog treats. Marcy Lambert-Pellegrino is the founder of Marci's Pet Kitchen, a company dedicated to producing all-natural dog treats. With a background in advertising and branding, Marci leverages her creative skills to market her products effectively. She is passionate about creating healthy, limited-ingredient treats for dogs, ensuring that they are nutritious and safe for all pets, including those with special dietary needs. What we discuss: (00:00) - Welcome to Mature Allure (00:16) - Introducing Marcy Lambert-Pellegrino and her her journey in advertising and branding. (01:05) - Marci's Midlife Perspective and Setting Personal Milestones. (02:34) - The origins of Marci's Pet Kitchen and the inspiration behind starting the business. (03:46) - Combining branding skills with a love for pets to create healthy dog treats (07:55) - Challenges and strategies for growing the business and maintaining product quality. (19:01) - Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs Key Takeaways: Marci Pellegrino’s journey from a successful career in advertising and branding to founding Marci's Pet Kitchen shows the power of leveraging professional skills to pursue a passion project. Pursuing new passions, careers, or lifestyles is never too late. The role of creativity and branding in building a successful business, especially in a niche market. Learn more about Marcy: Website: https://marcyspetkitchen.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sassimdesigns/ Instagram: @marcyspetkitchen (https://www.instagram.com/marcyspetkitchen/) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Have you ever wondered how education innovates? In this episode of Mature Allure, Tori-Ann Hampton, instructional designer, explains the process and importance of designing effective learning experiences and programs. Tori-Ann emphasized that a good instructional design requires significant time, research, and strategic planning to create impactful learning programs across various industries. She also touches on related topics such as creative problem-solving, self-reflection, and social-emotional learning in the context of her work. Tori-Ann Hampton is an instructional designer with two decades of experience in the educational executive. She has dedicated her career to designing and facilitating human-centered learning opportunities that spark innovation and empower creative problem-solving. Tori-Ann's expertise spans working with students, educators, and nonprofit organizations, and she is also an actor, bringing a unique perspective to her approach. What we discuss: (00:24) - Meet Tori-Ann Hampton and learn about her profession. (03:34) - Instructional Designer’s role and process. (05:47) - Industry Applications: How instructional design applies across various industries. (08:14) - Designing Learning Programs: Strategies for creating learner-centered environments (15:45) - Social Emotional Learning (SEL): What SEL is and why it’s crucial in today’s education (27:15) - Empowering Educators through Innovation: The role of technology in modern education (33:00) - How to encourage creative problem-solving skills in learners Key Takeaways: An effective instructional design can address cognitive gaps in training and development. Effective design involves collaboration, iterative testing, and focusing on the learner’s experience. Learning is universal and continuous, applicable in any industry. Learn more about Tori-Ann Hampton: LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/toriannhampton (http://linkedin.com/in/toriannhampton) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What does self-love means in its truest sense? In this episode of Mature Allure, Terri Britt a spiritual coach and intuitive healer, talks about the the true meaning of self-love. Redefining love as a process of nurturing one's inner child to live a fulfilling life. Terry also emphasizes the significance of becoming women leaders of love that primarily aims to empower midlife women and embrace their truth. Terri Britt is a renowned spiritual coach and intuitive healer, leading the global community Women Leaders of Love. With nearly 25 years of experience, her mission is to help women break free from cycles of lack, stress, and struggle, transforming them into role models for their families. She advocates on self-love with its redefined meaning. What we discuss: (00:23) - Introduction: Terri Britt shares her background and mission. (02:00) - Life Journey: From Miss USA to spiritual coach. (06:00) - Redefining Love: How to shift from denial to self-love. (09:00) - The Inner Child: Healing past traumas and embracing your true self. (15:00) - Practical Steps: How to start the journey of self-discovery and self-love. (31:00) - The transformative power of unconditional self-love and its impact on manifesting miracles. Key Takeaways: To redefine love is to put yourself first and honor your true self. By addressing and nurturing the inner child, one can dissipate anxiety and embrace a state of joy and peace. When we become a leader of love we can transform pain into purpose. Learn more about Terri Britt: Book: Women Leaders of Love Website: https://terribritt.com/ Instagram: @terri_britt (https://www.instagram.com/terri_britt/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenleadersoflove Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Do you always feel good when you see your own picture? In this episode of Mature Allure, my guest Camille Wright Felton delves into the mastering the art of headshot photography. She is a seasoned television producer and on the side an expert headshot photographer. She used her experiences in media to frame an attention-grabbing headshots with the intention of making people feel better about themselves. Camille Wright Felton has over 30 years of experience in television production at CNN. Her once was just a hobby in photography turned out to be a business where she specializes in headshots and branding photography. What we discuss: (00:10) - Meeting Camille Wright Felton, a television production and headshot photographer (04:25) - The start of Camille's photography journey and the importance of continual learning. (07:42) - The significance of professional headshots for dating profiles and LinkedIn. (11:07) - The importance of current and professional headshots in career development. (13:54) - Camille's approach to making clients comfortable during photo sessions. (15:51) - Overcoming the myth of not being photogenic and the importance of a good photographer. Key Takeaways: A good headshot can be the key to making the right first impression, whether for dating or professional purposes. A person’s headshot photo should be an authentic representation of one's self. Finding the right people to help you get the best headshot is important to reflect your true self. Learn more about Camille Wright Felton: Website: category5photography.com/ (http://category5photography.com/)  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/camillewrightfelton/ Instagram: @category5photo (https://www.instagram.com/category5photo/) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How do you really get a Happy Valentine’s day and beyond? In this episode of Mature Allure, I once again had a lovely conversation with dating mentor, Elly Klein. We had a great time talking about relationships and Valentine’s day, particularly from the perspective of women in midlife. Elly shares her personal experiences and advice to help listeners navigate the challenges and expectations in a relationship during this time. Elly Klein is a dating mentor and owner of Your Dating Bestie, a community-based program that helps single women find their Mr. Right. With a personal touch and 24/7 support, just like a best friend, Elly guides women through the dating process, helping them build meaningful relationships. What we discuss: [00:29] - Welcoming Elly Klein, dating mentor and owner of Your Dating Bestie. [01:23] - A Community-Based Approach: How Elly supports women in their dating journeys. [03:32] - Personal Story: A path to finding love and the lessons learned. [04:39] - Effective Dating Strategies: Moving beyond superficial criteria to find meaningful connections. [07:24] - Overcoming Resistance: Encouraging clients to be open-minded and give chances. [11:47] - Navigating Tips: How to approach Valentine’s day in various dating status. Key Takeaways: Effective dating strategies involve looking beyond the initial profile and assessing deeper connections. Valentine's Day can be a fun and low-pressure opportunity to celebrate, regardless of relationship status. Communication is key when navigating Valentine's Day in a new relationship. Learn more about Elly Klein: Website: https://www.ellyklein.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourdatingbestie/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourdatingbestie Podcast: Your Dating Bestie Podcast Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Are you struggling to start or continue with your consultancy business? In this episode of Mature Allure, Carla Cherry, a business coach and consultant, shares how she helped individuals transition from corporate to start their own consultancy. She shares her insights in assisting coaches and consultants in creating and selling high-ticket offers by packaging and pricing their knowledge and expertise. From business coach’s standpoint, Carla emphasizes the importance of embracing imperfection, differentiating oneself in business, and surrounding oneself with a supportive community to foster personal growth and success in entrepreneurship. Carla Cherry is the founder of Cherry Productions and a seasoned expert in video production and business consulting. With a background working with notable figures like Larry King and companies such as Motor Trend, Carla now focuses on helping coaches and consultants craft power offers and optimize their sales strategies. What we discuss: (00:11( - Guest Introduction: Meet Carla Cherry and learn about her background. (00:25) - From Industry to Online Business: Carla’s shift to helping coaches and consultants with power offers. (06:00) - What is a Power Offer?: Understanding how to create an irresistible high-ticket offer. (08:30) - Services Offered: Overview of Carla’s one-on-one and cohort coaching services. (12:45) - Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs: Tips on getting started and embracing imperfection. Key Takeaways: A power offer addresses a significant problem and includes all aspects of that problem, offering a solution that clients are eager to pay for. Jumping into entrepreneurship with authenticity and a willingness to learn from imperfections is essential. Being supported by a community can empower individuals through shared resources, information, tools, and opportunities. Learn more about Carla Cherry: Website: https://carlacherry.co/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carlacherryo/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/carlacherry (http://linkedin.com/in/carlacherry) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Join this community for women. Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Have you ever considered the power of delegation to grow your business? In this insightful episode of Mature Allure, I sit down with Takisha Bromell, the dynamic CEO of GirlFriday Business Solutions. (https://girlfridaybusinesssolutions.com/)Takisha shares her entrepreneurial journey, from founding her virtual executive assistant company to growing it into a 30-member team in over five years. We also look into how business owners can benefit from delegating financial responsibilities to experts, the inspiration behind her business name, and her insights on overcoming challenges and embracing opportunities in midlife entrepreneurship. Tune in for a motivational discussion tailored for business owners and aspiring entrepreneurs seeking to unleash their full potential. Takisha Bromell is the founder of GirlFriday Business Solutions. She provides essential support and strategic guidance to entrepreneurs. With a background that includes project management, authorship, and speaking, Takisha offers invaluable insights into navigating the business world and discovering one's true potential. What we discuss: (00:27) - Takisha's Story and Business Journey (02:47) - GirlFriday Business Solutions (09:50) - The Importance of Delegation (15:42) - Building and Growing a Team (18:17) - Takisha’s Business Success (22:11) - Starting Entrepreneurship at 45 (23:37) - The Role of Mentors in Business (25:16) - Balancing Multiple Roles: Speaker, Author, Entrepreneur (31:14) - Advice for Midlife Entrepreneurs (35:21) - The Origin of 'GirlFriday' Key Takeaways: Seeking mentorship from those who are unbiased can provide clear and valuable insights into your business ideas. Embrace the process of figuring things out and be prepared to pivot quickly to adapt to new challenges. Delegating financial responsibilities to experts, such as a virtual CFO, allows businesses to focus on their core activities. Learn more about Takisha: Website: https://girlfridaybusinesssolutions.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/takisha-bromell-mpm-0405263/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/girlfridaybusinesssolutions Instagram: @girlfridaybusinesssolutions (https://www.instagram.com/girlfridaybusinesssolutions/) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Don’t forget to subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. For feedback, questions, or suggestions for future episodes, reach out to us through our website or social media channels. We’d love to hear from you! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Have you ever wondered what it takes to turn a family home into a thriving hospitality business? In today's episode of Mature Allure, join me as I sit down with the inspiring Nelsons, owners of the Nelson Manor. Together, we explore their journey of transforming their family home into a luxurious five-star vacation rental. From their roots in community service and education to becoming hospitality entrepreneurs, the Nelsons share the creative process and emotional intelligence required for this unique venture. We talk about their seamless integration of personal experiences into their business model, catering to a mature audience seeking peace, privacy, and bespoke experiences. Whether you’re considering entrepreneurship or simply intrigued by the Nelson Manor, this conversation is brimming with valuable insights and boundless inspiration. Tarus and Yolanda Nelson are the dedicated owners of The Nelson Manor, a five-star-rated vacation rental near Washington, D.C. Taurus, a military veteran with a background in IT, and Yolanda, an educator with a passion for hospitality, bring a wealth of experience to their roles. Together, they provide a unique and personalized experience for their guests, making The Nelson Manor a top choice for intimate and memorable stays. What we discuss: (00:19) - Meet the Nelsons: Behind the Success of Nelson Manor (01:32) - Transforming a Home into a Hospitality Haven (02:25) - The Unique Experience of Nelson Manor (05:08) - Expanding Services and Concierge Offerings (17:29) - Advice for Aspiring Hospitality Entrepreneurs (18:16) - Emotional Intelligence in Hospitality (20:03) - Keys to Building Lasting Relationships (20:45) - The Nelson’s Community Engagement and Nonprofit Work (21:31) - Working Together as a Married Couple (23:34) - Tips for Aspiring Entrepreneurs Key Takeaways: The Nelson Manor offers a unique and personalized vacation experience, blending comfort and luxury with the Nelsons' personal touch. Guests can enjoy a variety of curated experiences, from wine tastings to private chef services, all tailored to create a memorable stay. The Manor is an ideal destination for those seeking a peaceful retreat, conveniently located near major attractions yet offering a serene escape from the hustle and bustle. Learn more about The Nelson’s and The Nelson Manor: Website: https://thenelsonmanor.com/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/thenelsonmanor Instagram: @thenelsonmanor (http://instagram.com/thenelsonmanor) Learn more about Sherri O.: Website: https://matureallure.net Facebook: Mature Allure (https://www.facebook.com/4matureallure/) YouTube: Mature Allure (https://www.youtube.com/@mature.allure) Instagram: @mature.allure (https://www.instagram.com/mature.allure/) Subscribe to the Mature Allure podcast for more inspiring stories and discussions on self-love and empowerment. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.